Boobies dropped TOO much!!?!!!??
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Boobies dropped TOO much!!?!!!??
OK,
So since I am the Queen of panic and all things negative I have yet another worry and dilemma on the way.
I briefly mentioned this before but its starting to grate at me more and more now to the point where I am starting to get really critical of my boobs all over again- almost to the way I was before I'd had the op done!! I don't wana sound like a whinging ungrateful cow, especially to those girls who are still awaiting their special day. But the problem is that I actually am starting to worry about the degree at which they have dropped.
SarahsBabies I totally agree with what you said about having experienced saggy before and therefore getting used to how high they were at first and now fearing they're dropping more than they actually are. But I guess I am a little worried still, that for boobs that are only 6 weeks post op they are already quite significantly lower in position than they were. I barely had a prominent inframammary crease- you know the bit where we used to fail the pencil test miserably?- after the op for about 3 weeks and they were VERY pert, but then, after week 3 everything suddenly sped right up recovery wise (apart from the crater of course), the swelling really subsided and they er, well, just literally 'dropped'.
I like how they are soft and very natural looking, and I'm generally happy with the size (duno what cup but probably only a large C/small D after having only 240CCs) And, I would be pretty sound with them if they were to stay this shape and position for the next few years at least. But the reason I worry is because I feel like- if this is only 6 weeks PO and they have really settled and changed THIS much in such a short period of time, then are they simply on their way to being back how they were, just a little bigger!!? Its like I am scared that the old type boobs are fighting to get back out and my body WANTS me to be saggy and sad again! lol!!
I have been advised, when feeling this way, simply to look back on my pre-op photos to 'perk' myself up a bit but-
And here is the most annoying thing....I am SOOOO livid, but my pre-op photos- I only had 3 of them. And they were on my personal camera because the surgeon didn't take any!....And I have LOST them. I never uploaded them because the computer wasn't working at the time. They were on my memory card, and I went out last weekend and LOST the bloody memory card along with the camera case!!!! Stupid stupid stupid move but I forgot the memory card was even IN the case and now its lost. So I have NO recollection of my pre-op boobs. Except for ONE measely and grainy bad quality side view pic on my phone!!!....And now some poor bugger may find this memory card and use it, and get the shock of their life when they see that!! No, sod that- I am just livid that I now have no more comparisons. And I cant even show you girls so that you can advise and judge what I am talking about fairly!! I should never have been so lazy and just uploaded them as soon as I sorted the computer last week. :-(
So there you have it. Another of my life!!
Obviously I can take new pics of myboobs NOW and upload them but its annoying coz now I can't even show other people the week by week progress photo records I had before.
Sorry if I sound like an ungrateful cow but I guess I am honestly just so scared and paranoid of going back to the rocks in socks boobs!!
If I post some photos of what they look like now, will people be willing to give me a brutally honest opinion as to whether they think the position of my new boobs are a good or not so good result when regarding anchor uplifts? I duno if I am over worrying or if this is something I need to put to my surgeon!!
You've all been amazing help so far and I'm really grateful.
X X X
So since I am the Queen of panic and all things negative I have yet another worry and dilemma on the way.
I briefly mentioned this before but its starting to grate at me more and more now to the point where I am starting to get really critical of my boobs all over again- almost to the way I was before I'd had the op done!! I don't wana sound like a whinging ungrateful cow, especially to those girls who are still awaiting their special day. But the problem is that I actually am starting to worry about the degree at which they have dropped.
SarahsBabies I totally agree with what you said about having experienced saggy before and therefore getting used to how high they were at first and now fearing they're dropping more than they actually are. But I guess I am a little worried still, that for boobs that are only 6 weeks post op they are already quite significantly lower in position than they were. I barely had a prominent inframammary crease- you know the bit where we used to fail the pencil test miserably?- after the op for about 3 weeks and they were VERY pert, but then, after week 3 everything suddenly sped right up recovery wise (apart from the crater of course), the swelling really subsided and they er, well, just literally 'dropped'.
I like how they are soft and very natural looking, and I'm generally happy with the size (duno what cup but probably only a large C/small D after having only 240CCs) And, I would be pretty sound with them if they were to stay this shape and position for the next few years at least. But the reason I worry is because I feel like- if this is only 6 weeks PO and they have really settled and changed THIS much in such a short period of time, then are they simply on their way to being back how they were, just a little bigger!!? Its like I am scared that the old type boobs are fighting to get back out and my body WANTS me to be saggy and sad again! lol!!
