Letting the other half touch
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Twinky
anneritchley
Charlii
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Letting the other half touch
Hi ladies, hope alls good and well,
Just wondered when you post op ladies first let your other halfs loose in the bedroom. Healing is going well but I'm still tender. Husband is chomping at the bit if you get my meaning and I wondered what the time scale was for the norm xx
Just wondered when you post op ladies first let your other halfs loose in the bedroom. Healing is going well but I'm still tender. Husband is chomping at the bit if you get my meaning and I wondered what the time scale was for the norm xx
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Letting the other half touch
Whenever you feel ready. There is still a lot of healing happening on the inside at the moment, so if you're not comfy with it, don't do it. However, one good suggestion is to take his hand in yours and show him exactly how hard he can honk! That way he still gets a grope, but you're in charge.
My hubs is still wary of them 2yrs on!
My hubs is still wary of them 2yrs on!
Charlii- Moderator
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Re: Letting the other half touch
Thanks Charlii. We have a weekend away this weekend with no kiddies so I know it's on the agenda. I'll guide him as suggested, hopefully that will satisfy the desire. I have let him gently rub oil in but it's clearly not enough
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Letting the other half touch
If you're still meant to be in bras 24/7, make sure you stick with it though. A quick tumble now isn't worth doing yourself a mischief during your healing.
Charlii- Moderator
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Re: Letting the other half touch
Good point. Just a quick oiling for him then till the 6 week mark xx
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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It's when you feel ready. They can get a bit carried away at times. Just make it clear to be careful. And not grab handfuls. Touch but not grab if you know what I mean. Xxx
anneritchley- BJSF Elite Member
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Thanks [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] x
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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Do be careful, we got a bit carried away a couple of weeks,ago, and I felt so tender next day. Guess it's like this for anyone, it just felt weird! Not used to being touched there, I was always so concious so pushed him away!
Now I'm like "hey baby grab me baps"! Lmaof!
Now I'm like "hey baby grab me baps"! Lmaof!
Twinky- BJSF Elite Member
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Haha love that Twinky - I think I'll be the same. At the moment I can't stand them to be touched! Xx
Lucy106- BJSF Addict
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Baps twinky that funny xxx
anneritchley- BJSF Elite Member
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I've set the 6 weeks mark before he's allowed near them tgen it's softly softly. Just had a weekend away and he was telling me to go topless, errr noooo not yet. Didn't want them burning xx
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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I was single this time around for 2 months so I guess I didn't have this x bf can't keep his hands off them now though
loui1981- BJSF Addict
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Re: Letting the other half touch
I'm 3 weeks post op and my oh has had a good squeeze already. I have been sleeping Braless for about a week though, Im more comfortable without
mooomin- Newbie BJSF Member
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Re: Letting the other half touch
Gosh at 3 weeks I was way to sensitive to let him anywhere near. Doh that's not fair I've got to continue to sleep in my surgical bra for another 6 weeks :-( xx
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.], has your surgeon said you can sleep braless? If not, you really shouldnt be doing it. Its things like that that surgeons can take away all aftercare. Be sure to follow your surgeons instructions to a T
Charlii- Moderator
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Re: Letting the other half touch
Yes he told me to do whatever makes me most comfortable. The first thing I do when I get in is take my bra off.
mooomin- Newbie BJSF Member
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Yay [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] you have a avi, nice! Xx
BkozK- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: Letting the other half touch
I'm seeing my surgeon on Monday and I can't wait to ask him if/when it's ok to go bra-less cos I'm still wearing bras 24/7 much to my husband's frustration (he wants me to sleep naked occasionally !). Xx
9NDFp- BJSF Addict
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I know I can't go braless (other than showering etc) till 3 months. But as of today I can wear any nonwired bra, awhooo xx
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