Boobs look great, but are causing problems...

Ok, not sure if any of you had this problem since getting your twins done. When ever I go out, I go with a group of about 6 people. Everyone in The group are my best friends, and it's a mix of guys and girls. 

The issue is one of the guys in the group recently confessed his love for me. He's known me for 7 years. He said that in the past 2 months he's developed feelings for me. Go figure, 2 months is exactly how long I've had huge boobs for. I pretty much want to tell him that my jugs are the only reason he's feeling this way. It's NOT me he loves, it's my sweater puppets. 

Back when I had pancakes,  he never felt this way. Now, He's always looking at them, although I guess I can't blame him for checking them out. I wear low cut tops when I go out, and, well, not to sound cocky, but they look amazing, hehe.

Seriously though, has anyone else had a close friend look at you as more than a friend once you got your boobs enhanced?

 How do I explain to him it's the funbags he's in love with and not me? Ahhh looks like my new boobs are causing so much drama!!!! Any opinions on what to say to my friend whose now in love with me?

Hey Puma

Nice problem to have imo

Firstly do you feel the same about him? The answer to that question will determine how you should proceed! If you like him as more than a best friend then it's a no brainer - enjoy.

If you want to keep him as a best friend, then proceed with kindness and care. You could really hurt his feelings and spoil the friendship and group dynamic if you reject him carelessly. I would suggest a quiet word in his ear saying that since your surgery, you're confused about your feelings about everything and are not ready to get involved with anyone, including him. Tell him to give you 6 months and then you can use the time to demonstrate to him that he is an important friend and nothing more. All us girls now how to do that with body language, touch, eye contact etc right?
The poor guy is being driven by forces beyond his control and should be treated with kid gloves.

And to you - they're obviously looking great!

x

Thanks Hun! As fun as the new twins are, I guess they come with a lot of new responsibilities....

Sue Scrivs wrote:Hey Puma

Nice problem to have imo

Firstly do you feel the same about him? The answer to that question will determine how you should proceed! If you like him as more than a best friend then it's a no brainer - enjoy.

If you want to keep him as a best friend, then proceed with kindness and care. You could really hurt his feelings and spoil the friendship and group dynamic if you reject him carelessly. I would suggest a quiet word in his ear saying that since your surgery, you're confused about your feelings about everything and are not ready to get involved with anyone, including him. Tell him to give you 6 months and then you can use the time to demonstrate to him that he is an important friend and nothing more. All us girls now how to do that with body language, touch, eye contact etc right?
The poor guy is being driven by forces beyond his control and should be treated with kid gloves.

And to you - they're obviously looking great!

x

perfect advice x

I totally agree! Great advice! Boobs should come with a warning about the attention they bring lol! Xxx

barbiegirl wrote:I totally agree! Great advice! Boobs should come with a warning about the attention they bring lol! Xxx

Haha, they definitely should.

I think the girls have this covered.

My OH has warned me that I need to handle the new attention carefully as if people try it on he (OH) will have to put them (people) back in their box - he is quite jealous.

On the plus side, my OH is completely distracted by them and it has definitely had a very positive affect on our relationship.

Ya, I guess attention is not always a positive thing. Sure, I love wearing low cut tops and catching people looking and checking them out, but it can lead to some real issues....

I have to confess something .... I went to see a doc about my dodgy toe (old age and too much running prob) and I caught him checking my boobage out .... I shouldnt have liked it ... but I did

Kat4 wrote:I have to confess something .... I went to see a doc about my dodgy toe (old age and too much running prob) and I caught him checking my boobage out .... I shouldnt have liked it ... but I did

I'll admit, I love when I see guys stare or glance at them. It's like they can't themselves! So funny to see...

I've been in relationship for a while now, so I haven't had any men verbalise their new appreciation... they LOOK of course, but they tend not to SAY when you have a guy by your side. I've had a fair few girls tell me how sensational they look, though .

But I would go with the advice given above. You don't want to belittle his feelings, being that you are friends.... but maybe just give him the time to register you're the same YOU, just with bigger tit!

xx