Have we all had what we wanted? Please answer :)
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Re: Have we all had what we wanted? Please answer :)
I feel at the mo I'm in limbo of being happy or not. I've gone past that initial period of being over the moon that I finally have boobs, to now waiting for them to fluff and actually get to see what the end result will be. As it stands right now, I'm not 100% happy....quite far off infact, and it really pains me to say that.
They don't hurt at all, they are actually perfectly symmetrical, but like others on here, I realise now how naiively I entered this whole thing. I discovered the forum too late, only saw 2 surgeons but based at the same clinic. I have no issue at all with the work done in the sense that scarring is minimal and recovery was fine, but I absolutely hate how big my gap is (who knows if I had a gap before becuase I had zero boobage - think iron board flat), I hate how they spread to a full palms width apart when I am laying down, and although they were a decent size cc, they just don't feel in proportion with my height and build.
The surgeon did end up using HP ones on the day, inspite of us having never discussed that option before, and I can't help thinking that they are just too narrow for me. They are also very prounounced and round on top still, and whilst I live in hope that that will slope naturally, I'm not convinced they will. I'm waiting for the 6 month mark once hopefully any fluffing fairies have done their work, and if I'm not 85% happy then, I'll be making an appointment to see the surgeon. I so hope that I lose the D shape and get that b shape I was assured I'd get by the surgeon.
I think also that's why I've been so quiet about here recently. I'm trying so hard to be allow myself to get so consumed again with boob thoughts! Plus, the green eyed monster comes out when I see everyone else's lovely boobs with minimal gaps looking fab on their frames!
They don't hurt at all, they are actually perfectly symmetrical, but like others on here, I realise now how naiively I entered this whole thing. I discovered the forum too late, only saw 2 surgeons but based at the same clinic. I have no issue at all with the work done in the sense that scarring is minimal and recovery was fine, but I absolutely hate how big my gap is (who knows if I had a gap before becuase I had zero boobage - think iron board flat), I hate how they spread to a full palms width apart when I am laying down, and although they were a decent size cc, they just don't feel in proportion with my height and build.
The surgeon did end up using HP ones on the day, inspite of us having never discussed that option before, and I can't help thinking that they are just too narrow for me. They are also very prounounced and round on top still, and whilst I live in hope that that will slope naturally, I'm not convinced they will. I'm waiting for the 6 month mark once hopefully any fluffing fairies have done their work, and if I'm not 85% happy then, I'll be making an appointment to see the surgeon. I so hope that I lose the D shape and get that b shape I was assured I'd get by the surgeon.
I think also that's why I've been so quiet about here recently. I'm trying so hard to be allow myself to get so consumed again with boob thoughts! Plus, the green eyed monster comes out when I see everyone else's lovely boobs with minimal gaps looking fab on their frames!
Boobies2be- BJSF Addict
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Re: Have we all had what we wanted? Please answer :)
Hello all,
Well for me its been an odd but enjoyable journey... When I first went into this im like yup just wana be a C/D nothing bigger blah blah blah.... Got offered 350/375 with first surgeon I saw... Second surgeon got offered 415/450 and we did a mammoth sizing appointment took loads Piccies etc, and was generally made to feel much more comfortable, so alas I went with the 415's I've ended up 34FF/32G depending on where I shop ! Sounds massive but honestly truly isn't and I still sometimes get boob greed !!!!
I'm so incredibly pleased with them at the mo they're tsking on a nice natural shape, their easily dressed up but equally easy to dress down too,
But im also very pleased I never went with the 450's think they would have been too much for me at the mo... Suppose the only down side is bra shopping ..... Can be quite awkward hunting for F's and G's
Xx
Well for me its been an odd but enjoyable journey... When I first went into this im like yup just wana be a C/D nothing bigger blah blah blah.... Got offered 350/375 with first surgeon I saw... Second surgeon got offered 415/450 and we did a mammoth sizing appointment took loads Piccies etc, and was generally made to feel much more comfortable, so alas I went with the 415's I've ended up 34FF/32G depending on where I shop ! Sounds massive but honestly truly isn't and I still sometimes get boob greed !!!!
I'm so incredibly pleased with them at the mo they're tsking on a nice natural shape, their easily dressed up but equally easy to dress down too,
But im also very pleased I never went with the 450's think they would have been too much for me at the mo... Suppose the only down side is bra shopping ..... Can be quite awkward hunting for F's and G's
Xx
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Boobies2be I am so glad you have been brave to mention the envy word because I feel the same and feel bad about it. Roses and Anne's really maje me envious, I wish so much mine looked like that xx
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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] your avi looks amazing, the more boobs I stare at, the more I realise what I actually want is closer to an FF/F. Before I "assumed" my avi goddess Michelle Lewin was a "only" a DD/E but actually in reality shes probably more an FF as I'm sure [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] pointed out to me before now. I just spoke to my hub about boobs and the sizing mentality and mentioned your boobs [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] and when I said FF, his face, but then he saw your avi and was like, oh. He thought they looked good and not as big as FF would sound but still a nice decent size. =)
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Zumboobs...I thought the avi pic WAS you! Wondered why you wanted a bj, was majorly confused!
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Twinky- BJSF Elite Member
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Aaw, boobies, im sorry to hear your boobs are not what you expected. Its hard when thats the case, im still having issues with one of mine. They're is nothing actually physically wrong with it, it just sits not quite flat to my chest. Its getting bbetter though. Also, its nowhere near as soft as the other, again though, time is healing for sure. My gap was quite wide but its getting closer as they get softer, maybe yours will too! And if you had nnothing before, maybe your skin just nneeds to adapt x
Jen23- BJSF Addict
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[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] I bloody wish!!
Zum_Boobs- BJSF Addict
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Lmao, was thinking, 'man, some people are never happy!'
Hahaha haha haha!
Hahaha haha haha!
Twinky- BJSF Elite Member
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Interesting read thanks girlies !
MrsF- BJSF Addict
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It's all a guessing game on end results by reading everyone's comments I hope I just get my fuller breasts back as its horrible looking at empty sacks as i call them with lots of stretch marks from stretching through pregnancies. Hope everyone that's feeling a little low about results can get their problems sorted and feel amazing soon x
Loubeeloujack- Active BJSF Member
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I wanted a look noy really a size. I am finally happy with the look I've achieved.
loui1981- BJSF Addict
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Lou bee jack what have you opted for? As in implants. The reason I ask is because I wanted to filly my empty droopy sacs after breastfeeding and my first op I didn't get he look I wanted so had a revision and second time around I had the look I wanted
loui1981- BJSF Addict
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I'm booked for 350/380 motiva but profile wasn't discussed he just said I could only go under as breast tissue not the best after 5 pregnancies what profile do you recommend I went to an e and f cup in 2 of my pregnancies and aroun dd in the others I used to be a 34 c but now ended up very deflated like a 34 b x
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