First time 'reveal' post BA!!!
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First time 'reveal' post BA!!!
Hi Girls
I'm just over three months BA, all has gone fine and i'm really happy with my new puppies but I'm really really nervous about the (er hem) first time unveiling.
I'm single but have recently re-met a guy I knew from school who i'm quite keen on. We're getting on pretty well, he's been texting a lot and we've seen each other a few times but i'm now freaking out as if it gets to the nakedness stage I'm going to have to tell him about my BA. I think I keep on backing off as I'm scared.
My boobs look pretty natural now, they're a little firm, but when I move my arms around or bend over you can definitely see the scars. He's a doctor so I'm pretty sure he'll be able to tell.
Were any of you single when you had your BA's and how did you deal with the "unveiling"? Better to say something before or after? I'm just really scared he's going to freak out or think about me differently. Argggh!!
xx
I'm just over three months BA, all has gone fine and i'm really happy with my new puppies but I'm really really nervous about the (er hem) first time unveiling.
I'm single but have recently re-met a guy I knew from school who i'm quite keen on. We're getting on pretty well, he's been texting a lot and we've seen each other a few times but i'm now freaking out as if it gets to the nakedness stage I'm going to have to tell him about my BA. I think I keep on backing off as I'm scared.
My boobs look pretty natural now, they're a little firm, but when I move my arms around or bend over you can definitely see the scars. He's a doctor so I'm pretty sure he'll be able to tell.
Were any of you single when you had your BA's and how did you deal with the "unveiling"? Better to say something before or after? I'm just really scared he's going to freak out or think about me differently. Argggh!!
xx
lx79- Active BJSF Member
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Re: First time 'reveal' post BA!!!
Id Just forget about them being augmentation and just enjoy yourself. If the topic should arise, I'd approach it then, but until then.... They're YOUR boobs. Whether you've had surgery or not isn't his business babe... What matters right now is that your both enjoying each others company, just go with that gorgeous. Xx
Re: First time 'reveal' post BA!!!
Yeah I dont think you need to bring it up. Its not like its going to make a difference. If you'd had a sex change or something then yeah you should say something but so many women have a BA these days so its not a big deal in society and you wouldnt think about saying "hey these eyelashes... they are fake, oh and I havent got a natural tan its out of a bottle and while we are on the conversation I wax my legs they arnt naturally hair free!" Having a BA is something you have had to enhance your apperance and your confidence and its nothing more than that and I reckon most guys are so preoccupied with what is about to happen that they are not going to mind if you have had a BA!!
5stonedown- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: First time 'reveal' post BA!!!
Totally agree with these comments Hun, you had your BA for a reason would you have been more conscious and unconfident revealing your preop boobs then you are revealing your post op? If he freaks or thinks any differently of you that's his problem not yours. Xx
Mummy me- BJSF Addict
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Re: First time 'reveal' post BA!!!
Im with the others babe, just have a good time and see what happens.
Although im now giggling to myself at 5ST's comment, just incase of sex change lolol, always a conversation starter!! lol :) x
Have a lovely time babe and let us know xxxx
Although im now giggling to myself at 5ST's comment, just incase of sex change lolol, always a conversation starter!! lol :) x
Have a lovely time babe and let us know xxxx
Kxx- BJSF Elite Member
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Location : manchester
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