back handed compliment?? being over emotional?

Hiya so just come back from my op , other halfs here and has had a lil grope said there amazing, I said 'yeah they were disgusting before weren't they...' n he said yeah they were nasty! I couldn't believe it, before I had them
done he kept saying I don't care either way there's nothing wrong with u I love ur boobs. so for the last 2yrs he's been lying to make me' feel better .. when this whole time he thought they were 'nasty' obv nt as much of an issue as there lovely now. just shocked that he actually said that!!! men!!! grr! not only that tol him I need help with lil lady n gave her a cuddle but every two mins she's trying to jump on me' to play! I told him how important it was that this didn't happen n he jus comes in after a min or two goin aww she missed her mummy! as if I'm supposed to just get on with it!! then reluctantly says 'come on Lola mummys bein grumpy!' and keeps goin , u look completely fine u don't even look ill... y do I need a week off work? WTF, he's such an idiot sometimes. sorry had to get that off my chest ndont wana argue with him all day about it. have just locked myself in bedroom n pretending to sleep lol xx

Men are like selfish little boys. If he had ball implants I bet he wouldnt be moving about or running anywhere. Men do not understand empathy maybe kick him in the nuts until they are bruised then ask him to do his normal daily routine.

typical men u look fine so therefore u should just get on with it, it's the same when we give birth you've only pushed another life in to the world what do u mean ur sore and i should help ur legs aren't hanging of ur absolutely fine lol xx

good call misf1!!!

all men are insensitive hun, i'm sure he loves you dearly and i'm sure he did before ur op, and thought you were beautiful. They don't really know what they're saying half the time, then when you confront them on it they say 'oh i didn't mean it like that......' take it all with a pinch of salt, and if he doesn't help at home with ur little one, get him on the phone to me and i'll tell him what for!!!! xxxx

nikita that made me chuckle!! They are ALL the same!!

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they are morons!!! just pretend your sleeping or tell him you will have to go and stay with friends/family to get the rest you NEED... im choked with the cold atm and paranoid my surgery is going to be cancelled but I still had to get up to the wee one last night and get the others up n ready for school and nursery whilst he lay in his fek'n bed!!! wouldnt normally put up with it but need him to drive me to Manchester next Friday....lol...

moron example! my daughter said to me the other day "mummy your tummy is hanging out" me "i know, this top is a little bit small" her, "no no its cos you have a fat tummy".....lol....bless.... have put the pounds on a bit lately

so... i tell my o/h wen he get in and what did the muppet say "isn't it brilliant how kids are just sooo honest" I just glared at him and he was like "what what what did i do" MUPPET!

hope ypu feel better soon!

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kinkyboots33 wrote:moron example! my daughter said to me the other day "mummy your tummy is hanging out" me "i know, this top is a little bit small" her, "no no its cos you have a fat tummy".....lol....bless.... have put the pounds on a bit lately

So cute when the kiddies say it but not when the OH does is it?? Ugh men are not so swift, mine thinks its motivating to tell me he doesn't want to have the fat wife. Yikes!! I have put on about 15 lbs since we met though I can imagine he's well nervous as it's only been 1.5 yrs!!

Aww! I really sympathise.. when mone saw my new boobs for the first time he blurted out.. "your definitely not allowed any other boyfriends now!" and I was left thinking What the hell?! I went mad. Recently he said.. I cant tell the difference, again saying the wrong thing in his flight to be a good boyfriend! Bless! X

Samantha01 wrote:Aww! I really sympathise.. when mone saw my new boobs for the first time he blurted out.. "your definitely not allowed any other boyfriends now!" and I was left thinking What the hell?! I went mad. Recently he said.. I cant tell the difference, again saying the wrong thing in his flight to be a good boyfriend! Bless! X

Apologies for my terrible spelling.. Predictive typing! :(

OMG....MEEEEENNNN!!! GRRRR!!!