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Worried
by lisxxx9 4th November 2009, 11:10 am
Hi,
Having BA next friday, and I know this is normal, but starting to really get worried about it going wrong ie capsular contraction, infections and all the rest, it's the thought that I could end up looking worse when tbh not much wrong just now just a wee bit stretched after two babies. I don't think I could cope if they ended up looking worse and not being able to do anything to sort them. Sorry if I've scared anyone who's having BA in next few days but didn't help when last night OH said " it's not too late to back out!!" I know I won't back out but just can't help thinking something will go wrong. How can I stop worrying?
lis
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Having BA next friday, and I know this is normal, but starting to really get worried about it going wrong ie capsular contraction, infections and all the rest, it's the thought that I could end up looking worse when tbh not much wrong just now just a wee bit stretched after two babies. I don't think I could cope if they ended up looking worse and not being able to do anything to sort them. Sorry if I've scared anyone who's having BA in next few days but didn't help when last night OH said " it's not too late to back out!!" I know I won't back out but just can't help thinking something will go wrong. How can I stop worrying?
lis
xx
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Re: Worried
by fluffy_bunn1e 4th November 2009, 11:20 am
its so, so natural to worry hun, you wouldnt be human if you didnt!
you dont have to go through with it, i got panicky and thought about bottling it, but i knew i would kick myself alot harder if i didnt go for it.
having got so close, and chickening out and having no boobies was too much of a reason not to do it, and having my old boobs when i had the chance to improve them.
you wont regret it if you do decide to go thrugh with it hun , all the best xx
you dont have to go through with it, i got panicky and thought about bottling it, but i knew i would kick myself alot harder if i didnt go for it.
having got so close, and chickening out and having no boobies was too much of a reason not to do it, and having my old boobs when i had the chance to improve them.
you wont regret it if you do decide to go thrugh with it hun , all the best xx
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Re: Worried
by COOKIE 4th November 2009, 12:32 pm
IF... and I do stress 'IF' in the unlikely event that you did suffer complications from a breast augmentation, there are very few things that can't be fixed and it is VERY VERY rare that anything would happen that could not be sorted out by your surgeon.
We all venture onto this journey knowing there are risks, but for me the risks were by far outweighed by what my breasts were doing to my self confidence, having breast augmentation and being one of the unlucky ones to have suffered complications, I can tell you that having my surgery was STILL one of the best decisions I ever made....
Good luck to you in whatever decision you make babe, just be sure it's the right one for you. xxxx
We all venture onto this journey knowing there are risks, but for me the risks were by far outweighed by what my breasts were doing to my self confidence, having breast augmentation and being one of the unlucky ones to have suffered complications, I can tell you that having my surgery was STILL one of the best decisions I ever made....
Good luck to you in whatever decision you make babe, just be sure it's the right one for you. xxxx
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Re: Worried
by COOKIE 4th November 2009, 12:40 pm
cookie wrote:IF... and I do stress 'IF' in the unlikely event that you did suffer complications from a breast augmentation, there are very few things that can't be fixed and it is VERY VERY rare that anything would happen that could not be sorted out by your surgeon.
We all venture onto this journey knowing there are risks, but for me the risks were by far outweighed by what my breasts were doing to my self confidence, having breast augmentation and being one of the unlucky ones to have suffered complications, I can tell you that having my surgery was STILL one of the best decisions I ever made....
Good luck to you in whatever decision you make babe, just be sure it's the right one for you. xxxx
Just to add to this, that my post was based on using a surgeon you've researched and that their aftercare policy covers any complications that may arise. xx
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Re: Worried
by Danielle 4th November 2009, 1:22 pm
You'll be fine hun. If its something you've always wanted then you should go for it. I'm not having mine until 23rd Jan and the nerves seem to come and go.
Try not to worry to much xx
Try not to worry to much xx
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Re: Worried
by alfie 4th November 2009, 2:37 pm
Hiya, I keep getting the same feelings. One minute I'm up and then I'm down. I feel my boobs are not so bad to look at (and hubby loves them) they look great in a good bra....even if I do say so myself. 
but I do want them to look great without a bra, just so I can wear nice strappy dresses and bikinis without upholstery. So I am gonna get them done, I'm inspired by all the lovely stories on here, if I get a down moment I log on here and read through the posts...I'm soon back on a high.
So your not alone with your doubts.....we'll get through this and come back with fab boobies.
xx
but I do want them to look great without a bra, just so I can wear nice strappy dresses and bikinis without upholstery. So I am gonna get them done, I'm inspired by all the lovely stories on here, if I get a down moment I log on here and read through the posts...I'm soon back on a high.So your not alone with your doubts.....we'll get through this and come back with fab boobies.
xx
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Re: Worried
by lisxxx9 4th November 2009, 4:19 pm
Thanks everyone about half an hour after I wrote post, I started to get excited about it!! It's so strange, glad I'm not the only one. Have got pre-op tomorrow so will probably get nervous again. Feels like it's not really me getting it done. Good hear that if something did go wrong then it could probably be fixed. Now worried I will get flu as everyone around me seems to be getting it!
Lis
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Re: Worried
by helenascania 4th November 2009, 4:22 pm
Honestly your not lone. Ive been having good days and bad days, its just natural to worry plus women express their worry more than men!! We are all here to support you. . And eachother. Your will be fine x x x
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Re: Worried
by fluffy_bunn1e 4th November 2009, 4:22 pm
when you say it feels like its not you getting it done, i felt exactly the same, its so surreal, i have to keep pinching myself to believe ive done it...or just look in the mirror xxx
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Re: Worried
by annefinackapan 4th November 2009, 4:28 pm
we've all been there, up and down with pre-op nerves/excitment, its only natural and just part of the whole crazy journey.
xx
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Re: Worried
by *Sally* 4th November 2009, 7:45 pm
Agree with what all the girls have said. Its only natural that your worried - its an operation after all but as long as you have faith in your surgeon and the company has a good aftercare policy it really is just a case of go for it. that said you have to do the right thing for you and if you really don't think its right then its not too late to change your mind.
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Re: Worried
by COOKIE 4th November 2009, 8:31 pm
lisxxx9 wrote:Thanks everyone about half an hour after I wrote post, I started to get excited about it!! It's so strange, glad I'm not the only one. Have got pre-op tomorrow so will probably get nervous again. Feels like it's not really me getting it done. Good hear that if something did go wrong then it could probably be fixed. Now worried I will get flu as everyone around me seems to be getting it!
Lis
xx
Tell me about it!.... I've got to have my flu jab tomorrow and I usually get a cold after it, just hope it doesn't last three weeks!... But knowing my ruddy luck!..... Aggggghhhhh.... See.... there's 'ME' worrying now!!!
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Re: Worried
by lisxxx9 4th November 2009, 8:36 pm
lol, I've been taking vitamin c and zinc tablets everyday for past 3 weeks. So long as we don't breathe near anyone till after op we'll be fine.
lis
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Re: Worried
by COOKIE 4th November 2009, 8:53 pm
haha!... If I could buy a bubble to wear between now and then.... I would!
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