Man talk and boobs

Dont know whether I am just getting really tired but I have typed/ said/ thought the word boobs today it's becoming a really funny and odd word lol

Yep I think in tired lol



Anyway back to the topic of the thread...my OH doesn't mind me getting a boob job or anything but he is100% sure that when I have bigger boobs I will get more attention from men. Hmmmm I'm not so convinced because I only want to go to a full c/d and dd at the max. So what do you dolls think? Are you getting more attention from the males?

I was just wondering the same thing haha, I just tried some ricies for the first time in ages and they looked big in a bra but they looked HUGE in a t-shirt! Which is irritating because I don't want them to be quite so obvious in everyday life, it's when the clothes are off that i want them to be bigger lol

I don't wanna suddenly turn into the girl who always has guys ogling her and grabbing at her you know? I used to have fairly big boobs once and guys were a little weird then, and now I've lost weight but still got a lot of curve in my butt/hips and guys are weird about that sometimes -_- so annoying, why can't the pervs of the world keep their hands to themselves!! :rant:

xbeautifulx wrote: my OH doesn't mind me getting a boob job or anything but he is100% sure that when I have bigger boobs I will get more attention from men. Hmmmm I'm not so convinced because I only want to go to a full c/d and dd at the max. So what do you dolls think? Are you getting more attention from the males?

Aww-My hubby was/is worried about the same thing-even though we have been together since just before my 16th birthday and I'm 30 now, he also mentioned being worried that I may leave him for a rich guy or something-LOL-He listens to this Sirius radio show, (like its the bible!!) where they do this "12 boobs of Christmas" thing-they give 12 (or maybe 6, and they count each boobie individually-LOL) boob jobs away for free to chicks at Christmas-and I guess almost every girl ends up dumping her man after! I tried telling him, that these girls prob weren't in the relationships long-term, and even if they were obviosuly not committed in first place!

That being said, I have not received any additional attention from men yet, but I am only a month into my BA, and its FREEZING out here in Massachusetts, US, so haven't really had them out on display yet! Hunny said the pizza delivery guy was having a good eyefull while hubby was scrambling around for money to pay him with ..LOL..Come to think of it, he DID stand there and chat with us for like 5 mins AFTER we paid-hubby sayd its 'cause I had a tank top on (with sports bra underneath)! LOL-It was never my plan to be so big that I would attract any attention unless I WANTED TO! But...I wouldn't go back to my small saggies for ANYTHING! -If its attention from men I hafta deal with-then they better just not be fresh, 'cause my hubby is a big guy, and does amature cage fighting-he will show them where to go and how fast!

Seriously-tell hubby not to worry! Afterall, you are GORGEOUS enough that I am sure guys are checking you out all the time ANYWAY! Remind him of that-and that he is YOUR hubby because you LOVE him! No worries ;)

Im still pre BA so couldnt answer, but my hubby too text me llast night while he was at work and said please dont leave me when you have your boobs done, :tears: brought tears to my eyes :console:

In a work yes you will get more attention but then its all down to the way you present them shall we say. lol. For example if you wear low cut tops/tight tops your gonna get more attention anyway with or without a BA.

I didnt have a partner when I have my BA but I have heard storires of other peoples fellas being against BAs and I think its down to a few things. Firsty most are scared they are gonna lose you to another man remember men are funny things and also cos alot of people not just men have misconceptions of boob jobs. x

Well girls, there is nothing worse than some guy 'talking to your boobs' all night...

But to be honest, I have gone fom a 36B to 36E/36F and really in clothes, I don't look much bigger, just shaplier!!

And ......it's just been confirmed by our forum PS that we CAN go braless on occassions - see the thread 'braless for my birthday' (I'm not sure how you create a direct link to it - Sorry)

So we can show them off in lovely 'strappy' tops without having to find a bra that you 'can't' see underneath!!!!

XbeautifulX Now this WILL attract the attention of other men, I'm sure!!!!!! x

Yes they will notice but only if u want them to. It really does depend on what you wear

Yeh mine arent big at all but i still seem to get attention in certain tops. My husband seems to hate it alot, he never wanted me to get the op in the first place so i do understand why it upsets him.

