3 months on and softness

Hello to my lovely BB family



Been a while since i have come on here, hope all you girlies have been well. I have been busy with work work and work...booooo



Well, as many of you will know i found my boobs very high up at first, im happy to say they have definitely dropped but not enough to cover my scars when im standing up. And i do feel they have shrunk a little too. Im a 30dd/32d, they used to be a tad tighter than they are now but still i cant fit in the size below! Ok now my question is im over 3 months post op, I dont feel they are soft enough where i can get a cleavage. I can push them togther no problem,but in a bra they wont budge. Kind of makes me feel really sad



Will this ever change? When did you feel yours really softened? Also mine dont jiggle at all when im walking about, i really want them to!! Any advise? Any other ladies at 3mths who have hard boobies?



Just want to set my expectations so i dont keep thinking it will happen one day if im past that stage.



Thanks all



RK xxxxxxxx

as you can see I can't help since I am pre... so sorry!! but I would really like to know this too... everyone is talking about the drop and softness coming later... but when is later? few weeks, months or a year?
and even more I have a question: how do they feel?? I have never touched fake boobs and that's why I have no clue, how do silcon boobs feel - after heeling??? and do they feel like yours or can you feel the implant? what do your boyfriends and husbands say how they feel?

to you rk19 all the best!!! I real hope they will still softnen enough for your cleavage!!

xxx

Hi Sweetposion,



To answer some of your questions as i know i used to think this also...i cant feel my implants at all, just feel like firm boobs, i have no feeling of any foreign material is in my body, they completely feel a part of me. Im currently single but im sure if a guy felt them he'd think hmmm firm boobies, lol, thats why i want them to feel softer and jiggly!! i have to say, when its hot weather they do get softer.



When are you planning your BA?



xxx

Hi! I'm 4 and a bit months post op and mine are still a lot firmer than I'd like. I have recently noticed a bit of jiggling though, and push up bras now seem to have more effect than they did a month or so ago. Think we just have to be very patient! Xx

I've just seen my surgeon tonight and asked him about dropping time and he said for my circumstances it could take between a year and 18 months before they're properly jiggly boobs!

Then again I'm quite looking forward to having nice big firm breasts and not worry about sagging! xx

I'm about 6 months post op now and I find mine quite firm as well. I can't wear push up bras. It doesn't do anything (not that I need to anymore). I hope they soften up as well!

Hello rk19



Thank you soo much for your answer!!It's good to hear that they feel a part of you!!!! puhh, was a bit afraid of that.

I can see the guy allrady thinking, young chick with really firm boobs, lucky me,lol... but seriously it's at least good you (or someone else) can't feel like the edge of the implant that be horrible.



to all of you girls: I think I read somewhere it can take easily a year untill they drop completly and to get their ,end stage' of softness. you all still have a few month lol.

but I hope you get a responds from someone on here who has had them already long enough to tell you how long it might take - I guess everyone is different too.



have fun with your big boobies!!!

I am only 6 weeks post op but my boobs are really hard and oh the scars are proper visible, I am really scared my boobs won't drop enough to cover them.

Sometimes I think by the time the implants settle in properly, drop&fluff, etc, etc, it will be time for implant replacement...

rk19 wrote:Will this ever change? When did you feel yours really softened? Also mine dont jiggle at all when im walking about, i really want them to!! Any advise? Any other ladies at 3mths who have hard boobies?

One word: yes! They will, wait until you get to 6 months, then a year post op. They'll get very soft and provided your surgeon was confident you could get a cleavage (it's all to do with the width of your ribcage and the diameter of the implant) then you'll find they gradually soften.

If you are worried they're hard or painful at all give your nurse a call, but at three months you still have changes to go through yet

thanks for all your replies girls. Guess im feeling better knowing we're all in the same boat. Hopefully we get nice jiggly soft boobies soon.



Roxy - thanks so much for that 'yes'!! I will continue being paitient for the softness knowing theres hope!! they are definitely not painful or anything like that, so im sure all is well otherwise. Overall i am very happy, just want to be a tad bigger lol. but i think the softness will give the look i want.



So all pre-op ladies, its sooooo well worth it. honestly i feel like a complete person now. xxx

hey rk19, nice to see you on here again...mine are still nice and firm...but defo softer than last month...and they are dropping (one more than the other)...we'll get there in the end, will just take longer than some others :)

ive had mine over a year and theyre still very firm, They dont tell you this about unders.

its just time like the others have said hun. Mine r really soft now and jiggle quite a bit, but everyone will go through their recovery differently. It will happen in time, TRUST ME!! great avatar btw! xxx

aw it's still very early hun, I'm sure they will soften more. Mine took ages too

Thank you Kayleigh, Abbie, Jen & Misf



U girls have been great help throughout, as well as many other on here. It is lovely to come back and just feel like its still home here!! But seriously now i know what boob greed is, though i havent got it bad, its pays me a visit now and again!! hehe!



they do feel slightly smaller than before as they drop. Is it possible they will 'grow' any more after going small? No too fussed but if that fluffling fairy would visit me id be over the moon!!



Its funny im just sitting here thinking i worried so much about a BA, took me 2-3 years to go for it, its just amazing how fortunate i have been and got exactly what i want - feel blessed i really do. BEST THING EVER!! I used to watch TV/go out do whatever constantly looking at boobs (i was obsessed)and always had this jealousy of woman with boobs! Now i see busty women and think i have some toooooo! though they're not massive im so satisfied with my body - the confidence i have got from having a BA is priceless. And the support on this forum got me where i am today. So a heartly thanks to everyone on this forum.



I will try and make more time to come on here to help out others once work calms down.



Love all you girls xxxx