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Booking nerves!
by littlemisstiny1 14th April 2009, 12:19 pm
Hi girls,
Just having a really hard time picking up the phone to actually book the darn thing now!! Had my consult, really happy with the surgeon, even arranged my hubby to take time off for childcard duties. Not sure why but keep delaying picking up the phone to actually book it! Getting butterflies and all sorts (and also all that money going is a bit scary!)
Did everyone else have this too? I know I want to go ahead but just feel paralysed with fear (ok that's a bit dramatic!) but it's like once I've paid my deposit I will actually have to have it - but I do really want to do it, help! Aaaaaaaaaaargh!
xx
Just having a really hard time picking up the phone to actually book the darn thing now!! Had my consult, really happy with the surgeon, even arranged my hubby to take time off for childcard duties. Not sure why but keep delaying picking up the phone to actually book it! Getting butterflies and all sorts (and also all that money going is a bit scary!)
Did everyone else have this too? I know I want to go ahead but just feel paralysed with fear (ok that's a bit dramatic!) but it's like once I've paid my deposit I will actually have to have it - but I do really want to do it, help! Aaaaaaaaaaargh!
xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by moonmar 14th April 2009, 12:32 pm
I booked it after my consult when I was still at the clinic so I didn't have the "phone butterflies" but I understand how you feel - just have a good talk to yourself hun, go over the reasons why you wanted this in the first place, and how you would feel if you didn't go ahead: relieved or gutted? it's easier to imagine we don't really want something when we are actually only scared of making a decision... good luck 
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Re: Booking nerves!
by gotsomeboobs 14th April 2009, 12:43 pm
I feel exactly the same littlemisstiny, I am seeing Mr Singh tomorrow for a second consultation, my dads coming with me as he is going to book it. I am nervous as once the whole balance is payed tomorrow, its final lol . Its scary but like you said, I really want it too, we should just think its one step closer to having them done lol weve got over the hard bit of deciding which surgeon and which company to use, now it should be plain sailing up until a few days before our surgery when we will have butterflies all over again lol
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Re: Booking nerves!
by mariajw 14th April 2009, 12:47 pm
Hi Hunni
Only you can decide to take the plunge and book. It's a big decision to make. Don't think too much about the money ... yes it is a lot of money, but it is just that ... money. And you only live once!! What should help you decide is whether you can live happily with your boobs as they are. Once I'd made my decision to go for it, there was no going back, so I was like moonmar and booked on the day of my consultation.
Good luck babe, with whatever you decide.
Maria
xx
Only you can decide to take the plunge and book. It's a big decision to make. Don't think too much about the money ... yes it is a lot of money, but it is just that ... money. And you only live once!! What should help you decide is whether you can live happily with your boobs as they are. Once I'd made my decision to go for it, there was no going back, so I was like moonmar and booked on the day of my consultation.
Good luck babe, with whatever you decide.
Maria
xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by RoxyChick 14th April 2009, 1:45 pm
littlemisstiny1 wrote:Just having a really hard time picking up the phone to actually book the darn thing now!! Had my consult, really happy with the surgeon, even arranged my hubby to take time off for childcard duties.
I know this feeling! I knew it was what I wanted 100% but for some reason I was more nervous about actually bookng then the op itself!
If you're sure it's what you want then go for it, I don't think any of us post-oppers have ever looked back!
xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by natalia 14th April 2009, 2:03 pm
that was the worst thing for me i kept ringing my co ordianter up i think i must of give her earache lol she told me to relax enjoy my holiday and not worry funny enough aft that i did lol
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Re: Booking nerves!
by BlondeBarbie 14th April 2009, 3:46 pm
I knew it was what i wanted so i wasnt nervous booking and i booked over the phone too. Do it hun x
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Re: Booking nerves!
by littlemisstiny1 14th April 2009, 6:28 pm
Thanks girls, I'm getting there..got a date provisionally booked in!
