4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing???

by Dancing_Diva 30th October 2009, 7:59 pm

I am having last minute nerves I think, been thinking all day am I doing the right thing having my BA?? It doesnt help that am having a particularly good boobie day today and I feel in proportion, but I dont always feel like this and its ok when I have my bra on, its when its off its the problem!! Is this normal to be having the jitters!???

Ben talking to my family about it as well today as they are obviously nervous about me having it done and they are thinking I'm going to end up looking like Jordan or something and I dont want to look like that! I just want to feel confident and be able to wear lovely clothes without worrying what bra im going to wear!

Arrrrgh its doing my head in especially still stressing about size!!!

HELP!!!

by Jade 30th October 2009, 8:05 pm

OMG I could have written that- i keep seeing things and thinking "oh i hope my boobs aren't too big because i'll look fat" or "that wont fit nicely with boobs..." whereas 4 months ago I would have been looking at everything saying "this would look better if I had boobs..." 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 751387

4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 751387

i think it's definately last minute nerves and once we have our new boobs we'll be wondeing how we coud ever have had second thoughts!

and wooooo 4 days! x

by Dancing_Diva 30th October 2009, 8:08 pm

Snap Jade, I tried on a lovely dress today in Lipsy for my OH christmas party and I was like oh I dont think a size 8 will fit me with my new boobs and then I tried on a 10 and it was massive on the bottom! I dont know what to think!! Like you say other times i would have been thinking that it would look so much better with bigger boobies 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 751387

I just hope I'm not going too big that clothes become a problem for me, I wish i could try on my new boobies for a day and try some clothes on to settle my mind!!

Woohoo Jade 1 week for you!!! xx

by jo 30th October 2009, 9:05 pm

Up until today I definitly thought the same, especially the fat comment. I kept thinking I'm not actually that small and with a push up bra I look ok - totally get the bra off comment though.

But I have to say I went to see one of my best mates today (Duffas - also on here) she had her done on Tuesday and they look so good its unreal! They look in perfect proportion and so natural. Now I'm totally convinved and can not wait until 4 weeks today!

You know people always say you never regret the things you do do, just the things you don't!

Jo x

by lisxxx9 30th October 2009, 9:30 pm

I felt like that before I even booked, but what Jo said is soooo true, and how I felt when I thought about not going ahead, I felt so down and knew I would never get this far again and would just regret it, so the only way was to just go for it and if it goes wrong for whatever reason, at least I can say I tried it and it wasn't meant to be instead of thinking what could've been. Also you're having your BA on my birthday so good luck. 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 923101

4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 923101

xx

by Dancing_Diva 31st October 2009, 7:21 am

Thanks girls, I am just being silly. There is no way I am not going ahead with it, still stressing about what size though!!! I've wanted this and moaned for it for 10 years now, so there is defo no going back!!! zzz

by katie 31st October 2009, 7:50 am

DD all normal hun, but you won't regret when its done, day is fab pleasee try to enjoy this bit now its v special! I had same worries as you re dresses, but I can still get into my size 8's .... size 10's are too big on bottom halfs for me, being a DD you may find you need to find right makes which fit you , example karen millen size 8 fits me perfect lower half and my new boobie do just fit in the top halves.... dd may be bit tight in a karen millen but I do have big ribcage so if you got smaller ribcage than me a dd prob be fine! you will have gorgeous cleavage's and I am sure you won't REGRET IT !!!!!!!!!! 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 557141

4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 557141

by **nads** 31st October 2009, 8:22 am

Dancing_Diva wrote:Snap Jade, I tried on a lovely dress today in Lipsy for my OH christmas party and I was like oh I dont think a size 8 will fit me with my new boobs and then I tried on a 10 and it was massive on the bottom! I dont know what to think!! Like you say other times i would have been thinking that it would look so much better with bigger boobies

I just hope I'm not going too big that clothes become a problem for me, I wish i could try on my new boobies for a day and try some clothes on to settle my mind!!

