How big is too big??

Wow girls, thanks for all your replies!!

AB and Pinkbabe... I know exactly what you mean, and that's just what it comes down to... personal taste. I think big boobs and small frames as you've described can LOOK great, really sexy, and if you have them then that's fantastic, but personally I kind of want to... blend in and not have boobs that are noticed unless I want them to be, if that makes sense? I've known girls with naturally huge boobs, and they're practically defined by them because it's the first thing that everybody notices about them... some people love this, others don't.

I personally find it VERY difficult to identify what I actually want my boobs to be like, and separately what other people will think when they look at me. (by which I mostly mean people close to me). I suppose what other people think actually comes into play quite a bit because I don't want to get boobs and then live the next ten years hearing "don't you think you've gone a bit too big for your frame?"... In fact, I think my primary objective is to get a pair of knockers that no one ever bothers to mention, ever again... I want to be completely ordinary and merge into the background!!! How BORING!! lol.

Littlewisher... I cannot believe she used to be a man, what a b****!!! lol.

HighMaintainance... are we long lost sisters?!!? my arms sound like they're probably bigger than yours... but otherwise I could have written that post myself, right down to the tiny head and constantly being ID'd!! I also get your motivation EXACTLY. I couldn't have put it into words better myself...

Crystal... I think your pic is actually a good example... I feel like bodyshape wise I'm currently very similar to your before pic, but you do look so much more curvy and womanly in the after pic. I would never look at that pic and say "Well, she's definitely had a boob job", because you just look like a natural, gorgeous curvy woman :good:

I think my stats demonstrate how straight up and down I am... 29-27-33... very little waist or hips... but wide shoulders... I'm 5ft7 too...

Thanks again everyone, what a tough time we all have to go through trying to get it exactly right!!!

LL
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@Crystal - Well I think your new boobs def work for your broader shoulders. Broad shoulders are often linked to a man's physique, which is why we girls aren't so keen on them on ourselves. But if you put a pair of big titties there....Well, what are going to notice more? The shoulders or the fabulous breasticles? lol Adds a lot of beautiful femininity.

@LL - well I'm glad you don't have my skinny bone-shaped arms! LOL I'm glad you can relate to what I said. Our BA dates aren't so far apart. I can't wait to compare experiences with you and see how they turned out. I know you've just paid for your so all the best xxx

@AB - yeah I know! I think they really watch their weight so they have no bottoms at all. And I do think most glamour model types a la Playboy could do with more meat on their rumps. But yeah I can see how in a glamour way the skinny frame will enhance the boobs making the body look more sexual! A lot of people like that look.

carol_s wrote:XBX, have you ever worn gel bras, chicken fillets, padded bras to enhance what you already have??? How did you feel you looked when wearing enhancers??? Better - in that it gave you a better shape to your figure, or worse because it made you look fatter.
I think your answer is in there somewhere hunnie
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Yes I have but to be honest i haven't noticed much of, a difference with them at all. But I suppose I must have looked somewhat better as I still wear them lol. X

Thanks HM

good luck to you too!! It'll definitely be interesting to compare our experiences, given our similar stats, physique, motivation, and the fact that you're having 325 partial unders and I'm having 320 partial unders (or at least I think so at this moment in time!)...

We can become the control test for Nagor v Natrelle, or Mybreast v MYA... lol.

LL
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hi hun im size 8 and got slim hips to through working out lol i have to wear size 10 ontop as size 8 is to tight round my bust i had 410 and they look perfect on my slim frame so i dont think what your having will be to big at all xxxx

Heya i dont really have much to say other than it depends what look u are after. If its important for you to look natural then i'd say go for the smaller ones but if you would like to look a bit bustier then go with the larger. I think girls with curvier hips can get away with bigger implants and still look natural and in proportion but when you see someone without much hip and big boobs it can sometimes scream 'boob job!' but thats just my opinion and i'm sure its nt always the case. I'm nt telling anyone about my ba so i'd be worried about going too big incase everyone noticed and asked me. Hope this makes sence and helps a bit, the size dilemma is a nightmare! x x

Sort of depends on your measurements I guess! But I'd say if you've got 33in hips, you can afford to go up to a 34in chest before you even begin to look top-heavy! But it also depends on the look anyway... there seem to be a lot of girls who manage to have big boobs and small hips and get away with it without looking like Jordan Carver =D

I'm the opposite entirely... 34-25-39. If I went up to a 39in chest to match, I'd be a 32F o_o; I have a friend who's a 32F and I'm not sure I could handle it! Admittedly I've gained 5lbs, but long long ago before that lol I was about half an inch less on each measurement (though waist measurements always fluctuate so I don't know if that's a proper measurement or not) and I guess sort of like this:



Only, less toned, and with just a little more on the thighs ha. Also I have a bigger butt than her, which you can't see from the front but it add the extra to my measurements.

