Getting cold feet

by fluffy_bunn1e 22nd August 2009, 3:34 pm

I know im still a way away, but i am doubting what im doing. I know I keep saying this but im really frightened. and I feel so alone in this, maybe its just cos it s the time of the month and im all emotional, but i am petrified, yet on the other hand i so,so want new boobs and a new nose.

Just feel down about it when Is hould be feeling excited. :pale:

by hotcaz 22nd August 2009, 4:58 pm

FB what u are feeling is totally normal having a ba is a big thing, i remember feeling the same as u but i wanted boobs so badly i just knew i had to do it, try not to worry to much and just think of those new boobies and nose xxxx

by natalia 22nd August 2009, 5:29 pm

its normal to feel this way we all have concerns and worries try not to worry to much you have everything u dreamed of soon chick
xxxx

by Jemmy 22nd August 2009, 9:11 pm

It's all totally normal. I had second thoughts but so glad I did it. It's so worth it x x

by angelslice 22nd August 2009, 10:11 pm

I know what you mean fluffy, I've chosen to keep my ba quiet so I haven't got anyone I can talk to about it other than hubby and he's no **naughty word** use bless him.
That's why this site is invaluable cos we're either all in the same boat or we can call on those with some experience to help. Hope you feel better but it's all really normal, I don't think anyone goes into an op with some element of doubt in their mind xxx

by angelkitten1 22nd August 2009, 10:26 pm

hi hunny, as the other girls have said all these emotions are totally normal. i remember feeling very frightened and also guilty about going for my b/a because i have 4 kids and what if anything happened to me.
i had bad dreams and thought and worried about it constantly, but like the rest of us you know you probably would never be totally happy with yourself until you do have it done.
i know i couldn't have been happy the way i was before, i didn't feel like a woman at all, it's definately the best thing i done for myself.

think of the good things hunny, like the clothes you will be able to wear that you can't just now and never having to wear chicken fillets or gel bras again

xxxx

by **nads** 23rd August 2009, 9:21 am

Hi hun, are you going to the hospital alone, is that why you feel that way? Or is someone coming with you? Dont feel pressured into anything, this is purely your choice and you can always postpone your surgery for another time when you feel 100% ready x

by fluffy_bunn1e 23rd August 2009, 9:27 am

Thanks girls and Nads no my fiance is coming with me, but its just the whole having a operation thats scaring me, and i know if I wobbled and said im not sure he wouldnt try to talk me back into it. Deep down he doesnt want me to have it done.

I just need people telling me it ll be ok etc, its also the pain im worried about. Thanks for all your support ladies, I do want this so much, its the whole op thing which is scaring me xxx

by **nads** 23rd August 2009, 9:39 am

Well i've heard a nose job is worse than a BA, pain wise but its different for everyone. My friend has a nose job and said it was more uncomfortable than painful because they give you loads of pain meds, but the pack on the face made meant you have to breathe through the mouth. The BA isnt anything to worry about, im sure they'll try and make you as comfortable as possible x

by fluffy_bunn1e 23rd August 2009, 9:47 am

See thats what I thought Nads , that the nose would obv hurt more.

I asked my surgeon which id be in more pain for, and he said the breasts. hmmm

I could just have the boobs done then later the nose if i felt i still wanted to, but it seems easier to get both done at same time, i just gotta try and be brave, try think about the end results xxx

by cakey_baby 23rd August 2009, 11:32 am

Aw FB

it is normal what your feeling hunny i waited 4 months for my op and kept thinking the same thing , like nads said you can always put it off until a later date.

My mum had nose and boobs at the same time,she said it was uncomfortable but not painful infact she said the boobs were a little more painful than the nose! my best friends sister also had hers done but she waited 2 months after her boobs and said it wasnt painful at all, everyones different but i think you will be fine hun.

x x x

by fluffy_bunn1e 23rd August 2009, 7:30 pm

Thanks , I will just be so angry with myself if i whimp out, bigger boobs is all ive wanted for years, like all of you just freaking out a bit to whats going to happen to me, its almost becoming real now.

