New bf.. what would you do?

Hiya hun, missed this thread completely!! lol

I probs wouldnt say anything, afterall, like others have said, they are part of you now so why make them an issue. If in the future he asks why you didnt tell him, just say that its not a big deal to you, they are part of you and part of what makes you YOU and you dont think that should have any affect on how he feels about YOU as a person.

I say thats what i would do but to be honest its difficult to say when your not in the situation.

When i got with my hubby, i had no body confidence, i was quite overweight but still didnt have much boobage and i made an issue of everything i hated! I kept making jokes about myself and "warning" him about parts of me that i hated and thought he would too! He told me that he fell in love with me as a person and that my body parts, as much as he loved them, didnt affect how he felt so thats probs why if i was to be in that situation now, i wouldnt say anything.

God, did ay of that make sense? It did in my head!!

nads wrote:

moonmar wrote:The same as you wouldn't immediately tell him every other detail about you! It's not some sort of dirty secret, it's part of who you are now

Its so true how, great point thanks to be honest im not worried that much because im not that into him yet so maybe this is a good time to tell him just in passing conversation lol x

I totally agree. And if you eventually tell him and he kicks off about it, you can say "well it can't be that big a deal if you didn't even notice!"

I've been with my boyfriend since about 2 weeks post op and he knew I was planning them before anyway. I was one of those people who told quite a lot of people, then they told people etc....think they've all forgotten about it now...but anyway I'm getting sidetracked :lol:

We're getting pretty close now and I asked him a couple of days ago whether he was bothered that they aren't real. He said no not at all, they look great, getting really soft now and that they don't feel that different to real ones. He also said something about the boobs not making the woman....bless him

I spoke to me new blokie on the phone last night, and he said he was nervous about seeing my new boobs as he didn't want to hurt me! I think I need to give him a flash soon though, or it will become some major thing between us and I'll end up getting all nervous too! He does seem really interested to see "his new assets" as he calls them...lol...men!!

I'm wondering if he's nervous that he won't like them too? I don't know if he's ever seen any "fakies" before so he may well have a false idea of what they will look like. I'll have to ask him. I'm certainly nervous that he won't like them, but think he will when they're all settled and soft...

C x

I wouldnt tell him! Not until it came up, and he either asked, or he said somethign that made me tell him.

to me, it would just be a slight difference to the majority of people in an area of my body.
The same as how a few men are circucised, but... u wouldnt expect a man to blurt that out over dinner, would you!

:D

woekitten wrote:
The same as how a few men are circucised, but... u wouldnt expect a man to blurt that out over dinner, would you!

:D

Depends what you're having for dinner I suppose. Skinless sausage anyone?!! :oops: