peoples reactions when you tell them ?

Hiya
just wanted to know what peoples reactions have been to you having your boobs done either if you have told them or they have found out ? Ive made an effort not to tell anyone unless they need to know as didnt want it to be a big thing but my sister in law just found out via mother in law and she is being really off with me saying that she could think of better things to waste 4 grand on !!!! I dont feel I have to justify myself to anyone but you know that feeling when someone makes you feel like a naughty school girl xxxxxx



lea

I haven't really told anyone either xx not because I'm scared of reactions, I just don't think it's anyone else's business xx

That was a bit mean of her saying that to you xx She is probably just jealous hun xx jealous that you are having it done or maybe jealous that you have the money available to have it done xx either way don't worry about it xx you are gonna have a fantastic set of new boobies soon xx Don't let her and her opinions spoil it xx

Ahh thanx kay , I wont let her spoil it I just wish she would keep her opinions to herself Im a grown women and I wouldnt dream of telling her how to spend her money lol everyone else that nows has been great its only family havent told any friends as they dont need to know if someone asks Ill tell them but Im not shouting it from the rooftops !!!!

kay wrote:I haven't really told anyone either xx not because I'm scared of reactions, I just don't think it's anyone else's business xx

Exactly the same for me.

Just before my re-op I was out shopping and bumped into a friend of mine and my husbands, he's an old friend who we grew up with and I've always had a brotherly relationship with. Because of the rupture it doubled the size of my boob and did make me look so large up top (all my clothes are fitted) He asked me quite openly if I'd had a boob job and I almost slapped his face! I just think it's plain rude to comment on a womans breasts like they have a right to have an opinion! They don't and I told him! (I was a little upset that day too, because I didn't go out when my breast expanded and this was a rare shopping trip and I was very self conscious so the fact someone commented on them horrified me)

He was so apologetic that I ended up feeling bad for how I reacted, but I stand by thinking it rude to appraoch someone and ask about their boobs. It really isn't anyones business. I think our friend learned a lesson from that day too

awwww did you suffer really bad with your rupture was it painful ? did you have to pay for your re-op , I agree its rude to ask someone about the boobs !!!

lea1983 wrote:awwww did you suffer really bad with your rupture was it painful ? did you have to pay for your re-op , I agree its rude to ask someone about the boobs !!!

Yeah, it was painful hun. it also effected me psychologically too. I think having to deal with how it looked hurt me more than the pain if that makes sense.

I had a difficult time sorting out my re-op (feel free to read my blog - cookies journey in breast aug diaries) The damage the rupture caused was irrepairable without an uplift. Transform honoured their aftercare policy covering the rupture and I got a free op and surgeon, becuase I wanted smaller implants those weren't covered by the after-care but my surgeon provided those for free for me, I had to pay for the uplift though myself at a cost of £3,000. I'm still not happy about that, but I am happy it's all over now. xxxx

awww hunni that's not good well if its any consolation you look great now ill read your blog otherwise ill be firing millions of questions at you !!!!

I haven't told many people only those dearest and nearest and they've been really supportive.

Quite frankly its no one elses business, as long as your happy with your decision dont worry about other people

P.s..... she's probably just jealous

Danielle wrote:P.s..... she's probably just jealous

My partner says that is most probably the cause, she is quite short with us whenever money is concerned its not as if Im getting myself into debt its being paid for out of my own savings lol !!!! thats part of the reason I chose not to tell her !!!! dam mother in law
Im just avoiding the subject with her we are out for dinner with her tomorrow though !!! xxxxxx

Hey I havent stopped tellin ppl becoz im so exited but i neva get the reaction i expect. its usually ... why??? n its like wtf y cnt ppl be happy for me.iv learned my lesson nd stopped tellin ppl. thats y i love this forum every1 is team boobies and so supprtive.its gnna make u happy so ignor negative comments, i do
nuthin ne1 sez is puttin me off!! xxxx

heather09treva wrote:Hey I havent stopped tellin ppl becoz im so exited but i neva get the reaction i expect. its usually ... why??? n its like wtf y cnt ppl be happy for me.iv learned my lesson nd stopped tellin ppl. thats y i love this forum every1 is team boobies and so supprtive.its gnna make u happy so ignor negative comments, i do
nuthin ne1 sez is puttin me off!! xxxx

hell yea TEAM Boobies !!!!! hahaha Im not telling anyone else now just getting rather nervous as I go in tomorrow !!!!! xxxx