Am I obsessed?

Hello Everyone

I'm new here although I've been reading the site for months.

9 weeks ago I had a BA after wanting to do it for years. I've gone from a horrible baggy, saggy, empty, revolting 34/36c (probably a b cup actually but I always wore c bras) to a size 34E. I had 375cc unders. The op and the healing process have been amazing. It really is the best thing I ever did.

BUT my husband says that I have become obsessed with boobs! I'm always looking at this website and others. I'm always looking at before and after pictures too just to see if any of them look like mine. Am I mad? Is anyone else the same?

Also, since my op, every morning the first thing I do is walk to the mirror and have a look to see if I look any different from the day before. Almost as if I still can't believe they are mine.

I worry a lot too that I'll end up with complications. I do have a slight niggle at the moment which I will post in the appropriate thread.

Im hoping that someone out there will tell me that it's normal to be so obsessed!!!!

Yes it's normal hunni I had my ba a year ago and I constantly think about my boobs and wonder bout other people's too!! Lol boobies r great xx

I've had augmentated boobs for 5 years and am still obsessed! YAY for boobs I say! haha! xx

Definately me too - every mirror, quick peek - mirror in the bathroom - full on inspection!

Worrying about complications is definately natural too - I am only just now starting to calm down about some things that had concerned me. My surgeon assured me given time to settle then all would be well - and he was right - i think I love him a little

I am exactly the same hunni, don't worry!!!

My boyfriend snapped at me for asking him questions and showing him pictures of celebs boobs, I didn't think a guy would find the topic a chore so I'm SO glad I found this website.

The BA is something I'd wanted and thought about for years and always hated my boobs so I got SO excited. I guess they just don't understand!

I'm only a week post-op and I look at them every morning then look at the pictures I've taken of them and I'm obsessed with what other people's look like still.

I'm getting my hair coloured on thursday so I've been annoying my boyfriend with pictures of celeb hair now haha xxx

Thanks so much for all your replies.

It's great to know that some of you are as bad as me!

I never thought I would be saying this but I think my husband is bored stiff of boobs!!! So it's great to be able to talk about them on here.

I'm obsessed with bras and bikinis too and any type of clothes that I wasn't able to wear before! I think I should have budgeted for all the stuff I keep buying. I just can't help myself!

hahaha - you sound so like me

Haha totally normal hun, I think BJSF has been a blessing to me as I can sit and talk about boobies every evening long after all of the "real" people in my life have become sick of it!

I too have a look in a mirror at every opportunity, a peek down my top or just give them a good poke every so often to check they're there haha. Make the most of them and enjoy them sweetie, all of that money and surgery they deserve to be appreciated as much as you do!! x

I havent even had mine done yet and i am totally obsessed! Im on BJSF on the laptop all the time then on my mobile at work! I can talk about boobs all day long on here its great and everyone is excited about eachothers. I do find myself walking down the street just looking at peoples boobs now though! Freak!! lol xx

Lol Alice is so right, I look at mine all the time ,give them a feel (in a non sexual way ) and look down my top too. You will be doing the same Pammie soon . And if youre a freak we ALL are on here too xx

i think its completely normal i m totally boob obsessed! i m hoping it will get better when i ve stopped saving and can actually afford to leave the house to do fun stuff instead of just going to work lol

I am still obsessed with boobies even though I had my 1st b a 2 1/2yrs ago, hence me always being on this sight .Not sure it ever really goes away totally xx

Id say im pretty obsessed with mine, to be honest they're still kind of a novelty to me haha! I wonder does that ever wear off?x

Yep I think BJSF is as much 'Boobie anonymous' as it is for advice hun!
Maybe your obsession ain't normal but then were all boob freaks! Haha xx

im obsessed too! at some points im sure women think im checking them out when im looking at them thinking hmm i wonder what size they are/ if theyre real/ if mine will look like that etc etc

I must say though my bf is really 'supportive' when im asking him questions and showing him pics on google and such saying its amazing being told by his gf to look at boobs haha.

Im so excited!! 17 days and im sure ill be just if not more obsessed after surgery! xx

think Ive been caught out too like you gordiejen - and the woman/women in question thinking Im giving them the glad-eye ooops ... it would complicate things more though If I said 'you've beautiful breasts - Id like some just the same!' so best just to smile and carry on walking - head down to hide the raging blush!

I think my DF is still quite happy to enjoy being 'allowed' to look and appreciate a nice pair - i still do now, even after the ba!

All I can say is boobs boobs boobs :) xx

peggysue! hiya sweetie - hows you?

I'm great thanks Kat. I don't want to steal the thread so I will inbox you in the morning, ru married yet? X

six weeks to go

and just to stay on topic .....



and so do I lately

Im still obsessed,cant stop looking at them on me and other women,and my husband loves them ,always makes a grab for them as soon has he gets home from work!!!!,he never did that befor BA !!!he said he was a leg man !!!!

Ha yeah my fellas always been a bum-man but that appears to have changed.
The joy of these m&s zip up bras is that it's easy to give him a flash! Haha x