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A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by COOKIE 16th April 2012, 3:48 pm
What are you personally hoping to gain from having a BA?
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by *Alice* 16th April 2012, 5:58 pm
Good question Cookie!
I hope to gain more confidence and femininity, I feel akward and butch right now (even though I'm not) just how I feel in my body.
I want more symmetry, bra shopping is so depressing and stressful for me. I have to find gel bras that fit my larger side enough so I won't hang over, but cover my smaller side enough to not gape open and have constant nip flashes for anyone around me! Whilst I don't expect a mirical and perfectly symetrical boobs, I'd like something a bit more balanced.
I think it's just everything I've needed since being a teenager, I can get used to all of my other faults on my body but this is one I can't quite shake off!
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I hope to gain more confidence and femininity, I feel akward and butch right now (even though I'm not) just how I feel in my body.
I want more symmetry, bra shopping is so depressing and stressful for me. I have to find gel bras that fit my larger side enough so I won't hang over, but cover my smaller side enough to not gape open and have constant nip flashes for anyone around me! Whilst I don't expect a mirical and perfectly symetrical boobs, I'd like something a bit more balanced.
I think it's just everything I've needed since being a teenager, I can get used to all of my other faults on my body but this is one I can't quite shake off!
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Beej 16th April 2012, 6:10 pm
Ditto I want to be able to feel confident when naked in front of partner without covering them up, lights off etc....im sooo bad sometimes makes me wanna cry if he peeks, I only let him see them when they are cold as they look semi normal unfortunetly cant keep a supply of ice with me at all times ahahah its not so much the size issue with mine it's the shape and just want to look normal!!! Or as normal as possible anyways. X
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Wishful 16th April 2012, 6:48 pm
A rounder shape as I have never been happy with my current breast shape, always felt a little 'abnormal' and self conscious when braless
Bigger, more proportionate to my body shape ( broad, square shoulders but with a short waist AND small boobs)
A cleavage!!! As they are also far apart.
More than anything, I would love to be able to sunbathe topless and not give a damn what anyone else thinks because I feel good
Bigger, more proportionate to my body shape ( broad, square shoulders but with a short waist AND small boobs)
A cleavage!!! As they are also far apart.
More than anything, I would love to be able to sunbathe topless and not give a damn what anyone else thinks because I feel good
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Wishful 16th April 2012, 6:50 pm
Ha beej I know the feeling!! Early days with the Boyf used to keep the window open to make sure they were cold enough to look normal-ish
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Wishful 16th April 2012, 6:59 pm
Ha beej I know the feeling!! Early days with the Boyf used to keep the window open to make sure they were cold enough to look normal-ish
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Wishful 16th April 2012, 7:03 pm
Ha beej I know the feeling!! Early days with the Boyf used to keep the window open to make sure they were cold enough to look normal-ish
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by COOKIE 16th April 2012, 7:07 pm
beej wrote:I only let him see them when they are cold as they look semi normal unfortunetly cant keep a supply of ice with me at all times
I know it's a sensitive topic, but beej, you creased me up with this
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Beej 16th April 2012, 7:32 pm
You wait till you see my pre BA pictures that'l make you laugh ahahaha they are soooo bad really can't find the words to describe what they look like. With erect nips porn star with warm ones a crying winging curled up in feotul position wreck. I was blessed with big feet (size 8) big mouth and big mother puffy nipples they forgot about actual breast tissue. Just my luck :( xx
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Liv1 16th April 2012, 10:14 pm
I used to be 34c really nice shape, & then had 2 kids... Breast feeding completely ruined mine & all the volume seems to have been lost especially from the upper poles, if I'm lying down they are almost completely flat & I have to wear chicken fillets or gel filled bras, no size bra seems to fit not even an A cup so really want them back to how they looked before, maybe a bit bigger too so they don't look like granny boobs any more.. but want them to look au natural & not noticeable I've had a BA! x
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by roxanne 16th April 2012, 10:40 pm
I know I'm not pre op anymore, but it's only been over two weeks, and still very fresh in my memory.
