Anyones partner or boyfriend not like their ba??

by Trisha 23rd June 2011, 6:31 pm

We alll talk about how we love our boobs etc, BUT im going to put it out there, my boyfriend doesnt like mine. We have been together 7 years, live together and have a beautiful daughter together. My breasts are now the elephant in the room, or so to speak. He hasnt actually said I hate them or I dont like them. But, putting self insecurities aside it is quite obvious he does not like them. When I talk he stares at them, he flinched when I shwed him the pic of my nipple lift.I dont dare shw him he real thing, they really do look awful, obviously I have done my research I know (god I hope) they will heal and potentially look good. But he wont even speak about them, an he says at least once a day he doesnt agree with what I did. This is great.

by lizziem 23rd June 2011, 10:15 pm

Aw you poor thing, I feel for you. I do recall in the early days post op I found it really hard to imagine how my hubby could possibly be pleased about the results, I looked horrendous! He was positive but I feel quite sure he was really worried about how I would look in the long term, I know I was, so why wouldn't he feel the same! So I wonder whether when everything starts to settle down he will feel more comfortable with the new you, I think it's hard in the early days not to focus on the actual surgery and what's "been done" to you rather than you as a whole package. I hope things get better with him, but for yourself do continue to feel positive that things will heal and settle and look fabulous, I know it's hard to imaginw now but it will happen! XX

by jen86 24th June 2011, 7:47 am

i can understand he is not going to love scar ridden boobs, in there early stages...but he shouldnt really be so blatant about them. he is supposed to love you, n surely he must know he needs to give you his suppport now more then ever, its a scary thing to go and do, and he is trying to prove a point by behaving like this. Sorry to be so abrupt, but he needs to grow up and be the supportive boyf he is supposed to be. When they heal and start to settle, im sure he will love them then, but as for now, he could at least not retch when he looks at you. gggrrrr. sorry again if you didnt like what i have said hun, but i do feel for you. hang in there, im sure he will come round, once everything starts to calm down boob wise! Hug

by Trisha 24th June 2011, 7:59 am

I know your completely right, I am so outraged that he is acting like this, its quite digraceful. I obviously did this for me, but a bit of support is all I asked for. The glue thats still in my wounds does look a little shocking, but hes being a bit over the top. So mad!! he wont even touch them! xx

by jen86 24th June 2011, 8:07 am

oh babe

it is going to be a case of insecurity on his part, i bet u he doesnt actually find it that gross, i bet really he is thinking with your new boobs your gona run off with another guy!!, i swaer that so many guys develop an insecurity like this when their gfs improve their boobs. I bet you it all stems from this. Maybe reasure him you love him etc,, it may help bring him round. ask him straight out why he doesnt want you to be happy?? n see what he says, because you can throw back at him that having your boobs done si going to make u so much more happy with yourself, n he obv doesnt want that or he would at least pretend to be happy for your sake!! xx

by staceygrundy 24th June 2011, 10:59 am

All my ex's always said if I got my boobs done they would be off!
Probably cos they new I would get attention from them and they like me being under their control.
It's weird this cos the one that used to bang on about it most cheated on me with a girl with massive boobs!!!!
Work that one out???

Now I'm single I'm getting them done for me!
Xx

by jen86 24th June 2011, 11:57 am

what a dirty ba***d!! how cheeky is that? your right there, its an insecurity on their part. Ha! X

by staceygrundy 24th June 2011, 4:37 pm

Tell me about it! Lol
Can't believe I've got to wait until October for my boobs!!!!
Xx

by jen86 24th June 2011, 6:14 pm

october?! that seems ages away, but i bet the time will absolutely fly by!! xx

by staceygrundy 24th June 2011, 9:47 pm

Hope so huni!!!!! Xxxx

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