how do you feel abou your new boobs?
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how do you feel abou your new boobs?
I'm 4 months post op and well some days i love them, some days i'm not sure about them. Does anyone else get this and does it change with time, do they become more a part of you? x
HannaF- Newbie BJSF Member
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HI Hanna
I have to say I love mine, but remember I am in me forties and took years to pluck up the courage,
I have had odd days where I think, what on earth are they doing now ie when leftie plummets south and rightie is so much higher, and I wonder if I am going to end up 'odd' !! but then I am only two months post, so maybe later I do feel same as you...
I do get days when they don't feel part of me tho, so can agree with you there, the thing I don't like is sometimes they feel cold, I hope that improves as body knits to them... xxx
I have to say I love mine, but remember I am in me forties and took years to pluck up the courage,
I have had odd days where I think, what on earth are they doing now ie when leftie plummets south and rightie is so much higher, and I wonder if I am going to end up 'odd' !! but then I am only two months post, so maybe later I do feel same as you...
I do get days when they don't feel part of me tho, so can agree with you there, the thing I don't like is sometimes they feel cold, I hope that improves as body knits to them... xxx
katie- BJSF Elite Member
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ooooh, mine never feel cold. I just look at them sometimes like they dont belong on me. I think I just feel a bit indifferent about them. I don't hate them or love them, I'm not sure whether I like havin them more than not..........just dont know. Which is why i put it down to needing to get used of them type thing. I tell u what, I wouldn't have guessed u are 40 odd with that picture! No wonder u love them, hahahaha x
HannaF- Newbie BJSF Member
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It took me over six months to get used to mine so dont worry you'll get there....
The turning point for me came when I went on holiday in the summer and I still felt really self conscious of my boobs in my bikini (a big driving point for having the BA) and I felt horrible like they were too big and obvious. I confided in my MIL and she said "Anne I mean this nicely but you just look normal now". Honestly it was the nicest thing anyone had said and it really made me think Yes,I agree theyre alright now and they have now finally become part of 'me'.
Thinking of you.
xx
The turning point for me came when I went on holiday in the summer and I still felt really self conscious of my boobs in my bikini (a big driving point for having the BA) and I felt horrible like they were too big and obvious. I confided in my MIL and she said "Anne I mean this nicely but you just look normal now". Honestly it was the nicest thing anyone had said and it really made me think Yes,I agree theyre alright now and they have now finally become part of 'me'.
Thinking of you.
xx
annefinackapan- BJSF Elite Member
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i'm 6 months po and I LOVE THEM!!! I look at them everyday in the mirror and have a little jiggle . They feel part of me and they look part of me.
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Len1- BJSF Addict
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I love mine, somedays I'll have a day where I think they're small, others I'll have a wow they're huge day others I forget they are there. I can't say I am completely used to them, I've knocked them on doors etc it takes time but I'm sure you'll get used to them.
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i really love them they feel like part of me now and im alot more confident
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natalia- BJSF Elite Member
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I absolutely love mine now! The first couple of months though I was getting used to them and they didn't feel like mine, but they really do now. I think maybe it takes longer for some people to get used to it. Maybe you could go out and buy some pretty bras to make you feel like you love them more? xx
Jessica- BJSF Elite Member
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thanks girls. I've bought pretty bras and stuff, i just dont know what it is. Sometimes i think its the size, then i think its the fact i had it done at all. I dont talk to anyone about these thoughts in case i get a 'i told u so!'. But i definately dont HATE them, so maybe i just need to give it time. xxx
HannaF- Newbie BJSF Member
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I love mine so much !!!!!! so glad i had them done.xx
ellie- Newbie BJSF Member
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I love mine too, I wouldn't want to be without them now :) x
tracey20- BJSF Addict
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My boobs are now my favourite part of me - whereas they used to be my worst. I would hide them away and now I wish i could show them to every one!! I think that says it all ... they are mine- a part of me.
LittleSweep- Newbie BJSF Member
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Hi,
Only just read yr post so bit late but....
Sounds to me like you have a bit of boob guilt!! I'm only 2 and half weeks PO but I felt soooo guilty having them done and I do feel like I shouldn't talk about them hurting/do they look right etc cos ppl might think 'well what do u expect'.
All I can say is don't feel bad. I haven't told many people that I have had it done but I do feel better, more confident, already. It's nothing to do with anyone else. You decided and you paid for them, celebrate that youve got them. I think mine just look normal now and I can wear clothes I couldn't before. New boobs don't perform miracles they just help to make you feel good. Am I getting a bit deep now?!? probably..........
XXX
Only just read yr post so bit late but....
Sounds to me like you have a bit of boob guilt!! I'm only 2 and half weeks PO but I felt soooo guilty having them done and I do feel like I shouldn't talk about them hurting/do they look right etc cos ppl might think 'well what do u expect'.
All I can say is don't feel bad. I haven't told many people that I have had it done but I do feel better, more confident, already. It's nothing to do with anyone else. You decided and you paid for them, celebrate that youve got them. I think mine just look normal now and I can wear clothes I couldn't before. New boobs don't perform miracles they just help to make you feel good. Am I getting a bit deep now?!? probably..........
XXX
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