haters

so I'm at work yesterday (finally went back to my barmaid job which I do 3x per week for extra money) and there are 2 girls there who are very skinny and tiny and completely flat chested. WAIT before you think I'm talking bad about them....
so the one girl is very interested, asking me about the BA, saying she had thought about it but was waiting until after kids. The problem is, pre-BA I always wore HUGE bras which made me look about a full C cup, so I couldn't say to her "I know how you feel" - she wouldn't have believed me, since I looked like pre-BA I had big boobs already.
Then the other girl comes out and is like "oh I haven't seen you in so long" and I was like well I had my boobs done (no use hiding it as the whole of the bar knows) and I'm a 34F now. She's like "WHY?" like really nasty. Like she was asking why the hell woudl I do that.
I'm like, well, I like big boobs.
No one knows how small I was before (except my BF and close friends) so they can't understand. But I just don't get the hate!
ugh
thx for the rant!
xxx
Ali

its not hate alexandra33 at all, its nearly always jealousy. if people asked questions about these things instead of automatically getting defensive they would find their lives so much more pleasant!!!

besides u like them and the people who support u all the time are happy, so do u really care what other people think??? exactly.

u go girl thats what i say........horray for big boobies

i would flash them off even more just to p@#! her off... thats just me thou! lol x

LOLOL - you read my mind meme, I was walking around with my chest pushed out all night

Alexandra, sorry its off topic but I just wanted to say your boobies look amazing!!! 34F??? WOW!! x

Good for you - you push em out Ali!!

Hey claire, thanks so much!! I know I never thought I'd go this big but it really feels great!
Not too long for you!!!!! You should get a similar result as you're even a bit thinner than me and are having extra high profile!!
good luck!!

xx

ali

Im soooo confused over size as my surgeon said he is aiming for a D/DD max as Im slightly tubular so I couldnt have more than a 420cc... But looking on here most ladies seem to be busting out DD/E/F cups with implants of the same or less!

I know where youre coming from with peoples opinions on fake boobs, I had a guy friend of mine saying "OMG why do you want to go to a DD, hardly tasteful and subtle is it! People are going to be saying ah theres claire shes had her boobs done!" AHHHH why do people feel the need to have an opinion??
He also said he thinks im getting it done for the attention... what he doesnt see is that I have to wear padded bras for a shape and to look like iv even got a 32C!! I feel myself trying to justify myself when I dont need to. Its my choice and Im a grown woman, Im going to love my new boobies :D x

u rock the boobies honey ur lucky to have a 34f i wanna be an f 34e at min hope i don't go down xx

put on the sexiest tops you have for the next week hehe, u gogurl x

That's such a rude response, isn't it?! I mean, everyone obviously has their reasons for getting it done, but quite often you don't necessarily want to get into a D&M with certain people over the ins and outs of how your boobs have been effecting you emotional state over whatever duration of time....

If her response was in reaction to her opinion being that you didn't need them then say "Really?? It didn't seem to me like you needed them". Or if she personally doesn't like implants, thats her opinion, she's entitled to it, but so are you and she doesn't need to force her opinions on to you. Whatever way she meant it, her mother really should have told her "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"!!

I think you look great! x

I think a lot of people can be shallow these days, in peoples eyes getting a boob job is wrong because your only doing it for attention, there are too many celebs or celeb wannabes in the magazine whipping them out, that's why when a 'normal' girls wants them done it's for the Same reason, when in actual fact if they just asked then they would get there answer.

I would be flashing them babies out just to make them extra jelous!

