what was the main thing..

Was there a single moment where you just said to yourself, 'right this is it, im doing it'?

What triggered it?

only reason i ask is because the girl i work with asked me today and i couldnt place an actual moment where i just thought right thats it! i dont remember not wanting it done lol

I had a little spell a while back where it really got to me. Got quite upset over it and didn't know what to do. So I stopped coming on here for about a week to get my head straight and actually ask myself if I wanted it done.

One Sunday I just thought, yes I do want it done. Came back on here, booked my 2nd consultation and here I am 9 days to go.

Mine was standing in front of my mirror trying on a 32A bikini from Figleaves.com that i'd bought in a size 32a that was too big! I'd been to some consultations by then but hadn't booked. I pretty much booked a few days later. I think I already knew I was gonna do it before the bikini incident, it just reinforced the feeling that I'd made the right decision. xx

mine was wearing a bra and not having hardly any boobs to put in it having a big bum but having nothing ontop to match my curves and i always felt kind of boysih as i have althlectic build and i wanted to feel more womanly so that did it for me all these reasonsx
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My defining moment was when I had finally decided against a BA and for weeks after it was always still in the back of my mind and I could never fully forget about it, it was then that I new I had to do it, and I havnt looked back since!

dbs wrote:My defining moment was when I had finally decided against a BA and for weeks after it was always still in the back of my mind and I could never fully forget about it, it was then that I new I had to do it, and I havnt looked back since!

Yes, my decision was a bit like this. Never liked my boobs though often thought about a boob job. Eventually got round to having some consultations, then booked surgery ... but then cancelled it!! But, bizzarely, it was the act of cancelling that actually made be realize that, deep down, in my heart-of-hearts, I really really did want to have it done! :) . From the moment I re-booked I never looked back ...

i always hated my small boobs and after having 3 kids and they still were no bigger.... in fact they were smaller and less full, i decided i had to have a b/a.
i have 3 bras which i got off ebay size 34f and they are now too small, i still can't quite believe i'm that big i used to think a dd sounded huge now it looks like i'll be a ff or g
best thing i ever done though, i would never want to go back to having nothing again....gosh what a horrible place that was to be, i was always so depressed about it.
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Mine was when I was on my honeymoon and sat on the beach in the Caribbean, I saw all these American women with fantastic boobies and there was me with my padded bikini top on and still no where as big as them! My hubby loved it though because I kept saying look at her boobs they're really nice so he got to look without being told off :lol: halfway through the holiday he said that if it bothered me that much that I should get them done and when we got home that was it research research research! Now it's booked and nearly paid for, life's too short to be unhappy we should do whatever it takes to make us happy.

I had wanted one for years but my OH was always unsure (risks, safety issues) and I would only have done it with his support as it was too big a deal to do without that. When a friend of mine had hers done and I told him he said well it must be ok then so if you want it that much go ahead. I was off like a shot and 3 months later it was done!

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I really dont know what triggered me, i'd thought about it for years and hadnt done anything about it and always said 'if i win the lottery....' then suddenly this january for some unknown reason i thought 'sod it im start looking into it!'

I thought life is too short, there is nothing else i want out of life, im happily married, my daughter has grown up (20) and what is £3000 after all!?

Every year we waste more than this on silly things, i thought i would happily not buy another top or pair of shoes till ive paid back the loan i took out to pay for them!

So for me, since the January when i finally seriously decided to do it i havent looked back, i started researching, found this site and went for 2 consults, I decided to go with the first surgeon i saw booked by april and had the surgery just over 2 weeks ago and it was the best thing ive ever done!

Like so many other girls on here after we having my BA the only thing i can say is....why did it take me so long????

I guess you get to a point in your life when you decide maybe subconciously that you are ready, thats why i guess i didnt have any doubts once id decided!

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As it turned New Year this year I thought to myself that this was going to be the year that I made some big changes!! My boobs were the one thing that I really wanted to change and I did it and I'm very proud of myself and much happier for it. So Big Ben chiming was my moment of realisation! xxx

i was always ok with mine until i had my second child, i just lost everything apart from saggy skin. it got me really depressed, i wont go on holiday because i wont wear a bikini just dont feel like a women more like a boys body. my partner would always say it dont bother him, but he is a man they dont understand a womens mantality. so fianally i talked him round so iv saved for two years and finally getting them done in a few weeks. hopefully i will feel alot more confident with my body. xx

I started wanting boob job when i was 15, i told my mum who said "dont be silly you'll grow out of it" etc or "they'll grow" (yeah right) well they never grew by 18 and after i had my baby when i was 20 i started thinking about it properly and mam was very supportive so i went for consultation etc (got my nose done too) x

Ive wanted mine since i was 17 and used to obsess about it from the age of about 19 to 20!! i still sometimes cant actually believe i have them because i never thought i would go through with it! i think my moment was when my mum had hers done and i got some money for my 21st to put towards them.

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I dont think id had gone through with booking it if it wasnt for the money my nan left me when she died. Im so greatful that i have that gift from her!

I still cant believe im going ahead with it though, it seems so surreal at the moment

After the birth of my 2nd baby, once my milk started drying up I noticed that they were really saggy and empty and when I ran upstairs with no bra on they would slap by waist. They when I looked in the mirror and held them up like I did in my pre op pics, thats when I thought 'I've got to do something about these, they're disgusting'.

For me it was when my friend had her BA and I looked back at pictures and saw how absolutely tiny my boobs were compared to hers!

Then a month before my BA, it was my birthday. I wore a strapless dress and had to wear a gel bra with it.
The bra and the dress kept falling down all night and I had to keep pulling them up again.
That was when I knew I'd made the right decision.

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mine was when i went into marks and spencers to get measured for a bra as i thought i was wearing the wrong size.....the woman measuring me said that i was wearing the right size but because my boobs were so empty after weight loss and breastfeeding i wasn't going to "fill" a bra properly again!!!

little does she know in 6 weeks i will be being measured again and getting a bra that doesn't gape open!!