I have been advised, when feeling this way, simply to look back on my pre-op photos to 'perk' myself up a bit but-
And here is the most annoying thing....I am SOOOO livid, but my pre-op photos- I only had 3 of them. And they were on my personal camera because the surgeon didn't take any!....And I have LOST them. I never uploaded them because the computer wasn't working at the time. They were on my memory card, and I went out last weekend and LOST the bloody memory card along with the camera case!!!! Stupid stupid stupid move but I forgot the memory card was even IN the case and now its lost. So I have NO recollection of my pre-op boobs. Except for ONE measely and grainy bad quality side view pic on my phone!!!....And now some poor bugger may find this memory card and use it, and get the shock of their life when they see that!! No, sod that- I am just livid that I now have no more comparisons. And I cant even show you girls so that you can advise and judge what I am talking about fairly!! I should never have been so lazy and just uploaded them as soon as I sorted the computer last week. :-(
So there you have it. Another of my life!!
Obviously I can take new pics of myboobs NOW and upload them but its annoying coz now I can't even show other people the week by week progress photo records I had before.
Sorry if I sound like an ungrateful cow but I guess I am honestly just so scared and paranoid of going back to the rocks in socks boobs!!
If I post some photos of what they look like now, will people be willing to give me a brutally honest opinion as to whether they think the position of my new boobs are a good or not so good result when regarding anchor uplifts? I duno if I am over worrying or if this is something I need to put to my surgeon!!
You've all been amazing help so far and I'm really grateful.
X X X
CherryCheesecake- Active BJSF Member
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Re: Boobies dropped TOO much!!?!!!??
Hi hun, sorry to hear you are feeling so down about your boobs at the moment , I'm sure you will start to them again soon. I can sympathise with the camera thing although I didn't lose mine, I was taking a pic of my new and dropped the camera on the floor with the lens open...I hasten to add it bounced and is now broken . Luckily I had the before pics and some new ones on a memory stick but it's still annoying about the camera.
Put some pics on picturetrail hun and I'll give you my honest opinion.
xxx
Put some pics on picturetrail hun and I'll give you my honest opinion.
xxx
Gemma31- BJSF Addict
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Re: Boobies dropped TOO much!!?!!!??
TRY NOT TO WORRY TOO MUCH. I KNOW I AM ONLY 13 DAYS POST OP BUT I AM ALREADY HAVING GOOD AND BAD DAYS...TODAY IS A BAD DAY AND I HATE MY NEW BOOBS. I AM SURE THIS IS NORMAL AND YOU WILL LVE YOUR NEW BOOBS. WHY NOT TRY ON SOME OLD UNDERWEAR AND THEN YOU WILL REALISE U DO HAVE NOW LOVELY BOOBIES :) X
scarybiscuits- Newbie BJSF Member
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hia cherry
i had an anchor uplift and i would love to see your pics i feel all iv done since iv haD my new boobs is complain aout them so i think its normall especilly with uplifts as its a longer recovery time and lot to get used to pm me your details and ill pm you my pics so you can have a look at my uplift
i had an anchor uplift and i would love to see your pics i feel all iv done since iv haD my new boobs is complain aout them so i think its normall especilly with uplifts as its a longer recovery time and lot to get used to pm me your details and ill pm you my pics so you can have a look at my uplift
tuttifruitibeck- BJSF Addict
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Lets have a looksy then hun x. You've seen mine, now its time to show me yours
sarahsbabies- BJSF Elite Member
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Cheers Ladies!
I'm glad I'm not the only one with down days. I feel so ungrateful when I moan but I am honestly just worried. I knew they were never going to be perfect from the start, it was more about just improving them to the best they could be rather than being flat chested and size being the primary issue.
They are of course waaaaaaaaaaay better than before. Thats why I feel like I am being unrealistic, but when they were first done I couldn't believe they could be THAT high up on my chest after years of being droopy and shrivelled and nasty. Its only that I got really used to that look, and now they are softer and squishier and the breast crease has developed more its like I'm scared they're never going to STOP dropping!
SB sure! lol Sorry I have been meaning to share, just had probs with the computer and then the memory card loss dilemma happened! Add that to the countless fat days that I thought 'No way am I taking any pics!' and thats why I've taken a century over it. At present the camera needs batteries. I will text OH now and ask him to pick up some on his way home and then I can take some pics tonight to post tomorrow. Shame there won't be any before pics.
:-( but I'll see if OH can bluetooth the one small pre-op photo I had on my phone to the computer and you may just be able to make out what they looked like. Gutted because the camera quality on the phone is really bad and its a side view pose not from the front. But I'd at least like to try and get that up so that people can be fair in their judgement of my results.