Some girls would hate you for having a boob job, but I believe it's because another girl sees you as now being happy and confident and there not, ENJOY Your new assets.

unfortuantly there is always someone who cant wait to say summert iv had it on 3 occasions the first girls responce to hearing i had had them done was 'omg how much did that cost ild rather you have that debt hanging over your head than me' she didnt even no my farther in law brought them !

the secound girl - said im selfish having them done with my 1 year old and said i cant pick up a pillow even thow after a week i was ll better!

and the third girl- said that im a selfish bitch havving my nails done and boobs done wen i dont work (my partner works 2 very well paid jobs so i can stay at home to be a full time mum) !!

non of these girls were friends they were girls from school who i had on fb i went fro and deleated everyone i now only have family and close friends , they are the people who no what this ment! xx

Oh she is well jel hunni. You are like me, I wore a triple gel bra so nobody except my fella knew how flat I really was. Be proud, you look fabulous xxxx

Honestly, your boobs look great! I can see why she's jealous!

tbh, its such a contraversial subject for some reason, that if youre open about it, then youre going to get mixed reactions. If shes tiny and flat chested , she may have felt like you were boasting about your big boobs, especially since you told her your bra size etc.
Sometimes its best to keep stuff to just the people youre close to and let the rest wonder if youre worried about negative reactions.
You cant please everyone

Thanks girls, I really needed that, it's so upsetting because like I said, I really was flat chested (well, just weird floppy-boobed) before...but no one there knew!
Abbie, I totally see where you're coming from, I guess I'm just so excited about them sometimes it doesn't seem like boasting, but to others it may. Honestly, 99% of people's reaction is "OMG really? What size are you NOW?" So I just got used to that. Plus I was talking with the other girl, but now that I think of it, it may have seemed like boasting to her. I am just so happy I guess I think everyone's going to be happy for me (naive!!!)
The truth is, I wouldn't have told anyone, but I really didn't see the harm since it's a bar and I had about 20 more customers since everyone knew I was coming back monday with them. So it's like advertising! My day job though DOES NOT know, and it's a professional job so I'd NEVER tell them!!
I guess it's naive to think that ppl will be happy - I mean, there's a girl @ the bar who used to be chubby and now she's skinny and GORGEOUS!!! And most ppl seem to be very happy for her. What's the diff????
ah well, it's good to have this forum, and I do realize how lucky I am not only to have the money to do this, but to have had a relatively easy time of it, I guess I'll just keep my bursting excitement to myself (and on here!!!) from now on!!!!

xxx

ali

Hey girlies, that's right get em out and show em off! I've got two see through tops and I'm guna be rocking a sexy bra under those can't wait. Women feel threatened if other women have bigger boobs than them...so just use them to ur advantage! make em more jealous, I will be when I'm back at work and going out after 6 weeks are up! xxx

There are always haters and there's always jealousy hun. From a new hairdo to a new baby, to a new house or car or even boobies. Nothing nice in life happens to a person without a little envy from someone or other. It's human nature I guess!

Ignore the nasty comments as best you can. Some people are just horrible because it makes them feel better to be that way. Feel sorry for them and their tiny little worlds that revolve around so much negativity and nastiness.

Main thing is, you are happy. And that's all that matters! xx

alice111 wrote: Women feel threatened if other women have bigger boobs than them...so just use them to ur advantage! make em more jealous,

what for? why would you want other women to be jealous and hate you?

I really dont get that mentality at all, but then ive always been a girls girl.

hi abbie, don't think alice meant it like that, think she was refering more to the women who make unnecessary rude comments because they're jealous. Not the nice women.
xxx

AmyD wrote:hi abbie, don't think alice meant it like that, think she was refering more to the women who make unnecessary rude comments because they're jealous. Not the nice women.
xxx

ok, re-read it, and it still reads the same to me, but i think i'll butt out tbh.
ive never felt threatened by other women having bigger boobs or being prettier than me or anything. I do feel threatened by certain women who make it obvious theyre not on your side, but against you and trying to compete with you etc

most nice girls will only compete with the b**ches!!!

xxx

alice111 wrote:Hey girlies, that's right get em out and show em off! I've got two see through tops and I'm guna be rocking a sexy bra under those can't wait. Women feel threatened if other women have bigger boobs than them...so just use them to ur advantage! make em more jealous, I will be when I'm back at work and going out after 6 weeks are up! xxx

ROCK ON !!!!!! XXXXXXXXXXX

AmyD wrote:hi abbie, don't think alice meant it like that, think she was refering more to the women who make unnecessary rude comments because they're jealous. Not the nice women.
xxx

I compleatly agree! I have re read it and the rest of the conversation us "girls girls" have been having.

Abbie chill out :flowers: x