NOT HAPPY GIRLS X.

Not feeling happy at all girls didnt expect to feel like this at all. all my worrying if 310g would be too big for me and they look soooo small i got relly upset today i dont know weater its the medication as well has me feeling really down.but i know its only 1 day since my surgery they are very thight and flat looking is this the way they do be with unders i hope they fluff out or some thing, like at to paying out all that money and im not happy.have been crying all morning. any one got any advise for me or felt this way after their surgery i would be very grateful for any advise thanks girls x x x.

Hey hun

I have no personal experience of unders so cant help to much with that. But I just wanted to say that at 1day PO you have sooo so many changes to come and I know its disapointing when your expecting something different but you watch over the next couple of weeks they will change. What you must remember aswell is with unders the muscle is holding the implant tight so when they start to relax your boobs will start to fluff. I know its tough but hang in there cos they will change. xx

Oh no I'm really sorry to hear your unhappy. I can't comment too much as sat in hospital bed lol. I also had modest sized implants 300s and ATM they are looking pretty big, I had overs and wanted to look as real and natural as poss, bearing in mind I was as flat as a pancake. I was also thinking of going up to 325s but really glad I didn't, you can always make them
look bigger very easily but if they looked too big I wouldve been very unhappy. EVERYONE I've heard talking about unders say how much they have and
continue to change, so they are more likely to get bigger, change and maybe fluff. I've seen lots of evidence of this and almost considered changing to unders for this exact reason myself but could not because I have too muscle. (think I should have been a boy) Honestly I believe you've done the right thing and you will be really pleased when they start too settle in your skin!
So much for this not being long. Hope your ok :-)
what size were you to start off with and your stats if you don't mind mr asking? XXXXXXX

thanks girls.I was a 32a bra.size well thats what i wore but i didnt really fill it. im 5ft and a size 6.my PS told me i should be a full c cup with 310 but i dont think they look that size probaly when i get fitted in 6 weeks time plz God i will feel different and will be happy with them x x x.

Lee, please be patient and try not to fret, I had unders 240 went from AA to D/DD cup in 8 months......... in answer to your question,

YES, they do take time, and they are being squashed into a SB I hope, the muscles will be tight from the invasion and the muscles take time to become supple again, and stretch to allow the implant to take its shape...... they will drop, it will take some weeks yet, when they first drop, one may go first, and you might be lop sided as I was, then they level out and then after some months they fill out........... it takes at least 4 months hun............ with unders that is....

if you want to see how flat I was pm me and you can see what 240 has done for me........ xxxxxxxxx

ah thanks girls i have to say who ever set up this forum i am very grateful to them. every one is so nice and helpful, im only getting myself aronud this lately, it wont let me pm any one why is that x x x.

Probably because you have only just joined??

Hiya Lee, I just want to reassure to be patient hun, it is very early days and you will have lots of changes to go through. I didn't have unders myself, but I know from reading the posts on here that when they drop and settle they will fluff. I think the meds you're on will probably be making you feel more emotional, I know I was.

I think you have to have done about 30 posts before you can pm anyone hun.

xxx

Dont be upset hon, seriously!
Its the GA making you feel worse for a start. I was like that for about two weeks.
I had partials 450cc and I did look small until day 30 odd when they fluffed!
The difference was amazing.
I have pics on another web site if you would like to see.
I promise you they will change a lot over the next few weeks so dont be upset.

xx

they will get bigger and your so tiny i honestly think once they fluff they will look much bigger
xxx

Lee, the girsl who have had unders all seem bery convinced you will see a lot fo changes and they will appear bigger. On such a tiny frame they will surely take yo to a C or D I would have thought.

On your low mood... on day two and three I was THOROUGHLY miserable!!!! It is to be expected I was told and is a result of the GA, meds and a bit of shock at what has just gone on. The low mood WILL pass and then you can think more optimistically about your new boobs.

Take care xx

The first few days PO are the worst, I was very emotional too and the fact that I was very poorly didn't help eirther! It does pass thou, just takes a bit of time, hang in there hun, it does get better

I had overs so can't offer any personal experience with regards to unders, but I am sure of this, you are very early days yet and the boobies you have now will not be the boobies you end up with. There are many many changes to come and seeing these changes is a very exciting time, well it was for me anyway!

Above all just be patient hun and you will soon grow to love your

x x

I totally agree the first week or so after a GA can make you feel quite miserable, but it does go. I didn't have unders, but they tend to change quite a lot over the weeks and months ahead, no matter what placement you have.

