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Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by sexybum 8th June 2010, 7:40 pm
Hey girls,
Hope you are all well?
Has anyone else ever felt that they love their boobs one minute, yet the next they hate them?? Lately I have started to feel unhappy (yet again lol!) with my additions and even think that they are getting smaller as opposed to 'fluffing'! Also, I feel they look quite fake and 'stuck on'
and I'm beginning to feel really conscious of this.
I am starting to regret not opting for a larger cc (although my ps only gave me a choice of 300 or 340) and feel that had I had larger implants I would be happier in their overall look and shape
Do you think I will see more positive changes or should I accept this is the best that they will get?
x x x
Hope you are all well?
Has anyone else ever felt that they love their boobs one minute, yet the next they hate them?? Lately I have started to feel unhappy (yet again lol!) with my additions and even think that they are getting smaller as opposed to 'fluffing'! Also, I feel they look quite fake and 'stuck on'
and I'm beginning to feel really conscious of this.I am starting to regret not opting for a larger cc (although my ps only gave me a choice of 300 or 340) and feel that had I had larger implants I would be happier in their overall look and shape
Do you think I will see more positive changes or should I accept this is the best that they will get?
x x x
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by nads 8th June 2010, 7:42 pm
I think if you went bigger they probably would've looked more stuck on so its good you went with the size you have. From your avatar they look very natural and a good size for you.
I have days when i love them and some when i hate them, but i have this with my hair/skin etc etc too! x
I have days when i love them and some when i hate them, but i have this with my hair/skin etc etc too! x
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by COOKIE 8th June 2010, 7:47 pm
My boobs were still high and tight until 3 months post-op sexybum, so yes, you may well still have changes to come, we all heal differently hun and some of us just take a bit longer than others for our boobs to settle.
I will say that if your boobs have that 'fake look' right now (and that should go once they drop and settle) this would only have been worsened had you gone bigger babe, so you should have absolutely no regrets there sweetness.
It might be worthwhile asking your surgeon if you'd be OK to massage your breasts to encourage them to drop to a more natural shape, when they do this, you'll see that they get more lower pole and are much fuller instead of rounded. xxx
I will say that if your boobs have that 'fake look' right now (and that should go once they drop and settle) this would only have been worsened had you gone bigger babe, so you should have absolutely no regrets there sweetness.
It might be worthwhile asking your surgeon if you'd be OK to massage your breasts to encourage them to drop to a more natural shape, when they do this, you'll see that they get more lower pole and are much fuller instead of rounded. xxx
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by Funkygirl 8th June 2010, 7:51 pm
I have days like this too, most of the time I love my boobies but then sometimes (especially in a push up bra and fitted dress) they look pretty big and well just there and other times I think "Oh no they're getting smaller!", I think the emotional rollercoster doesn't stop once we've had the op, I still feel like I'm on it sometimes!
I think if you had gone any bigger, they would probably have felt more "stuck on", I'm sure they just need more time to drop and settle hun. You look fab in your avvy btw, so enjoy them boobies!
x x
I think if you had gone any bigger, they would probably have felt more "stuck on", I'm sure they just need more time to drop and settle hun. You look fab in your avvy btw, so enjoy them boobies!
x x
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by misf1 8th June 2010, 7:59 pm
I didn't hate mine but I'm not the most patient person in the world so I did have some frustrated days where I just wished they would hurry up and settle drop even up and soften. It felt like they were taking ages to heal. But now it feels like it went really quickly. Don't worry I'm sure in a few more months you will feel different
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by sexybum 8th June 2010, 8:34 pm
Thank you ladies!
I always feel so much better after your advice and support
, I am very impatient and abit of a perfectionist...must learn to just chill and WAIT 
x x
I always feel so much better after your advice and support
, I am very impatient and abit of a perfectionist...must learn to just chill and WAIT Thank you hun, you've made me smile!Funkygirl wrote:You look fab in your avvy btw, so enjoy them boobies!
x x
x x
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by zoeb 8th June 2010, 9:55 pm
I sometimes ponder mine a bit too much but then I look at my 'before' pictures and realise i have boobs that are a million times better than i had before. Puts it all in perspective for me. Mine aren't perfect either but I am sure you wouldn't go back to what you had. Your boobs look great to me anyway, don't worry, still more changes to come for both of us :) xx
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by sexybum 12th June 2010, 6:23 pm
zoeb wrote:I sometimes ponder mine a bit too much but then I look at my 'before' pictures and realise i have boobs that are a million times better than i had before. Puts it all in perspective for me. Mine aren't perfect either but I am sure you wouldn't go back to what you had. Your boobs look great to me anyway, don't worry, still more changes to come for both of us :) xx
Thank you so much hun
x x
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by AdrianneSamuella 12th June 2010, 6:36 pm
Yeah, I share your pain, babe. 
At nearly 6 weeks post op, my boobs have yet to drop though I've tried a chest band, sleep on my front and gently massage them. They are still stuck on and that frustrates me especially since I still look flat chested in tops.
Somedays I'm very disappointed and angry with myself for spending so much money and then wish I had been more patient and found a surgeon who only do big implants no matter how small your BW is. I also want them out and I'm eager for a reop as soon as possible lol.
Yet, other days I look at my before pics and feel so happy I have made the right decision, that I have bigger boobs than before and just tell mself I got to be patient and they will drop, they will look big and normal soon!
Just cheer up sweetie. It' just a phase and we know the results will be worth it. As it been said, we all heal differently.
At nearly 6 weeks post op, my boobs have yet to drop though I've tried a chest band, sleep on my front and gently massage them. They are still stuck on and that frustrates me especially since I still look flat chested in tops.
Somedays I'm very disappointed and angry with myself for spending so much money and then wish I had been more patient and found a surgeon who only do big implants no matter how small your BW is. I also want them out and I'm eager for a reop as soon as possible lol.
Yet, other days I look at my before pics and feel so happy I have made the right decision, that I have bigger boobs than before and just tell mself I got to be patient and they will drop, they will look big and normal soon!
Just cheer up sweetie. It' just a phase and we know the results will be worth it. As it been said, we all heal differently.
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Re: Love/hate relationship with my boobies :-(
by sexybum 12th June 2010, 6:54 pm
Thanks Adrianne hun!
Patience is a virtue, although not one of my strong points
x x
Patience is a virtue, although not one of my strong points
x x
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