haters

lol..... love you peggysue

xxx

One of the women at work yesterday said to me - wow you've got a really good bra on. She didnt know about the ba but knew I was considering one and quite flat chested.
I said thank you, but for the first time ever I have no bra on, so I got naked and let her see and she said they were fab! She is also a doctor so I got a medical opinion at the same time!!

The haters will come, but thats their problem not mine. As Kirk on TOWIE put it this week - they are not fake boobs, they are just better boobs! I don't see them as better than other womens, but even now they are better than what I had!

Hey girls,

Yes, just to clarify, I was talking about people who make unneccessary rude comments. If someone said to me, "I had a nose job" I wouldn't say "why?" in a nasty way, that person made a personal decision, and if you don't have something nice to say, just say "I'm glad you're feeling good about yourself" or something like that. You don't have to love big boobs or agree with me, but rudeness is just rude! Even if it's not jealousy.

My cousins get that reaction from some people when they say they may have another child. They have four wonderful children, and he makes enough money that she can stay home and raise them. But because they have four, people are like "why would you want more?" EXCUSE ME?? THat's a personal decision! And again, how do you respond to something like that - you're bound to be defensive!

I just don't like how I am made to feel I should defend my decision to do this. But to be fair to the other side, I do suppose I could have just kept my mouth shut and not said anything.

Hope that everyone reading this is doing well and having positive responses to this great decision we made!!!

xxxxxxx

ali

[quote]I could have just kept my mouth shut and not said anything.
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Why should you hide the fact if your happy to tell people. Infact one of my best friends is also very small and unhappy with her breasts, but she is still not 100% sure about a ba plus money is a issue I think.
I was really worried about how I would make her feel,I said to my boyfriend I would always wear baggy tops around her and her husband. I told her my feelings the other day. She suprised me so much by saying
"once my other half cops a eyeful perhaps he will pay for mine, so please expose them as much ass you like I will be so glad to see you happy"
Bless her she is a lovely girl xxxx

she sounds like a lovely friend peggysue, thats cool

Alexandra33.... you be proud of what you've got chick, this is a major thing us girls are going through. A very brave and positive decision to make life better. So f*** the rest that have a problem with it. Life is too short to be unhappy, so if you can correct it, just do it!!

Can't be doing with arrogant, rude people who shout their opinion when its not bloody wanted!! Have some respect!!
Go girl

xxxxxx

Thx so much girls!! And yes peggysue your friend sounds lovely!!

xxx

ali

Thank you peggysue and AmyD.

AmyD wrote:most nice girls will only compete with the b**ches!!!

xxx

You've got it spot on there AmyD. Abbie, I do not want to make girls jealous of me.
What I am saying is I get a hard time at work from certain girls, and if they hate me for having bigger boobs and give me a hard time then I will use my boobs to my advantage. It's a defense mechanism. I have always suffered at the hands of bitchy girls, and the best way to put them in their place is to show them that you're proud of what you got, and that means showing you are confident in yourself. My own manager told me to wear looser tops, when I was completely covered, so excuse me for wanting to rebel against those people at my new found confidence!

Alexandra don't worry about other ppls negativity, they might have an opinion hun, but don't be afraid to give one back and tell them that you think they are being inappropriate. If it's one thing I've learnt always stick up for yourself cus you know you've done yourself justice. I 've missed out on that opportunity to stick up for myself many times, but it makes you stronger, then you instantly know how to handle that negativity and turn it to your advantage to make you feel good.
You've got amazing bangers! xxx

Good for you Alice! X X X

Thanks AmyD, omg 5 more days left for you! woop woop! xxx

Thx alice!!

I know! So excited I think I might pop! X X X

alice111 wrote:Thank you peggysue and AmyD.

AmyD wrote:most nice girls will only compete with the b**ches!!!

xxx

You've got it spot on there AmyD. Abbie, I do not want to make girls jealous of me.
What I am saying is I get a hard time at work from certain girls, and if they hate me for having bigger boobs and give me a hard time then I will use my boobs to my advantage. It's a defense mechanism. I have always suffered at the hands of bitchy girls, and the best way to put them in their place is to show them that you're proud of what you got, and that means showing you are confident in yourself. My own manager told me to wear looser tops, when I was completely covered, so excuse me for wanting to rebel against those people at my new found confidence!

sounds much better when you say it like that :)

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Abbie

peggysue wrote:Abbie chill out x

Comments like this can be taken the wrong way as, even with a smiley, without a tone you'd normally get in conversation it can be taken in a sarcastic or scathing manner. Please think before you write things that can be taken in a wrong way. Everyone's entitled to their opinion, as long as it's delivered in a respectful and tactful manner.

Hey girls, we have enought ppl outside of this forum that are not understanding and thing we've done the worst thing in the world. We shouldn't be taking each other on as well. I've never felt so accepted in my life, and I know where you girls are coming from, there have always been girls out there trying to make me feel bad about myself, whether they were teasing me about my small boobs, my freckles etc. I've had a lot of issues about the way I look, and I've come to accept most of these things. There are things I'll never be able to change about myself, but i have changed my attitude. I've come to love my freckles, and think they give my face a youthfull look, I've come to love the fact that I'm tiny and don't have nice curvy hips and a voluptious bum. One thing I could never get use to was my small boobs, and I don't care who knows that I've had them done. It makes me feel great about myself, and I'm finally comfortable in my own skin.

Lets just support each other girls. Its so important we never turn on each other.

Think peggysue was trying to defend another member of the forum who was also seemingly getting picked on..... x

if you think someone is getting picked on you should report it to a mod or myself and I will deal with it. We don't get a lot of drama on the forum, but we find when people notice someone being bullied then it's best to just inform someone rather than take matters into their own hands and start drama, which is against the rules.

This way it means we can stop any arguments and no one needs to get banned for rulebreaking!

RoxyChick wrote:

peggysue wrote:Abbie chill out x

Comments like this can be taken the wrong way as, even with a smiley, without a tone you'd normally get in conversation it can be taken in a sarcastic or scathing manner. Please think before you write things that can be taken in a wrong way. Everyone's entitled to their opinion, as long as it's delivered in a respectful and tactful manner.

No offence meant, but can understand where your coming from. I was trying to lighten the mood, but as with texting things can be taken in the wrong way. Sorry if I upset you Abbey x