Re: really unhappy with my breast

by Lookoutgirl 25th October 2011, 3:01 pm

I have gummie unders and mine are moving about nicely now and Im just going on 3 months im sure yours will do the same with time. But if you feel so strong about your placement say on top of it and make sure they write it down in your charts so if in 6 months your still not happy you have it in writing!! Good luck hun...

by Lauren87 25th October 2011, 3:37 pm

Hi Hun my stats are similar to yours and I have exactly the same as you. The only time my ps mentioned that they wouldn't be really close together was when he was drawing on me just before op. Hardly going to change my mind at that point am I?

Well like you I'm hoping they soften up enough to have a goof cleavage. Would love to have had one all the time though.

Janeybird how long did it take yours to soften properly?

Would you mind if I took a look at your pics shirtripper?

by janeybird 25th October 2011, 3:43 pm

Oh god AAAAGES

I couldnt wear a bra until 6 weeks post op and they were still firm then and at 2 months when i got married they were softER but still reasonably firm is sooooo a waiting game.

I had to get new bras a short while after wedding as they didnt fit right in the others cos they mustve softened and changed shape

so about 2-3 months in i reckon

x x

by Lauren87 25th October 2011, 3:46 pm

I'm 8 weeks PO and mine have softened but not loads hoping they soften much more yet.

by janeybird 25th October 2011, 3:48 pm

aw they will Lauren87 mine were still changing and softening for almost the whole year :)

by shirtripper 25th October 2011, 3:50 pm

mine have started to soften but hopefully they will soften loads more cant imagine going around with solid boobs that dont move want to be able to enjoy them with the husband poor bloke had to put up with my spaniels ears for 4 years lol x

by Lauren87 25th October 2011, 4:42 pm

Thanks Hun I've took a look and pm'd you x

by loopylou 25th October 2011, 5:47 pm

Mine are the same shirtripper - they are softening but still rigid and apart if that makes sense. There is no sign of cleavage going on here. I havent even tried normal bras because im sure they wouldnt fit in them properly. Ive been wondering whether anatomical unders was a good idea but time will tell I guess.

Waiting is a horrible game but Im not sure we have a choice xx

by shirtripper 25th October 2011, 6:36 pm

i feel the same and im feeling more positive now the ladies have told me theirs have softened and moved i can move mine ever so slightly but no where near enough to get a cleavage x i can get them in normal bras now tho i couldnt at first because they stuck out the sides to much x

by pard434 25th October 2011, 11:34 pm

Hi, I'm new to this forum (this is first post!). My friend had BA a year ago and she too had issues with a prominent gap in her cleavage. Apparently it all depends on how far your pec muscles meet in the middle as to how far the surgeon can place the implants together. Her muscles were quite far apart so he couldn't bring the implants in any further. She was disappointed about this to begin with (although still loved her new size) but now, one year on, everything has softened and she can pull them in as close as she wants. She still does have a gap but her boobs can be pulled in to cover it (if you know what I mean). I am not sure if I can get PM's yet (I couldn't PM you due to being a newbie) but if you are able to PM your password, I would love a look at your pics to see if these were like my friends to begin with.

BTW, you look awesome in your avatar.

by Shell025 26th October 2011, 1:02 pm

Hey shirtripper, thanks so much for letting me see your pictures. I think you look great, your avatars was one of my favourite. There is no doubt they are a little far apart but it is very early days. If you could get a clevage before you will get one again, things just need to settle it is very early days. I bet by your 6 month checkup when you are having your before and after pictures you will be delighted. I also am worried about my right breast, I think it is smaller than the left. I know they are not going to be identical but it is all I see when I look in the mirror so I understand what you are feeling xx

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