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concerned
Morning
so after having seen lots of pictrails im really getting worried my BA has gone wrong!! Mine just seem so high up and so un natural looking compared to all you girls. i also cant get them together in bras like u all do even early post op girls.
My surgeon is now based in Manchester which id nearly 5 hours away. im thinking of paying for a consultation with anothe surgeon based in Glasgow to get their opinion. sorry being a moany pants xx
so after having seen lots of pictrails im really getting worried my BA has gone wrong!! Mine just seem so high up and so un natural looking compared to all you girls. i also cant get them together in bras like u all do even early post op girls.
My surgeon is now based in Manchester which id nearly 5 hours away. im thinking of paying for a consultation with anothe surgeon based in Glasgow to get their opinion. sorry being a moany pants xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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Aww don't be sorry, thats what we are here for. Well your avi's always look amazing. Was the surgeon private or part of a clinic? I think, for the sake of a £100 or so, it may be worth seeing another surgeon, even just to put your mind at ease. Have you taken any pictures. Plus we do like to criticise ourselves, I still dont like mine naked as my righty hasnt cupped, but no one else seems to notice on my pics.
lil-happy-jo- BJSF Addict
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aww Tink like jo said dont be sorry, we are all here to help. If it makes you feel better then maybe go and get a second opinion.
I think your avi is looking really good and fab. x
I think your avi is looking really good and fab. x
loclo26- BJSF Elite Member
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It was a private surgeon. im going to look about for surgeons and def pay for a consultation.
They look in clothes at the right angle xx
They look in clothes at the right angle xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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Aww tink x as jo has already said were all here to support each other! All of your avi's look fab! If you feel you need to see another surgeon then go for it Hun x if nothing else it will put your mind at ease. Have you taken any pics that you can look back on to see the changes? X
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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Tink don't compare your self to others. We are all different. As you said you started out with very little and now your measuring a 28e/f that's impressive. I still can't get a cleavage and I've not had the all clear for wires yet. I had my opp only a couple of days after you.
It might be worth seeing someone, but as others have said it can take ages for things to settle and achieve your final result.
It might be worth seeing someone, but as others have said it can take ages for things to settle and achieve your final result.
vixylyx- Active BJSF Member
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Were u just after me. whats the reason for no wires yet?
Ive taken 100s of pics and theres a change in size and one side has kinda dropped but apart from that very little change xx
Ive taken 100s of pics and theres a change in size and one side has kinda dropped but apart from that very little change xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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Awww sweetie.... Your implants do probably need repositioning and not such a bad thing yes, it involves further surgery but you'll have a much better recovery than you did last time because all that will be happening is a pocket revision to enable the implants to drop sweetheart.
Your surgeon did say he'd return to see you didnt he? Is that soon?
I know he said the surgery would be in Manchester but that too isn't a bad thing hunni, you can stay in a hotel for a couple of days and then travel home..
Or, you surgeon did say you had the option to see another of his colleagues, so do be sure to research them before agreeing to see them. Then you can have your surgery were you are. You can have a day case and be home not long after hun, so its morally not as bad as your thinking.
Once the implants have been repositioned you're going to see a very different look than you have now hun... I promise
At almost 4 month post-op when you next see your surgeon, don't except any more 'waiting' suggestion hun. Tell them you want them sorted. You've been very patient and you're breasts are still high and you're not at all satisfied with the result.
Chin up though babe... Its really not as bad as you think. You'll be OK xx
Your surgeon did say he'd return to see you didnt he? Is that soon?
I know he said the surgery would be in Manchester but that too isn't a bad thing hunni, you can stay in a hotel for a couple of days and then travel home..
Or, you surgeon did say you had the option to see another of his colleagues, so do be sure to research them before agreeing to see them. Then you can have your surgery were you are. You can have a day case and be home not long after hun, so its morally not as bad as your thinking.
Once the implants have been repositioned you're going to see a very different look than you have now hun... I promise
At almost 4 month post-op when you next see your surgeon, don't except any more 'waiting' suggestion hun. Tell them you want them sorted. You've been very patient and you're breasts are still high and you're not at all satisfied with the result.