But in her case, of course, she has those 32Fs. I was a 32C, and looked like a 32B, so pretty small in comparison -_- I can't think of an exact example right now but I think as long as you're not going something like 6in bigger than your hip measurement, you're probably not going to look top-heavy :thumbs: x

Wait, what am I on about - NOW I look like that but with more on the thighs, 5lbs ago I looked like that but with a slimmer looking waist, probably because my actual hip bones aren't that big so the dip was more noticeable =]

Kat86... I totally agree with you and that is essentially my concern... I know what my own personal opinion of "too big" is (for me), but I'm more concerned that other people will be able to look at me and say.. she's blatantly had a boob job, or why did she go that big because they don't suit her frame? Especially as they're used to me the way I am, and essentially I am hoping to get a "she was blessed with those boobs from birth, lucky girl" sort of look... you know, natural but amazing. Hehe!!!

I dunno... I'm beginning to think I'm overthinking it far too much. I need to kick myself up the a** a little bit, tell my MIL exactly what I'm planning to do instead of being a coward about it, get the boobies I WANT, and screw everybody else!!


:mad: .... quick, before I change my mind!!

LL
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Pixie... that girl is beautiful. Such a womanly figure... I can only dream of hips like that. See... I can understand why girls with the lower half of that proportion want bigger boobs, because it does look kind of unbalanced to have a really small upper half and huge lower half.
But I feel like I'd be doing the reverse and giving myself a large upper half whilst I have a small lower half.

But you've got a really clever way of calculating size, and I never thought of it like that.

Anyway, I'm darn diddly done deliberating!!! I'm going to say +3 inches on the boobies compared to the hips, just so I can go to 36inches... (just because I want to). I think that will make me a 32D, and I think I will be happy with that!



LL
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and speaking of bums... have you ever heard of Keyra Agustina?? Her lower half is much bigger than her upper half, but wow what a bum!!

LL
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And that's the best way to calculate it - whatever it is that you WANT ;D

Her name's Holly Peers; she's absolutely gorgeous!! She's a glamour model so think twice before you Google her in public lol but yeah, she does have an amazing figure :( In most of her pictures she doesn't look quite the same shape/size as she does there, and if you see her from the side then she definitely has a much smaller bum than I do lol but just that pic made a good comparison =] on the other hand, I guess that's roughly what 32Fs would look like on me if I lost some more weight! (not that I look like the rest of her at all!) The only problem is that it's really hard to find pictures of her fully or even reasonably clothed =\ Big boobs pretty much always look great in lingerie or completely topless, and if I put ricies in I love the way I look in my underwear. But as soon as I put something over the top, then they look... um, over the top! Really annoying

I guess the only thing is to make sure you try them on in a bra and under clothing! But I just thought of something - maybe that's because ricies can only give you a high-profile kind of result? I really want the implants to be spread over a larger surface, so that they can be big but without looking too obvious in day-to-day life... today I also discovered Michelle Keegan, whose existence makes me want to cry (and also hide all evidence of it from my boyfriend), but basically she has quite big boobs (though I have no idea what size exactly?) which you can see in low-cut tops and underwear/bikinis, but not as prominently in clothing. That's exactly the kind of thing I want!!

Haha, yup I've heard of Keyra... funny thing is, I was introduced to her when somebody told me they'd found someone else with a butt like mine. Again, hers is more toned than mine is, and she's slimmer overall, but size-wise and proportionately... she's my buttwin If you look for her measurements the replies you'll get vary, but yeah, roughly the same as what mine would be if I lifted my butt up a bit then measured (not that I've ever done that... *shifty look*)

OMG! LL - I can't believe you've finally decided on a size!.....Good for you girl, theyre gonna look fab!

I get you!! It's why I hate looking at before and after pics of boob jobs, because you pick a pair that look great naked, but you just can't tell what they look like in clothes.

I think the general consensus on here has been that BA's don't look as big in clothes as they sound on paper, so I'm surprised to hear you say that your riceys look good in bras but huge in clothes!! Like you said though... it's probably a high profile effect with rice boobs, as you can't shape them right and the rice all falls forward, where as an implant is held in place by breast tissue (or muscle with unders).. plus if it's the Cohesive gel, it's kind of stuck in shape!!

Michelle Keegan is lovely, but bigger than I personally want to be... I imagine from the stats you've given me they'd suit you really well for what you're after (i.e. they wouldn't look out of place on that Holly girl you posted above...)

Thank you jellytot!!! I actually went into town today and bought myself a massively padded 34C bra, and also a massively padded 34D bra... my plan is that over the next 2 months I will start wearing the 34C for a little while, then I'll upgrade to the 34D so that people don't really notice the difference too much.

I'm thinking of just coming clean with my MIL now anyway, but no idea how to tell her outright/start the conversation :dunno:

LL
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its can be reaally difficult trying to guess whats gonna look the best for you before youv even had em done, but i wish you heaps of good luck