Finally rang them and they are getting back to me tomorrow to confirm and take my deposit - date is 29th May so oh my goodness this time in 2 months I could have new boobies!
Think you have all helped me today as I just kept putting it off and just needed someone to say go for it! xx
Finally rang them and they are getting back to me tomorrow to confirm and take my deposit - date is 29th May so oh my goodness this time in 2 months I could have new boobies!
Think you have all helped me today as I just kept putting it off and just needed someone to say go for it! xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by Mia 14th April 2009, 6:38 pm
Aw!! Well Done LMT!!! Think it is the 'emotions' kicking in, and a little bit of guilt? being a mum we all have it.. it is normal but a happier mummy is soo much better. I am soo pleased you have taken another step forward. Think how soon you will have those boobies.. maybe a 'ticker' might help you? Keep focused, and enjoy the journey.
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Re: Booking nerves!
by nads 15th April 2009, 10:15 am
Glad you're feeling better hun and congrats on booking the time will fly and you'll have your new boobs before you know itlittlemisstiny1 wrote:Thanks girls, I'm getting there..got a date provisionally booked in!
Finally rang them and they are getting back to me tomorrow to confirm and take my deposit - date is 29th May so oh my goodness this time in 2 months I could have new boobies!
Think you have all helped me today as I just kept putting it off and just needed someone to say go for it! xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by fluffy_bunn1e 15th April 2009, 10:30 am
Hey LMT, i can understand your nerves!
Mine is booked for October, ages away!
I was excited booking it, but sometimes I feel soooo scared when i think whats guna happen, its 1 thing talking about it and planing it but a whole different thing going through with it.
I am worried i ll back out.
Also like you said-the money! i haven t got kids, but I am planning rhinoplasty and a BA, and keep thinking with that money I could marry my fiance, or have 3 amazing holidays, or have my new kitchen and bathroom!
But new boobs will make me happy, which does make a difference to your family if that makes sense?
Also if you cancel a month before op you can get your deposit back, though your are having yours in a month arent you?
How long have you wanted this? Just do whats right for you. xx
Mine is booked for October, ages away!
I was excited booking it, but sometimes I feel soooo scared when i think whats guna happen, its 1 thing talking about it and planing it but a whole different thing going through with it.
I am worried i ll back out.
Also like you said-the money! i haven t got kids, but I am planning rhinoplasty and a BA, and keep thinking with that money I could marry my fiance, or have 3 amazing holidays, or have my new kitchen and bathroom!
But new boobs will make me happy, which does make a difference to your family if that makes sense?
Also if you cancel a month before op you can get your deposit back, though your are having yours in a month arent you?
How long have you wanted this? Just do whats right for you. xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by stef 15th April 2009, 11:39 am
When I had that call back to tell me my finance was accepted, I had major butterflies in my stomach! I couldn't believe it, it was finally going to happen. I had it when I booked aswell. But I never hesitated booking, I knew i was doing the right thing (although I did have doubts a couple days before, but that was cos I was scared!). xxx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by littlemisstiny1 15th April 2009, 6:48 pm
Thanks for asking - I'm still waiting but just had an email saying Simon Withey is going to email me with some answers to my questions soon, so.........hopefully I can book tomorrow.
Just wanted to check that I can honestly achieve a good result as he did point out the limitations for me in terms of disguising the implant, as I have quite thin skin and "deflated" breasts(!).. Think I understood that if I am careful not to go too big the implant won't be obvious but I just wanted to check I'd understood this correctly.
Scary but exciting, hope he gets back to me soon cos I can't stand the wait much longer!
xx
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Just wanted to check that I can honestly achieve a good result as he did point out the limitations for me in terms of disguising the implant, as I have quite thin skin and "deflated" breasts(!).. Think I understood that if I am careful not to go too big the implant won't be obvious but I just wanted to check I'd understood this correctly.
