3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
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3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Hi all, I got a BA almost three months ago (this website was my saviour then as I wasn't telling too many people about it) and am now an amazing 10F and am so in love with them (can't believe I was even worried about getting them done, or that I waited to do it!) but have just found out that I'm about four to five weeks pregnant!! I know it sounds so selfish but I'm kinda devastated for my new boobs - I just wanted to enjoy them for a year or so first!! My partner thinks it's great so I know that I should be happy too, but am so worried they'll be ruined... :( :( :(
If you don't put on too much weight do you think you can avoid your boobs stretching or sagging? I'm planning on wearing supportive bras also too! I see martina792004 recently posted on a similar topic, but I didn't want to cut in on her topic as she's so happy about it. I feel terrible being negative about it, but just don't know what to do to change how I feel... Don't get me wrong, I know it's a blessing and sometimes I feel more positive but the negativity does seem to creep back in, I guess I've just never been that maternal! I try to be happy though cos I don't wanna rain on my partner's parade about it...
If you don't put on too much weight do you think you can avoid your boobs stretching or sagging? I'm planning on wearing supportive bras also too! I see martina792004 recently posted on a similar topic, but I didn't want to cut in on her topic as she's so happy about it. I feel terrible being negative about it, but just don't know what to do to change how I feel... Don't get me wrong, I know it's a blessing and sometimes I feel more positive but the negativity does seem to creep back in, I guess I've just never been that maternal! I try to be happy though cos I don't wanna rain on my partner's parade about it...
doubleD- Newbie BJSF Member
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Awww darling i hope ur ok iv had my little girl 18 months ago and had my BA 3 weeks ago and i told my partner that i want to enjoy them first so plannin to wait 3 years till we have another.
i have herd that theres a tablet doctors can give you to stop your milk coming in wen your preg - therefore they wont go huge ruiening your beautifal new boobs dont no how much truth there is in this but its deff worth asking about xx
i have herd that theres a tablet doctors can give you to stop your milk coming in wen your preg - therefore they wont go huge ruiening your beautifal new boobs dont no how much truth there is in this but its deff worth asking about xx
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Oh darling, here a big for you. We are all here to support you. I have a 2 year old and either way pregnancy is a big thing for every one and it can bring so much emotion with it. Trust me. Im having my BA in a few weeks and i discuss with my personal doctor what would happen, and she told me to wear supported bras, night and day and there is tablet to stop milk. So have a chat with your doctor hun, but remember all us girls are here to support you. xxx
tASHABASHA_1986- Pregnant Buddy
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Your boobs may not change too much, so try not to panic and definatly dont try not to put weight on, you really have to. But just wear a supportive bra and put lots of palmers or cream on your boobs.
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i had 2 x kids after i had implants and they dident change, im sure you will be fine hun. congrats on the pregnancy im sure youll love being a new mummy. x
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Thanks guys... Yes, won't be taking my bras off AT ALL and lots of cream applying... Lol
Love to hear from more ladies that have had pregnancies without problem to their beautiful boobies! Reassurance always great :D
Love to hear from more ladies that have had pregnancies without problem to their beautiful boobies! Reassurance always great :D
doubleD- Newbie BJSF Member
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
I had all my kids b4 my BA but my friend had a baby a year after her BA and he boobs still look great! So like the other ladies say I wouldn't worry urself too much. Just have a chat with your doctor and even your surgeon and see what advice they can give u
!Oh and !!!!!! Being a mummy is GREAT!
!Oh and !!!!!! Being a mummy is GREAT!
NewGirl 4108- Active BJSF Member
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Congrats on being pregnant lovely. It really doesn't have to be a bad thing for your boobs. As long as you don't put on too much weight they should be ok. X
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
i would suggest wearing a sportsbra throughout the pregnancy if you can, or as much as possible rather than a maternity bra.
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Sorry its not the news you wanted at this stage. Like the other girls have said your boobs may not change much. As the volume from the implants won't change, unless you put on alot of weight your boobs might not be affected too much by sagging or stretch marks. If you aren't planning to breast feed you can take the tablets to dry your milk up after you have given birth. Weight gain during pregnancy is inevitable and healthy for you and your baby.
I wouldn't be upset if I got pregnant again I'm not planning on it as I've got my hands full but if it did happen I wouldn't be devastated for my boobs as I don't think they would be that badly affected. I'd just make sure they were really well supported like you have said. Good luck and congratulations!
I wouldn't be upset if I got pregnant again I'm not planning on it as I've got my hands full but if it did happen I wouldn't be devastated for my boobs as I don't think they would be that badly affected. I'd just make sure they were really well supported like you have said. Good luck and congratulations!
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
the girls have given some really good advice here, as usual! I was worried about this too, i mean, i def dont want children yet!! but mayb in 8-10 years or so. I have wondered what the effects will be like. Everyone sounds sooo posistive, so i would just likke to say, relax and enjoy it, and you may not even notice any difference. x
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
I think as long as you eat healthy,tons of fruits and veggies,lean meat or fish and keep your weight within the amount your doctor suggests you won't put undue strain on your body or cause excessive weight gain.Gaining to much can be as bad as gaining to little.You want to have a healthy baby.Keep really moisterized on your boobs and tummy and that will help keep away stretch marks as well.I don't think they will change much from what I have read on here from the other ladies.
I bet you will feel better about things once your pregnancy progresses.It does change your life but I think it's one of the best changes a woman can experience.I hope all goes well for you Hun!Congratulations on your soon to be little one!
I bet you will feel better about things once your pregnancy progresses.It does change your life but I think it's one of the best changes a woman can experience.I hope all goes well for you Hun!Congratulations on your soon to be little one!
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
congratulations huni xxx
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
You should read jessica's diary in the boob diary, might help you to read someone else's experience who has been through the same thing xx
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Congrats on the pregnancy hun, I know it can be mixed feelings when you find out, but it is lovely news. As for your new boobs, I think its hard to know what will happen, but I think there is probably a really good chance they will be just fine, especially with it being your first, and you gain a healthy amount of weight.
One of the members on here had a baby a little while ago after having her boobs done and sh kept a pregnancy diary on here, you could have a read through that I am sure she talks about how her boobies coped with the pregnancy.
Best of luck with it all! xx
One of the members on here had a baby a little while ago after having her boobs done and sh kept a pregnancy diary on here, you could have a read through that I am sure she talks about how her boobies coped with the pregnancy.
Best of luck with it all! xx
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
That's a wonderful idea sarahdawn31! I bet the diary will be a big help to her ; )
Emme-Kate- BJSF Addict
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Its jessica's diary, should be really helpful because it goes from when she found out she was pregnant to having the baby. Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine! : ) xxx
louise_vaa- BJSF Addict
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Re: 3 mths post op, 4-5 wks pregnant, kinda devastated
Hi Hun x I had a ba before having my first child x neither pregnancy or 6 weeks of breast feeding ruined my boobs!! Then had to undergo an emergency reop during my 2nd pregnancy and again my boobs were not ruined by pregnancy in any way. Eat healthily, keep fit and you will soon get your beautiful figure back and will have a wonderful new baby who will bring you a lifetime of joy xxx. Good luck Hun x
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