I agree, you have lots of changes to come.

I had overs and my boobs looked pointy at first! I carried on fluffing up til 8-9 months post op.

Your boobs will definately drop and settle, mine started to look more natural and drop after about the 3 week mark.

Keep positive and take lots of pictures so that you can look back and see the difference.

xxx

Mine were exactly the same when i first had them done! I'm only 5'2 and size 6 and was a 32a pre op. I only had 265 unders and didn't think mine looked that big for a while after i had them done - in tops they looked just like I had my gel bra on! I was wearing a 32c sports bra then a 34c and thought thats all I'd end up as. At 6 weeks I measured 30E and now at a year post op have various sizes of bra from 32dd/32E to 30E/F!
Don't worry and give it time - unders take a while to settle - at least 6months til they finally drop and soften properly!
claire x

Hi hun,
I can really understand how low your feeling as I was exactly the same!! I still have days where I think what have I done?? But the girls are all right, it takes some time for your new boobs to get to the shape you will end up with....please don't despair, time will paint a different picture

x x x

thanks girls going to go to bed now try and have good nights sleep, hopefully feel better 2moro nite nite girls x x x.

I have pm'd you hun as you can't pm out yet....... us and password for pictrail.. x

katie said i was going asleep but still cant sleep, cant seem to get in to see ur albums hun, havent got the hang of this yet, how do i even add friends i joined face book couple of months ago and still havent even got the hang of that ha ha! im usless with computers. but thanks in any way. have to put a few more posts up untill i can PM any one i think i.m logging of now and will log on 2moro nite girls and take care lee x x x.

Hi Lee!! You will be fine babe. You have had a big procedure done and it's a different animal when you have an elective op to one you have medical need for, not to mention the cost!! You have had unders, they will take time to settle. I would of thought the laws of physics would dictate that you can't put in a 310g implant into a 5' size 6 withot seeing a really decent difference. You will just have to accept that time will give you your boobs - I am the worlds least patient person too so watch out for similar posts from me in a couple of months!!!!

And on the computer stuff, my hubby calls me Victorian Woman!!.
But you will need 30 posts before you can view pics and send any pm's. For picturetrail, I have to type picturetrail i(just picturetrail)nto the google search box and then select the first option otherwise I seem to get to login/ members areas. Then on the top right you put in the user name and if that is incorrect then you won't get access to next page. ( it is case sensitive and you need to type in as it's written) Then (again case sensitive) you pu in the password and may need to put it in on the clicked on album too.
Sorry if the above is too in depth - but it's generally what I need!!

Take it easy xx

Hi Lee - i understand how you are feeling as I am exactly the same at the moment. It is still very early days for the both of us as the girls have said, and lots of changes to come, so hopefully in a bit of time you will begin to feel happier with your result.
I have to agree that due to your stats though, I really don't think you will have a problem, so try not to worry hun xx

hi lee, i just joined this forum cos i'm feeling EXACTLY the same as you! it could have been me writing your post lol! i had a ba 7yrs ago, and i absolutely loved them, but then they ruptured so i had to have them re-done

i've just had my 2nd ba with an uplift on 12th april, so i'm 10days post op now, and since i had my dressings off 2days ago, i've done nothing but cry! they looked brill when they were first done, but now all the swelling seems to be going down, they look so squished and flat to my chest! i had overs last time, but this time my surgeon did unders, and i desperately wanted to be bigger than last time

last time i had 395cc overs, and this time i've had the uplift with 460cc unders.....so i just assumed they'd be lovely and big this time!

i've been taking pics every couple of days, so i can look back in a few mths and see all the changes

i'm just trying to take heart from all the advice and help that the girls on here give, and i must admit, it DOES make you feel more positive

sorry for rambling, but its just i am exactly in the same boat as you, so i'll keep an eye out for your posts to see how you're getting on.....

ah thanks girls, you are all so good, like wise hope you feel differently too x x x.

Hi Lovely
Try not to worry, I know thats easier said than done mind you. The medication and the GA will make you feel emotional at times so try and relax and take it easy until you start feeling a bit better as the GA starts to get out of your system.
Sending you
Lots of love
Grace
xxxx

Hi,

You are sooo tiny and with your frame 310s will def give you good boobies!!

Try and be patient and not too look at them to often, I know that is hard through my personal experience. Take weekly pictures and feel positive at their changes........if ur worried speak to your PS at your follow-up........but they will be fine - you'll see!!

Take care and rest up lots now xxxxxx