Scary but exciting, hope he gets back to me soon cos I can't stand the wait much longer!
xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by ShootingStar 15th April 2009, 9:21 pm
Nearly there hunni, so excited for you, i loved paying the deposit, it felt like there was no going back then and the nerves of 'shall i shan't i' seemed to subside and it was more a fact of 'i am' good luck xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by peewee 16th April 2009, 12:39 pm
Oh LMT It is a bit scary taking that final jump but once you have done it you will feel better as it seems its what you really want. I was the same - just something about calling and giving my card details.....all that money...subjecting myself to pain.......worry.......BEST THING I EVER DID!!! I hope you get your call soon and your questions answered. Lets us know how your going.........xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by littlemisstiny1 16th April 2009, 12:42 pm
Thanks, feeling much better as my surgeon called me at home last night (8pm poor guy!) to have a chat and answer my questions - he was really nice and said I should have a good result so I'm feeling reassured.
Only thing is I now can't get through on the phone to officially book it! Sent them an email so fingers crossed they'll get back to me today.
Your comments all helped me girls to take the plunge xx
Only thing is I now can't get through on the phone to officially book it! Sent them an email so fingers crossed they'll get back to me today.
Your comments all helped me girls to take the plunge xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by Mia 16th April 2009, 1:04 pm
Fingers crossed LMT!! nearly there now... I would do it all again tomorrow too. xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by littlemisstiny1 16th April 2009, 5:42 pm
Done it at last, hurray!! I am on way to new 
...
Oh my goodness I am now officially scared! 29th May it is!! Paid my deposit so it is all go... :pale:
Will def need you guys over the coming weeks, apologies now to everyone, will try not to freak out too much!
LMT xxx
...Oh my goodness I am now officially scared! 29th May it is!! Paid my deposit so it is all go... :pale:
Will def need you guys over the coming weeks, apologies now to everyone, will try not to freak out too much!
LMT xxx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by Mia 16th April 2009, 5:48 pm
Whooooo Well done you 
Dont think yourself scared!! LMT
We are all here for support... no apoligies or explanations needed... It really is not as bad as you imagine... The aches, i.e. muscles and bums are the worst part.. oh and bloating. All of which have easy cures. Roll on boobie day for you :hugme:xx
Well done you Dont think yourself scared!! LMT
We are all here for support... no apoligies or explanations needed... It really is not as bad as you imagine... The aches, i.e. muscles and bums are the worst part.. oh and bloating. All of which have easy cures. Roll on boobie day for you :hugme:xx
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Re: Booking nerves!
by littlemisstiny1 16th April 2009, 6:09 pm
OK Ticker Time, just checking it works..x
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Re: Booking nerves!
by mariajw 16th April 2009, 8:31 pm
OMG LMT!!!!! Well done!! Not long to go - good luck hunni.
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Re: Booking nerves!
by rita 16th April 2009, 9:18 pm
Hi ya.
Well done for booking it hun. I was exactly the same. I had the first consult & came away feeling great. I booked a second consult & the actual surgery 2 days later and was fine up until about 2 weeks. I'm having the op on the 28th April and have been so scared about it that I kept delaying paying the remainder & was coming up with just about every excuse under the sun to not go ahead! The idea of committing myself was making me feel sick with nerves! This is all I have wanted since I stopped breast feeding my first child three years ago! Anyway, I have now paid up & I feel so much happier & I am really looking forward to getting my new boobs! Hooray.xx
Well done for booking it hun. I was exactly the same. I had the first consult & came away feeling great. I booked a second consult & the actual surgery 2 days later and was fine up until about 2 weeks. I'm having the op on the 28th April and have been so scared about it that I kept delaying paying the remainder & was coming up with just about every excuse under the sun to not go ahead! The idea of committing myself was making me feel sick with nerves! This is all I have wanted since I stopped breast feeding my first child three years ago! Anyway, I have now paid up & I feel so much happier & I am really looking forward to getting my new boobs! Hooray.xx
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