Just wish a fried or someone could go through it at the same time, lol xx

by fluffy_bunn1e 23rd August 2009, 7:31 pm

*friend

by Mia 23rd August 2009, 8:40 pm

fluffy_bunn1e wrote:*friend

Aw FB I will be your friend!!!!!! I would do it all again without a moments hesitation....honestly!!! It is just inconvenient and uncomfortable...think pain and you will have pain!!! Think positive happy thoughts and be strong....tell yourself you will in two months time have your dream boobs and nose....and to achieve those wonderfull dreams you will have a couple of weeks of inconvenience and walking a bit stiffly and breathing through your mouth ....... not much pain in that I say for keeping fab boobies and a new nose forever and ever I say Flash

Oh!! and you have all those fab DVD's to distract you and droooool ..... over to keep you occupied whilst you laze around recovering!!! Also all your fantastic boobie friends here to chat to too...what more could a girl ask? Give You

xxxxx

by shiningmoonbeam 23rd August 2009, 9:24 pm

FB, I've had both done as you know and honestly with both it wouldn't freak me out at all if I had to have either done again. Yes it's uncomfortable, but pain wise was not bad at all, in fact I couldn't really say that I was in pain. It's so normal to feel this way and I nearly escaped from the hospital before my BA!! Glad I went through with it, believe me it is so nice when you go into a shop like La Senza and you can pick up a pretty bra and fill it out nicely, such a good feeling

We'll all be here for you with reassurance right up until the big day, so don't feel alone Hug

xxx

by Annie66 25th August 2009, 10:46 pm

fluffy_bunn1e wrote:I know im still a way away, but i am doubting what im doing. I know I keep saying this but im really frightened. and I feel so alone in this, maybe its just cos it s the time of the month and im all emotional, but i am petrified, yet on the other hand i so,so want new boobs and a new nose.

Just feel down about it when Is hould be feeling excited. :pale:

Aww FB

... I felt like this and even postponed my operation for a few months while I had another think about it. You're not alone - we're here to help you and support you as much as we can. But if you feel really can't face it, then there's no pressure, you can always cancel if you don't think this is the right time for you. Give You

A x

by katie 26th August 2009, 3:48 am

Not sure if I am doing the right thing either, this Friday.. got exactly same thoughts... fiance not much help.. in fact really low as had hoped this would be fun/exciting time and I have also told no one except fiance.. had hoped he would be looking forward to it, but I really can't tell if he is or not... hence... my head is now saying 'what if' he doesn't like them after.. crikey.. last week prob was what size to go for, you have all got me tothinking I have to ask for 220's (which is massive jump from what I started at), now just thinking should I cancel .... re-assuring to know I am not only one with those neg thoughts.. horrid not being able to talk to anyone, I am still terribly embaressed about it and don't want anyone knowing.. stupid I know..

by katie 26th August 2009, 3:49 am

Jesus, I just saw my profile pic... am I mad,, I look like a bread board!

by fluffy_bunn1e 26th August 2009, 8:52 am

aw thanks so much ladies, you are all so supportive, thank god for this forum, i truly feel you are all there behind me, so i will just think of you ladies spurring me on.

Oh and good luck for Friday Katie, cant belv you havent told anyone else, whaat about work? all the best hun, look forward to your story xxx

by **ShootingStar** 26th August 2009, 9:09 am

i'm sure we all went through this at some point pre BA, i was sobbing the day before wishing i never bothered booking etc and didn't want to go etc, it's normal to feel apprehensive hunni you just have to try and keep positive and think of 'after' and looking how you want to look, good luck chick x x

by Jessica 26th August 2009, 9:31 am

Hey hun, I definitely went through periods of feeling I was making a mistake, then going the opposite way and feeling really excited etc. then back to feeling I shouldn't do it. I think it's a totally normal part of the run up to having a BA. Just try to focus on the good things about having a BA like filling out beautiful bras, feeling womanly and all that and hopefully if you keep putting positive energy into it you should start feeling better about the surgery. xxx

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