unhappy boyfriend....

Thank you :-)
I think things sometimes take a while for them to process! Lol. Hope all goes well. x

Definitely. Mine has known from jan im getting it done but i dont think it properly hit hin until i booked my date etc lol & thanks, 18 days and absolutely terrified lol. Zx

Whether your boyfriend is happy about this surgery or not is irrelevant babe. My husband has never been happy about me having cosmetic surgery. Don't get me wrong. He loves my boobs, but only because they're a part of 'me' his mind will never change I cosmetic surgery and sometimes you have to except people's opinions that they might differ from your own but that's OK. The point is that they're there for you.

My husband on the day of my surgery drove me to the hospital. Stopped the car in the car park, turned to me and said 'we can turn this car around right now if you want. The money doesn't matter, I love you just the way you are and don't want you to change". I told him I wanted this surgery and we both got out of the car... He was there for me when I woke up. He was there for through recovery... He's been there whenever I've needed him.

As long as your man accepts this happening and is going to be there to support you hun like I knew my husband would - sure he didn't like it. But he would support me through it and that's the point babe. If you feel your man will support you through this as from what I'm reading he seemingly already is in accepting you're going to do this, then be happy hun and support him to with reassurance and appreciation that you got yourself a good man there. Xxx

Its nice to see that all your men have come round. Mine is starting to get there and although im not necessarily adking for his permission it would be nice just for him to understand my reasons.. Which i think he is beginning to do.

Had a wee chat with him and as usual when talking about my body i had a little cry lol. Typical girl :p but im just glad he can see its not just for flaunting around but actually more connected to my self esteem and confidence!!

Thanks Cookie. I know he is a good man he just worries about me which i totally understand... After all its an op!
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That's right hun. Image the concern you'd have for you other half if he 'needed' to have surgery, then imagine the concern would be tenfold if he 'elected' to have surgery.

Its not wrong to love someone and to instinctively want to protect you. He does this out love for you... But if he can support you against all those instincts as he is doing, then I believe thats testament to just how strong his love is for you hun. Xxx

I'm pleased he has come around g xx