Randomly PMing members for pictures

Over the last few weeks I've received quite a few PMs from members concerned about getting PMs to see their post-op pictures from members they have never had any contact/chat with on the forum or through PM.

Before anyone thinks about randomly PMing for pictures here please take a moment to take into consideration first whether or not you have actually spent some time on the forum or through PM getting to know the actual person you're PMing to see their private picures.

Just think about if the shoe were on the other foot - You have pictures of your naked breasts. You receive a PM from a newbie/active/addict/elite member that you don't know or have had contact/chat with.

We try so hard here at BJSF to keep you all safe, but it's not impossible for an internet creep to slip through the net and gain an active/addict/elite membership and this is very important for all of us to be aware of.

Now... with not having any contact/chat with a specific member that you might be PMing without having being offered 'private' pictures, would you appreciate the PM from a stranger to see your boobs?

I would imagine none of us would appreciate it really, so do give a little thought to the women you might be PMing girls, these pictures are from real women with real feelings and their pictures are very personal to them.


Remember girls YOU are responsible for who you choose to share your pictures with. If anyone does receive these random PMs and they make you feel uncomfortable in any way, please don't be afraid of ignoring the PM. Having an active/addict/elite membership is not an automatic entitlement for anybody here to see your private pictures. The pictures are yours and yours to share with whoever YOU choose to.


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This also applies to any of you offering pictures on the forum. Remember, you're not obligated to share with any of those who request to see your pictures. It's YOUR choice and your responsibility who you choose to share with and you have the right to ignore/refuse (In a polite manner) anybody you don't feel comfortable sharing with.

If anybody has any concerns at all about picture requests please either on the forum or through receiving a PM feel free to PM myself, our Global Moderator: misf1 or our Moderators: Kay or mrsball.

Thank you for taking the time to read.

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Just giving this a bump after having yet more PMs from members about being randomly PMd by newbies for their pictures. X

Quite right! Ill share with newbies who are booked in and have an idea of what they're having not if they haven't spoken in the forum xx

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I'm glad this has been given a bump as you know I've felt very uncomfortable in this kind of situation. Gives me reassurance that it is okay to not feel obligated to share with everyone. xx