I dont think you'll regret it hun but with 380 overs + what you have already I dont think a size 8 will fit you on top after your op but you never know. Nat had 410s and has to buy size 10/12 on top for the boobs. How many sizes were you wanting to go to?

x

by Dancing_Diva 31st October 2009, 8:32 am

Hi Nads,

I wanted to be a DD cup size, but after reading loads of people stats I think with 380's I am likely to be an E!!! I have e-mailed my PCC to ask her to make sure the 340's are there as well just incase I change my mind! I really dont want to have to find 'special' shops that are right for my boobies and my lower half! I dont mind bikinis etc, but dresses I want to be able to just go and buy maybe a 10 (if 8's asking too much lol) and know it will fit my boobies. A size 12 would be massive on my lower half and i'm worried I'm gonna look fat if I have to do this 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 476424

4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 476424

Its sooo stressful :(

Katie - looking at your pics on FB I think you are smaller that me ribcage wise xxx

by Jade 31st October 2009, 8:35 am

DD, I don't have you on facebook! I'll PM you my full name- add me if you want to 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? Icon_lol

3 days now! Are you doing anything special this weekend? x

by **nads** 31st October 2009, 8:36 am

Its so difficult to predict hun as the results are different on everyone, whatever happens I know they're going to look fab as you've started off with a nice size. Not long now hun!! 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 370474

4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 370474

by Dancing_Diva 31st October 2009, 9:55 am

Eeek I know not long now, last weekend with my little B for Bee Stings lmao!! 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 557141

Just trying to relax as much as possible this weekend although I doubt I will be able to, got to go food shopping, tidy round, do the rest of my washing, and got a halloween party tonight. Its Olivias first halloween - cant wait to see her in her pumpkin outfit lol! xxx

by Dancing_Diva 31st October 2009, 9:55 am

Oooh Jade - yes PM me your full name and I will add you now xx

by luvjugz 31st October 2009, 1:19 pm

Regarding clothes size hun - I went up 5 cupsizes with my ba and my size 8 clothes still fit perfectly - they just look a hell of alot better lol! The only thing I would have trouble getting into are size 8 shirts as they dont have much stretch to them. I did think the same as u before my ba - that with such a large implant there was no way I'd fit into anything and I'd have to get a new wardrobe, but was not the case. I have to wear 12/14 bikini's, but that's only so I don't look like a pornstar on the beach 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 557141

xx

by misf1 31st October 2009, 2:36 pm

Hi hun, don't worry we all had these thought, I started to look at my boobs and think they weren't that bad and I could live with them, but I wouldn't have booked a BA in the first place if that's how I really felt. As for clothes, all my clothes fitted after my BA, so stayed the same. But when buying new things I found I was a bit more adventurous in the lowness of the neck line and if they had pre formed cups, sometimes my boobs wouldn't fit, and I was so happy cause it used to be I couldn't fill them. Shirts can be a problem, but you get used to it, it's all soooooooooo worth it

by Len1 31st October 2009, 2:37 pm

Hun, i'm a 32DD/30E, originally i was 32 A/AA. I had 295 unders!!! I still fit into all my clothes and i still buy size 8 clothes. I think you will measure F/FF to be honest with you. However you won't look that big. I told my surgeon i wanted to be a full C cup, tbh although i measure a lot bigger i think i look like a C. Which is the most important thing -how you look not how you measure. But keep in mind that once you have had it done, most people wish they had gone slighty bigger, very rarely do they want to be smaller.

Try not to stress to much about it. Just enjoy the whole experience.

Good luck 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 321562

4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 321562

xxx

by angelslice 1st November 2009, 12:01 am

Girls, you've seen the size of mine at the moment and I can still fit into all my size 8 stuff so try not to let it worry you and as for looking fat, i had the same concerns but if anything they make you appear slimmer cos emphasises your waist.
All these feelings are completely normal but I promise you hun you won't regret it xxx

by mum23boys 1st November 2009, 7:41 am

2 days to go for you now 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 923101

Hope you're more excited rather than nervous now, x

by Jade 1st November 2009, 7:51 am

DD- your BA is the day after tomorrow (sounds less than 2 days!)

Like M23B I hope you are more excited than nervous now xx

by Dancing_Diva 1st November 2009, 8:37 am

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek nerves have almost gone I am just soooooooooo excited!! 2 more flippin days and I will be in the hospital!! OMG I really need to go out today and buy something to come home in after reading Jades last post on what to wear home, I dont have anything front fastening! Well apart from some corsets lol but I dont think that would be appropriate lmao! 4 days to go....arrrghh am I doing the right thing??? 557141

xxx

by Jade 1st November 2009, 9:16 am

YAY! have fun shopping today! I'm excited for you! x

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