Oh and FYI girls- I can't PM details yet because the rule has changed now and made it so that you can't PM unless you're on 30 posts or over! I used to use this site solely for PMs as I wasn't familiar with rules or how it all worked, so thats why my post count is quite low!! I am sure by tomorrow I'll be able to PM with my username and PW though. :-)
Watch this space!! :-)
X X X
I'm glad I'm not the only one with down days. I feel so ungrateful when I moan but I am honestly just worried. I knew they were never going to be perfect from the start, it was more about just improving them to the best they could be rather than being flat chested and size being the primary issue.
They are of course waaaaaaaaaaay better than before. Thats why I feel like I am being unrealistic, but when they were first done I couldn't believe they could be THAT high up on my chest after years of being droopy and shrivelled and nasty. Its only that I got really used to that look, and now they are softer and squishier and the breast crease has developed more its like I'm scared they're never going to STOP dropping!
SB sure! lol Sorry I have been meaning to share, just had probs with the computer and then the memory card loss dilemma happened! Add that to the countless fat days that I thought 'No way am I taking any pics!' and thats why I've taken a century over it. At present the camera needs batteries. I will text OH now and ask him to pick up some on his way home and then I can take some pics tonight to post tomorrow. Shame there won't be any before pics.
:-( but I'll see if OH can bluetooth the one small pre-op photo I had on my phone to the computer and you may just be able to make out what they looked like. Gutted because the camera quality on the phone is really bad and its a side view pose not from the front. But I'd at least like to try and get that up so that people can be fair in their judgement of my results.
Oh and FYI girls- I can't PM details yet because the rule has changed now and made it so that you can't PM unless you're on 30 posts or over! I used to use this site solely for PMs as I wasn't familiar with rules or how it all worked, so thats why my post count is quite low!! I am sure by tomorrow I'll be able to PM with my username and PW though. :-)
Watch this space!! :-)
X X X
CherryCheesecake- Active BJSF Member
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You've got 30 posts now hun x
sarahsbabies- BJSF Elite Member
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i need 30 posts lol x
scarybiscuits- Newbie BJSF Member
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Re: Boobies dropped TOO much!!?!!!??
you have got 30 posts you can pm now babe
tuttifruitibeck- BJSF Addict
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Re: Boobies dropped TOO much!!?!!!??
Hi CherryCheescake!!
Sorry not much help with the uplift!! However, think perhaps you are being rather hard on yourself, on top of a bad day...not good...you will gather that you are not alone in this. It is often more of an emotional journey than anything else...time and patience is needed, particularly when you have had more invasive surgery.
I have seen the other ladies pics. with uplifts that have responded to you, with similar concerns. I can honestly say I believe they all have great results!! much better placed, shaped, perkier boobs than before, as their aim was. I am happy to have a look at pics. and give an honest opinion if you want to share.
Sorry about your loss of pics. done now.!! I did not have any either, never gave it a second thought, however, my surgeon had a few so sent me copies....they sure remind me of how lucky I am now!!
Thinking of you....take it easy on yourself xx
Sorry not much help with the uplift!! However, think perhaps you are being rather hard on yourself, on top of a bad day...not good...you will gather that you are not alone in this. It is often more of an emotional journey than anything else...time and patience is needed, particularly when you have had more invasive surgery.
I have seen the other ladies pics. with uplifts that have responded to you, with similar concerns. I can honestly say I believe they all have great results!! much better placed, shaped, perkier boobs than before, as their aim was. I am happy to have a look at pics. and give an honest opinion if you want to share.
Sorry about your loss of pics. done now.!! I did not have any either, never gave it a second thought, however, my surgeon had a few so sent me copies....they sure remind me of how lucky I am now!!
Thinking of you....take it easy on yourself xx
Mia- BJSF Elite Member
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When I went over for my two weeks check up and to have dressings removed, the nurse got my before pics out and asked me if I wanted them. Well, I just said noooooo!!
What about if someone found them hidden in an undewear draw or something. Couldn't take the risk!
What about if someone found them hidden in an undewear draw or something. Couldn't take the risk!
leyla488- Active BJSF Member
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leyla488 wrote:When I went over for my two weeks check up and to have dressings removed, the nurse got my before pics out and asked me if I wanted them. Well, I just said noooooo!!
What about if someone found them hidden in an undewear draw or something. Couldn't take the risk!
Know how you feel there Leyla!! Ripped them up..... well shredded the little devils!! However, they are on picturetrail
Mia- BJSF Elite Member
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