Thought I'd love them by now...
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misf1
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Thought I'd love them by now...
Well its been 3 weeks since my BA and I thought I'd be walking round with a big fat smile on my face but to be honest I'm not really loving them. They have started to soften but still look stuck on, I have loads of little spots on my chest and in between my boobies and they have shrunk so much that I'm starting to think I wasted my money. My hubby thinks they look massive but I'm sure he's just saying it to make me feel better. Anyway thats my little moan over just hope I change my mind about them soon xxx
kerrymac1- BJSF Addict
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
my chap says the same when i say mine are small. i to thought id be beaming, but i worry they are small, but really they are so much bigger than pre op.
and 375 is a good size imlant hun, have you got pics? keep looking back over them, or put them on PT and we can all reassure you.
and 375 is a good size imlant hun, have you got pics? keep looking back over them, or put them on PT and we can all reassure you.
fluffy_bunn1e- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
I have a few pics FB but to be honest because I'm not that keen on then I haven't taken as many as I should really, I got my hubby to take some a few days after the op and I could have killed him as I looked so fat it just put me off completely .
I just don't like the thought of wasting nearly 5 grand but as you say they have got to be bigger than before xxxx
I just don't like the thought of wasting nearly 5 grand but as you say they have got to be bigger than before xxxx
kerrymac1- BJSF Addict
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exactly hun, stop being so hard on yourself, they will still change and you ll love them, try not to jude them too much, give it time xxx
fluffy_bunn1e- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
Ahhh Kerrymac......sounds like you need some encouragement and confidence in your boobies........I think it will take some time for you to get used to them......it's early days so they will drop, soften and start to look more 'natural'....u had a decent implant size and I bet they look fab!!! You need some reassurance, have you shown anyone else other than your OH, maybe your best friend, sister, mum....??? We are here to help, support and reassure you! xxx
Tonic28- BJSF Addict
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
They always look rubbish in a sports bra, theyy squash them down and make you think they are small, they will be high and stuck on looking for a few more weeks and the spots do go. Just wait until your in the pretty bras, you will change your mind about them then.
Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
Aww hun sorry you're not loving them right now. It took me a good 6 weeks to get used to having these alien things stuck down my top. I think when you're looking at them every day you don't notice the subtle changes.
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
Aw hun :console:
It took me a while to adjust to mine too, and like Misf1 says sports bras don't help because they compress them and are not very flattering!!
Give it a bit of time sweety x when I got down about mine I summoned all my courage and posted some pics and asked the girls on here what they thought, and that really really helped xx sometimes we over analyse ourselves xx
It took me a while to adjust to mine too, and like Misf1 says sports bras don't help because they compress them and are not very flattering!!
Give it a bit of time sweety x when I got down about mine I summoned all my courage and posted some pics and asked the girls on here what they thought, and that really really helped xx sometimes we over analyse ourselves xx
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
I felt similar, but I had an uplift aswell, so its different, but one you are wearing proper bra's and you've got a lovely shape, you will start to feel better, only 3 more weeks then you can dress them up properly. Try not to get too down about it. Have you tried on a proper bra, just to see what they look like? Dont keep it on, just to get a preview of how they will look, perhaps you could try that to cheer yourself up Pop into la senza xx
sarahsbabies- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Thought I'd love them by now...
.x. they take some getting used to and they always look starnge to start with..mine looked so stuck on and high up at first and really strange shape but then week by week the swelling reduced and they started to drop and look more natural as well as softening up a lot. I'm sure once they start to settle you will feel differently about them and also as everyone else has pointed out, you had a good sized implant so i wouldn't worry about them being small, they will definitely be wayyy bigger than waht you started with xxxxxxx .x.
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