Fluffing!

When I saw my surgeon at my 3m check up, he said that's it, you're done, they won't change anymore. And they were still hard and kinda 'p0rny', for want of a better phrase. I had a little cry, because I wanted soft, natural looking boobs. Hubs had to remind me that yes, he was my surgeon, but think of all the advice and info I'd read here. I knew in my head they weren't done, because I'd seen and read all the results here. It doesn't stop you thinking those thoughts though, and being impatient and wishing they'd hurry up. Media doesn't help with these celebs getting theirs done and out the next week with their bikini body's. But I was right. They weren't done. They continued to soften into what they are today, and at 6m hubs was like, I think you need a bigger bra, you've got 4 boobs there! I know I say it so often, but patience really is key. And come Xmas, you'll be able to wrap them up in a little bow as your perfect gift to yourself!

Hi 11 weeks is nothing at all. Although it probably seems like ages. For the first 12 weeks for me I was looking at them every moment I could to look for changes. It's like watching paint dry. Even now at 9 months my nerves in my right still play me up. It really is a game of patience. It's so worth the wait though. If someone said would you go through it again, I would do it all again no problem. It's odd the way it all happens. All of a sudden the drop and fluff. Your better off just trying to ignore them for a while xxx

Ahh [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I know it's so so hard at times to just switch off from the settling process and force not to over examine them every day. I'm sure you are not bottoming out, and we just need to keep reminding ourselves of the long healing process! I'm tempted to get another ticker counting down to the 6 month mark lol! And save some of [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.]'s posts to keep remembering that the oddities are all normal at this stage ;-) xxx

Charlii wrote:

mirren001 wrote:Horsy for the fluff in fairy!       XXX

Bahahaa! 

Double LOL Xxx

[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] Babe, I know you see them differently to anyone else as you inspect them daily but when you kindly let me see your picture trail I thought they looked fantastic, I didn't even notice a difference between your left and right that's why I said about how well they had evened out. Please try not to worry, as everyone else said, we've still got such a long way to go till the final result, mine too are not identical and one sits higher than the other still but I'm trying to ignor it and focus on the good points - we have boobs! I bought a Freya bra online and tried it on this morning, 32DD and it fit perfectly, gave me a great pick me up - go and treat yourself to something pretty, dress those puppies up. And please don't leave us - I'd miss you!! xxx

As all the other lovely ladies have said on here [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] please dont worry. I know exactly how you feel, I would say from the minute I had them, right up until the 3 month mark I obsessed about my boobs!! The thing is though, what you are seeing literally no one else can. My mum and friends look at me like I'm crazy when I moan to them for about 10 mins about something like 'do you think my nipple is pointing ever so slightly down?' or my current favourite 'I should have gone bigger, why didnt I go bigger!'. I also have a very bad habit of standing from the side in the mirror and literally ANALYZING my skin to see if it looks stretched, or if you can see the implant, or if my upper pole is equal 'pole-ness' on each side LOL.

Basically you are not alone. I personally find it very encouraging what Charlii says about it taking a min of 6 months before you see the real changes. I keep obsessing about the firmness and the visibility of my scars, and keep telling myself off for it. At the end of the day, we all had a HUGE operation! We had to be put to sleep, be sliced open, and have some jelly put under our skin! I know it sounds grim but everynow and then I have to remind myself to rationalise why I might not be getting the 'instant' results you think you might get.

You are still very early on lovely, and just know you have the support of everyone here. Give it 6 months, and if you are still unhappy you could always chat to your surgeon then :) xxx

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I just bought this from debenhams, it's lovely and soooo comfy - 32DD fit perfect! Though I'd share as we seem to have similar taste in bras lol x

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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] Oooo thanks!! I tried the Freya Deco on when I was about 8 weeks PO and hated it. I keep meaning to re-try and I expect my boobs have changed a lot since then. Lovely bra though! I've just ordered that wonderbra one in black because I love it so much! I need to STOP buying bra's haha!! xxx

Thank you so much guys, and sorry for totally derailing your thread muddy 
I got my period yest, and have just been so fed up, especially as my car has just died, we STILL  haven't moved house (sold it in may!) and,  just want to go shopping and have great boobies, but I know there not really quite there yet.

It was a huge operation your right. I need to get a grip. Just  wish they moved a bit more...I want a cleavage!!

Right, I'm back on track. Back to being a patient little bunny, Now iv spat he dummy! 

Xxxx you guys r great 

Aww [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I agree I don't what I'd do without the amazing support from you lovelies! Got my period yesterday too! That probably didn't help ha ha xx

I said to my Dh,  'I have absolutely  no patience today, for anybody with.....a pulse'
He gulped.
And promptly  left the room:Evil laugh :
I'm terrible!

anneritchley wrote:My boob fluffed at different times. The left first and the right a few months after xx

Oh wow, I didn't think it would be months, glad you let me know so I don't worry - thanks x

Twinky wrote:I'm getting fed up of mine now.
My left  is lower, but I don't think it's dropped how it should do, as there's no crease?
And my right one...as nice as it is, is like a totally different breast?

I'm tired of waiting,  iv been patient, I almost 11 weeks and they both look TOTALLY different.

And my right one is aching today and feels all sunburnt again.

FED UP MASSIVELY today!


Sorry, hijacked your thread here...

Hijack away honey, as long as it helps that's all that matters xxx

blush89 wrote:[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] Oooo thanks!! I tried the Freya Deco on when I was about 8 weeks PO and hated it. I keep meaning to re-try and I expect my boobs have changed a lot since then. Lovely bra though! I've just ordered that wonderbra one in black because I love it so much! I need to STOP buying bra's haha!! xxx

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I'm hoping to get to debenhams or next to try one of those wonder bras on this weekend, I'm totally addicted to bras right now, I've spent a small fortune so I really hope I don't get a sudden growth spurt haha! (Actually - i secretly do... Bigger boobs and an excuse to buy more bras haha!)

xxx

Do it!! I wear a 32DD in it, they do 30E too but I found the DD just gives you a bit more oomph! 

Haha what are we like. I've ignored all advice of buying just 2-3 bras and think I've got about 8 now ... Would be annoying if my size changes, but also wonderful haha!!! So you can't complain either way I guess! Xxx

I don't even want to think about how many I've bought..... Gulp lol xxx