I used to love the way my boobs looked before having my kids, but afterwards they looked very different. I just wanted to have pretty sexy natural looking boobs again instead of tired old lady boobs
I used to love the way my boobs looked before having my kids, but afterwards they looked very different. I just wanted to have pretty sexy natural looking boobs again instead of tired old lady boobs
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Oracle 17th April 2012, 9:48 am
Same as Roxanne, only 2 weeks post op, so not had a real chance to get used to my new assets yet.
I'm hoping to gain confidence in myself, as I now look like a woman in proportion.
I want to be able to wear strapless tops and dresses without huge padding in my bra, which never sat right on my body. I want to have cool boobs in summer (always sat behind huge padding previously), which made me sweat and left horrible marks on t-shirts.
I want to be able to buy nice bras, swimwear and clothes and not always worry that my tiny boobs will look ridiculous.
I want to love my body and not hate it as I did 2 weeks ago!
I dont want much!!!!
I'm hoping to gain confidence in myself, as I now look like a woman in proportion.
I want to be able to wear strapless tops and dresses without huge padding in my bra, which never sat right on my body. I want to have cool boobs in summer (always sat behind huge padding previously), which made me sweat and left horrible marks on t-shirts.
I want to be able to buy nice bras, swimwear and clothes and not always worry that my tiny boobs will look ridiculous.
I want to love my body and not hate it as I did 2 weeks ago!
I dont want much!!!!
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by Kxx 19th April 2012, 7:32 am
Im just hoping to look the same size with my bra on as it is off lol
Im pretty confident so its not that but i would like to buy nice underware and be able to wear a backless top etc.
I sort of trust my decision as it doesnt realy have so much to do with emotion as it does with being able to wear the clothes i want to lol
Im going to be 30 this year and have decided that after that i wouldnt bother so its pretty much a prezzie to me!! :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ME!!! :)
Im pretty confident so its not that but i would like to buy nice underware and be able to wear a backless top etc.
I sort of trust my decision as it doesnt realy have so much to do with emotion as it does with being able to wear the clothes i want to lol
Im going to be 30 this year and have decided that after that i wouldnt bother so its pretty much a prezzie to me!! :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ME!!! :)
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by georgiana76 19th April 2012, 12:59 pm
Confidence!!!
My boobs where at there best whilst during pregnancy, once I had finished breast feeding, Nightmare!!!
I look forward to being able to buy nice underwear.
Not feeling paranoid that someone may get a flash of my chest and be horrified at the lack of boobage!
To be able to wear (and fill) pretty tops.
To be able to wear a bikini without wanting to hide, oh god the list goes on...
To feel confident with my body during 'adult time' with the hubbie.
To not feel jealous of big boobed friends, and strangers.
There's probably more, in fact, theres def more, but I need to give it some thought, lol! x
To not feel horrible when boob shots are on the tv.
My boobs where at there best whilst during pregnancy, once I had finished breast feeding, Nightmare!!!
I look forward to being able to buy nice underwear.
Not feeling paranoid that someone may get a flash of my chest and be horrified at the lack of boobage!
To be able to wear (and fill) pretty tops.
To be able to wear a bikini without wanting to hide, oh god the list goes on...
To feel confident with my body during 'adult time' with the hubbie.
To not feel jealous of big boobed friends, and strangers.
There's probably more, in fact, theres def more, but I need to give it some thought, lol! x
To not feel horrible when boob shots are on the tv.
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Re: A question for all you Pre-Op girls....
by georgiana76 19th April 2012, 1:03 pm
Hang on, heres some more ...
To feel feminine, and not like a boy.
To be able to go bra free, or even just padding free!!
To be able to get undressed in front of my hubbie.
Ill prob be back with some more in a mo ........
To feel feminine, and not like a boy.
To be able to go bra free, or even just padding free!!
To be able to get undressed in front of my hubbie.
Ill prob be back with some more in a mo ........
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