Chin up though babe... Its really not as bad as you think. You'll be OK xx
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He was coming up April but has cancelled. so annoyed hecwas just seeing me. So his next time is june when im on hol.
Surgery would be manchester and id def like an over night stay im too much of a worrier to just go home. specially if im 5 hours away.
do you think i should see another surgeon for another opinion cookie. xx
Surgery would be manchester and id def like an over night stay im too much of a worrier to just go home. specially if im 5 hours away.
do you think i should see another surgeon for another opinion cookie. xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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To be honest Tink, I think your surgeon has let you down lovely.... He's relocated to Manchester which was a great move for him but his move so far really has left you and his other patients high and dry really and although he's said you can go to Manchester which is good. Its a huge inconvenience to you and you have to think about him starting to already cancel appointment. Travelling from Manchester to Scotland for him too is a massive inconvenience! And is he going to come back to Scotland for all your post-op check-ups? I think its sadly very unlikely babe and I also think you'll feel far more reassured knowing your surgeon is at hand should you need him, so ,if it were me Tink, I'd take your surgeons recommendation and see one of his colleagues. It shouldn't cost you anymore because your aftercare will be with the clinic and not the surgeon, so the surgeon you see will just take over where your last surgeon left off...
That's me though Tink, i personally feel surgeons chosen should be within a distance you can get to within an hour should you suffer a complication after Surgery, but you really have to decide what you think is right for yourself. Xx
That's me though Tink, i personally feel surgeons chosen should be within a distance you can get to within an hour should you suffer a complication after Surgery, but you really have to decide what you think is right for yourself. Xx
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your def right cookie. gutted is an understatement but cause he is private and not with a clinic im feeling its so much harder to try and sort things out also my worry is when to have more surgery as its coming into summer so will assume al be back in sports bras etc etc and then theres hol from work xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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one last question if any surgeon was to advise a compression band do you think this is too late
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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So he has no other colleagues within his private clinic hun? Its just him? I thought you'd said your surgeon suggested another to take over if this was what you wanted?
If he's private then you're just going to have to go to Manchester babe. It'll cost you far more if you go to another surgeon than it will to sort a hotel and travel expenses to Manchester.
I have to say that because HE relocated I'd also be asking for the travel expenses and hotel to be compensated also!
As for when lovely.... Well, it NEEDS doing and like I said your recovery won't be anything like the first hun, they'll heal much quicker and then if you have it done as soon as possible you'll be able to finally fully enjoy your boobs hun. Xx
If he's private then you're just going to have to go to Manchester babe. It'll cost you far more if you go to another surgeon than it will to sort a hotel and travel expenses to Manchester.
I have to say that because HE relocated I'd also be asking for the travel expenses and hotel to be compensated also!
As for when lovely.... Well, it NEEDS doing and like I said your recovery won't be anything like the first hun, they'll heal much quicker and then if you have it done as soon as possible you'll be able to finally fully enjoy your boobs hun. Xx
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Well you have already had great advice off all the ladies and what i would say has been said. Just sorry it hasnt worked out being as straight forward as we would all like to hope but like Cookie said it can be easily fixed so not to worry but for what it is worth i think they look amazing =] x
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there is a Mr Angelo Alleruzzo that he works closely with but I can hardly find anything about him, i know he also works for the hospital group?
I take it i really should wait to i come home from Tunisia in july before going ahead again.
xx
I take it i really should wait to i come home from Tunisia in july before going ahead again.
xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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if it was me i'd be seeing a different surgeon hun, didnt he say he would transfer you to another person? i've seen someone have a consultation with my surgeon in scotland - just a thought :)
sending a hug, im not expert but i think you need to at least get another opinion on them you've been patient enough x
sending a hug, im not expert but i think you need to at least get another opinion on them you've been patient enough x
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yeah Mr Angelo Alleruzzo is who he said i can see but I cant find much about him anywhere hunted and hunted
Im heading down to see my surgeon too but will see another surgeon, but its only for a second opinion cause i dont want to fork out anymore money, Peters like be done with it go somewhere else we will pay again but thats not the point xx
Im heading down to see my surgeon too but will see another surgeon, but its only for a second opinion cause i dont want to fork out anymore money, Peters like be done with it go somewhere else we will pay again but thats not the point xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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tbh hun you said that he really struggled to get your 365s in and we all know that the bigger the implant puts you at more risk of complications. i dont think your BA has gone 'wrong' but i do think maybe your body is struggling with what is clearly a big implant for your frame. on the other hand tho, you are 4 months a long and we all kno that it can take up to a year for unders to drop/fluff/settle/be finished ya know. I'm sorry you arent pleased with your results, i do think it would benefit you to at least get a 2nd opinion tho. big hugs xxx
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newboobz wrote:tbh hun you said that he really struggled to get your 365s in and we all know that the bigger the implant puts you at more risk of complications
i think thats a really good point, could be the size thats stopping them fluffing and moving but on the flip side, a lot of us with unders havent seen a fluff under 6 months. Caz said she saw lots of good results for fluffing at 6 months - 12 months with unders xx
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tinkerbell24 wrote:yeah Mr Angelo Alleruzzo is who he said i can see but I cant find much about him anywhere hunted and hunted
Hmmmm I just checked him out on the GMC register and although he's on a specialist register for 'general surgery' he's not on a specialist register for plastic surgery, so I'd personally give him a wide berth babe.
You're left now with two choices hun. Either you prepare after your holiday to go to Manchester babe... Or you take Peters advise lovely and get yourself another surgeon. Xx
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yeah def struggled and funny how all other surgeons were all saying bigger than 400cc aswell but Mr Ray knew there was no chance getting 380cc in let alone bigger than 400cc
Im going to see a few more surgeons but im not willing to spend more money other than travelling til my surgeon at leasts does a re op to sort this prob if that make sense
right now i wish id never had it done xx
Im going to see a few more surgeons but im not willing to spend more money other than travelling til my surgeon at leasts does a re op to sort this prob if that make sense
right now i wish id never had it done xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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they shouldnt have struggled to get anything in tho lovely, theres been a few girls on here who started with nothing of recent and they've all had 300 and under apart from my right boob. 365 is a seriously big implant if you didnt have tissue before xx
littlewellies- BJSF Addict
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tinkerbell24 wrote:Im going to see a few more surgeons but im not willing to spend more money other than travelling til my surgeon at leasts does a re op to sort this prob if that make sense
right now i wish id never had it done xx
Don't get yourself down over it hun. Your surgeon has caused some I settlement with moving so far away but its not undoable.
Do ensure though that you get your surgeon to pay for the hotel and the travel expenses hun. Its NOT your fault he decided to relocate and its his responsibility to cover your expenses hun.
You WILL be OK Tink, yes, a re-op isn't something any of us who have been through expect or are prepared for, but we ALL get through it lovely and it all turns out OK in the end and you'll be MUCH happier when its all done. Xx
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i read through the post op stats before surgery and a few people started with same size and had the same or bigger implants some do have a round the 275cc implants,
it is one of my questions to ask him next i have 365cc moderate so was going to ask if smaller but high profile would work better
ive been on other websites and plenty have nothing to start and have bigger implants unders as me and have all settled well even with a struggle to get them in
its all confusing and really getting me stressed
Cookie do you think it could be to do with the size of implant used? He has said he will pay my petrol for my visit to him and then flights if i do need reop
what if i see other surgeons and they recommend more massage or compression band etc and time again, do you think its to late for that xx
thanks all for taking time to listenx xx
it is one of my questions to ask him next i have 365cc moderate so was going to ask if smaller but high profile would work better
ive been on other websites and plenty have nothing to start and have bigger implants unders as me and have all settled well even with a struggle to get them in
its all confusing and really getting me stressed
Cookie do you think it could be to do with the size of implant used? He has said he will pay my petrol for my visit to him and then flights if i do need reop
what if i see other surgeons and they recommend more massage or compression band etc and time again, do you think its to late for that xx
thanks all for taking time to listenx xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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hun, you need to stop comparing yourself to other people. we're all SO different. I know it's hard for you hun but getting yourself down over other people stats isn't going to help you at all xx
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