Nerves

by fluffy_bunn1e 20th June 2009, 7:59 pm

Ok so im a bit premature to be writing this post, as Ba is not untill Oct, but already nerves are setting in.

Im all worried that on the day im una be so nervous im going to back out or pass out.
:pale:

at my first consult i was so nervous i was sweaty and panicky etc.

Im really squeemish and thin k thats the problem, am I ready for BA? before i decided to do this I was so scared of operations and cant watch them fully on t.v.

Has anyone else gone through this, and maybe backed out?

Im sure I ll post again nearer the time, but am getting bit spooked that this actualy may happen, i want it so much, but maybe without the surgery, lol.

Im sure its just a wobble. xx

by LJK 20th June 2009, 8:13 pm

hey i'm sure you will be fine. As for passing out, if you're in a hospital, then you're in the right place!! You won't know anything about the actual operation, just going to sleep and waking up. When i booked my first date i had 4 months to wait and i think because it was so far away i got myself really worked up and ended up cancelling. This time, i've booked and only have a couple of weeks to wait and i feel so much better.

Are you able to bring your date forward at all?

by misf1 20th June 2009, 8:14 pm

Hun I drove myself half mad with worry, I was so scared. I was exactly the same as you. It's all I could think about for ages. But if you really want it you can do it. It's no where near as bad as you mind builds it up to be. Focus on the excitment, think of all those reasons you booked it. I personally found it so easy, it was all done so quickly. Now I'm so happy. This forum helped me so much.

by natalia 20th June 2009, 8:19 pm

i was nervous to i didnt sleep 2 nights b4 my ba i was like a zombie the day of my ba its natural to b nervous and excited to i was both u will be fine though
xxx

by **ShootingStar** 20th June 2009, 8:33 pm

Hey hun it's so normal to be feeling like this, you will get through it ok, try not to think of the negatives and keep concentrating on the positives, like new bra's and cleavage etc, remember why you wanted your BA and for how long you've wanted it and feel happy it's actually happening, everytime you feel the nerves kicking in try and think of the good reason's your having this and imagine yourself wearing that bra/bikini etc that you've always wanted, it wont stop you feeling nervous but it may help divert your thoughts to something more exciting to think about.....love & hugs x x

by Annie66 20th June 2009, 8:41 pm

It's all very normal FB :) - it would be odd if you weren't feeling nervous to be honest. I was quite aprehensive about the medical side of things, the GA particularly. But please don't let that put you off. One of the main things I thought about in the week following my op was, "what a big fuss I made about nothing!!". If you're comfortable and confident with your surgeon, and you're convinced he knows what he's doing, then there really is absolutely nothing to it. If you want Flash

just go and get them! It wasn't even like going to sleep for me, just blinking! close eyes, open eyes, slight hangover and boobies!

A xx

by **RoxyChick** 20th June 2009, 10:21 pm

Annie66 wrote:It's all very normal FB :) - it would be odd if you weren't feeling nervous to be honest.

One of the main things I thought about in the week following my op was, "what a big fuss I made about nothing!!"

I agree with this!!! It's completely normal to have nerves, and it's a good sign you're aware it's a medical procedure and not a joke. But, I think we're our own worst enemies sometimes... thinking about what could happen, the ifs and the buts would never get us anywhere in life.

I love the tips the girls have given you, and by following the girls on here as they go through their boobie journeys can really help. Try to keep positive lovely, I KNOW you'll love your boobs once it's all over.

xx

by amy8882 21st June 2009, 10:15 am

Hey Hun!!

You sound very similar to me, i had my BA 2 days ago. I get panic attacks and really worry about things. I was terrified about passing out and when i had my consutation i was sweating like a man and felt like i couldn't breath properly...nice!! It is honestly not that bad. The bulid up is the worst part but when you go down to have your op its all so quick you won't have time to worry :)

If i can do it anyone can hun! you we be fine, there are lots of lovely ladies on here to help ease your mind too....this site really really helped me!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxx

by fluffy_bunn1e 21st June 2009, 11:10 am

Thanks so much ladies, i know its too early to worry, you ve all helped ease my mind, just am so squeemish etc.

I have been having dreams too, first one was about a month ago, it was the worst so far.
Dreamt my surgery was not in a hospital, in a bedroom, and the tools the surgeon used were hanymans tools!! i felt like i was being butchered by a mad surgeon! Screwy

But all the ones recently have been ok, just i wake up after surgery and my boobs are still tiny, or it all goes well ut im still not happy? weird, maybe its my hayfever tablets, or spending too much time on here? lol

by **ShootingStar** 21st June 2009, 11:54 am

fluffy_bunn1e wrote:
I have been having dreams too, first one was about a month ago, it was the worst so far.
Dreamt my surgery was not in a hospital, in a bedroom, and the tools the surgeon used were hanymans tools!! i felt like i was being butchered by a mad surgeon!

oops, this one's probably my fault!! Hysterical

I dreamt my implant fell down into my stomache area and i had to push it back into place & strap it there! Shocked

i had all loads of dreams pre-op and was not on any forum so i think it''s just where we have it on our mind 24/7 no matter what else we are doing the boob thoughts are always there x x

by misf1 21st June 2009, 12:57 pm

It's not too early to worry. I think as soon as it's booked you can't stop thinking about it because it's real. My friend bought me a dreamcatcher when I kept having bad dreams, and I don't know how but it worked, I didn't have those bad dreams anymore. Sounds silly I know. But I would have done anything t stop those dreams

by cakey_baby 21st June 2009, 9:57 pm

Hiya Hun

I was so so bad with nerves for months before i worried about everything, i also had weird dreams but anxiety dreams are completly normal, Im the same and have suffered panic attacks badly in the past but once the day arrived it all happened so quickly i didnt get time to think! lol.

You could always ask for a pre med aswell i got one and it was so much help i was smiling on my way down to theatre! :lol:

You will be fine hun, i didnt think i would say it but i actually enjoyed the whole experience!

xx

by Mia 21st June 2009, 10:41 pm

As all the girls have said it is normal...it's the waiting I think...gives you time to think of too many 'ifs' and' buts'.

In saying that, I booked, arranged and did it all within ten days....I knew it was now or never..... and, I knew I would have been having mad dreams and thoughts if I waited. So, all normal...but it is not a difficult, painfull or scary day....It is great Flash

by hotcaz 22nd June 2009, 6:43 am

what your feeling is totally normal having a ba is a big thing, i was pretty nervous on the lead up to my ba but i wanted it so badley i knew i just couldnt back out, honestly thou the op is nothing it was no where near as bad or painfull as i thought it would be, im so glad it did it now xxxx

by MarieMc85 22nd June 2009, 5:24 pm

I got myself worked up into such a state the day before my op. I was worried about the anesthetic, the needle, the size I'd chosen etc etc!
Then I just reminded myself of why I wanted the op and how happy I'd be after.
On the day of the op, I was remarkably calm.

I'm so pleased I went through with it.

You'll be fine!
xx

by **nads** 22nd June 2009, 7:14 pm

You'll be fine hun, its normal to be nervous, the days leading up are usually worse than the actual day, i was so calm on the day as are alot of girls. The only bit where i got a bit anxious was lying on the bed and getting the heart moniters hooked up because it became very real but then i was out like a light and woke up what felt like seconds later with boobs!
If you do feel extremely nervouse on the day and feel faint im sure they will give you something to calm you like a pre-med. Like the other girls have said think of the great stuff to come after like bras and bikinis and looking fab in outfits x

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