Embarrassing question!

by _Carrie_ 28th February 2009, 1:42 pm

Ahem.... :evil:

Oh well, here goes! I had sex a couple of nights ago and, as you do, I got caught up in the passion and forgot to be careful with my new boobs! The thing is, my boobs have been feeling really achy and sore yesterday and today, as if I've gone back a couple of steps in my recovery. I'm really worried I have done myself a damage. Do you think I have?

Has this happened to any of you? I'm a bit annoyed with myself as I read in my Mybreast booklet that you should leave it 3 weeks before having sex and it was only 2 for me...

C x

PS - he LOVED them though!!!! Heart

by _Carrie_ 28th February 2009, 1:43 pm

All the emoticons came out wrong for some reason - it was supposed to be the embarrassed one! lol

by amanda2k10 28th February 2009, 1:50 pm

oooo that may have been why i got a little sore at 10 days, but im ok now and had sex since. i find that holding them helps Hysterical

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i dont think you will have damaged them as such, just maybe used your muscles to much and now they are achey.
i would advise that you only do it again when you feel comforable and dont do it while you are still sore.
glad he liked them hunni. but i guessed he would

sorry if i havnt helped much hunni
hugs
amanda
xxxxxxxxxxxxx

by angelicfruitcake 28th February 2009, 4:09 pm

I think I was somewhere between 1 and 2 weeks the first time...oops...I was ok but I did keep my sexy surgical bra on! Blush

I'm sure you won't have done any real harm...but I think it's kinda easy to concentrate on the fun stuff and not register the fact that you're sore! Just listen to your own body etc :)

by emrussell79 28th February 2009, 5:12 pm

Hiya hun, im sure you will be fine, like Amanda said, you have probs just used the muscles a bit more so they are a bit sore now. If you had damaged them you would know hun coz you would be in pain, not just sore. Just try to take it easy for a few days and im sure you will be back to normal in no time x

by kellyrobbo 28th February 2009, 6:13 pm

hi hun..

i had sex after a week! Shocked

lol

i asked my surgeon how long i had to wait and he just said when ever i felt comfortable enough.. we did it with me on top though so i controlled the bouncing so to speak!! :oops: i kept my oh so sexy post op sports bra on and held on to my new precious babies like my life depended on it! not the most romantic sex we've ever had but, you know, needs must and all that!!! lol

i dought you've done any damage hun, prob just used the muscle more than you have up till now, just rest up a bit sweetie and leave it a few weeks before you start swinging from the lightshade!!

kelly
xx

by charlie1pink 28th February 2009, 8:35 pm

Oh god i feel really bad now, i had sex 2 days after my ba....
Mine were abit sore too but they did recover! Keep your sports bra on for abit of support, not too sexy i know but it may help xx

by _Carrie_ 28th February 2009, 8:58 pm

LOL...thanks everyone! That's good to know. What worried me was that my bra came off and stayed off! Oops - what would my surgeon say?!

Will keep it on next time! hehe

C x

by **RoxyChick** 1st March 2009, 10:40 am

kellyrobbo wrote:we did it with me on top though so i controlled the bouncing so to speak!! :oops: i kept my oh so sexy post op sports bra on and held on to my new precious babies like my life depended on it! not the most romantic sex we've ever had but, you know, needs must and all that!!! lol

Same here lovely!