If you want the boobs to be out then you can wear things to get them out. xxx

Lol braless would be an attention grabber

I would have thought my OH would know I wouldn't change like that as it's more of a balance out the figure thing than a confidence thing for me

I told people I was having a boob job beforehand. The hilarious thing is that all the Blokes are dead set on looking me straight in the eye now, whereas its the girls that have a good ogle and want to know all about it!

Bless the boys, they just don't know where to look! Lol

Lol Jellytot!!!

It's the same Pre-BA for me, in that it's only women who make comments about my boobs...

I think generally if men check you out they do an all over check... but when you have bigger boobs that are "on display" as such, some men can forget that there's a head somewhere above those boobs... they zone in on those bad boys and that's it...!!!

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jellytot wrote:I told people I was having a boob job beforehand. The hilarious thing is that all the Blokes are dead set on looking me straight in the eye now, whereas its the girls that have a good ogle and want to know all about it!

Bless the boys, they just don't know where to look! Lol

Lmao....I bet they have totally checked you out when you wasn't looking at them though lol

My hubby is worried about me getting attention, or more to the point me responding to any attention I may get after my BA. He keeps saying to me that he is happy to help me pay for them - as long as I dont run off with someone else once they are done!!!!!!

Admittedly we have had some problems lately, but I'm not exactly about to run off with another man!!!!

I think it defo depends on how you project your self, if you choose to be running around in really low cut tops, then of course boys can help it! But you just have to remind your huddy that its down to you and that you would never do anything to purposely provoke a reaction.
I think he'll love them when they arrive! My BF HATES the idea of me getting a BA, but he says to do what ever makes me happy, but I think he will love them when they are here and I have that new found confideance!!

If you put something on display people are going to look its human nature. I get more attention from men if I am wearing something low cut but I'm putting them out there for all to see so I don't complain about it and sometimes its nice to get the attention, everyone should feel good about themselves sometimes.

Luckily for me my OH is very secure and proud of me so he isn't threatened by people looking as he knows its him I'm going home with or coming home to. As for grabbiness I find men tend to be ass grabbers rather than boob grabbers you tend to get the odd *naughty word* who will try to cop a feel when they brush past your boobs but most are cowardly ass grabbers so when you turn around you aen't quite sure who has done it grrr they really bug me. xx

Glad there is a thread like this. I have mentioned to my OH in passing and he hasn't really said much. I think he doesn't really think I'll go through with it. However now that I have been surgery for this Sunday he knows I am serious! It's hard because I don't want it to change anything but at the same time I know he is a 'boob' man so surely he wouldn't have any complaints right!? It's not like i am going to look like Jordon or be parading around for everyone to oogle. Xx

WW my hubby is a boob man too. He is saying to me "the bigger the better" when it comes to my boobs!!! I say I want to go to DD/E, but he is saying FF/G!!!! I know I could probably carry it off on my frame (5ft 7in, 13st 2lb, dress size 16 all over), but I dont want them that big!!!

hahah really? Mine is probably thinking that too although hasn't enquired in too much detail. I'm petite size 6/8 and hoping for a full C cup - anymore and I might fall over xx

rofl

Yes my hubby really wants me to go bigger than possible!!!!! Cheeky bugger!!!!

Forgot to say, I currently measure at a 38D but I have no volume at the top and literally when I take my bra off its a case of "where did they go?"!!!! lol Hence why I want them done!!

Rach26 wrote:WW my hubby is a boob man too. He is saying to me "the bigger the better" when it comes to my boobs!!! I say I want to go to DD/E, but he is saying FF/G!!!! I know I could probably carry it off on my frame (5ft 7in, 13st 2lb, dress size 16 all over), but I dont want them that big!!!

My OH is more of a bum man and he keeps saying "I don't want you to have massive boobs" he says he won't like them if they go past a DD lol......which is good because that's the absolute maximum I'm willing to go and thact factoring fluffing. I want to come out of theatre a full C or small D

Mine is staying completely silent on the matter... wise man lol, I think he's waiting to find out if I want it enough to go through with it! He doesn't want me to have 'fake' boobs, but after some research on what a decent boob job actually looks and feels like (figured out the other day, when I felt the implants at my consultation, they actually felt a lot like my bum! And he likes that one lol :thumbs:) he seems to have settled on 'if it'll make you happy then I'll support you all the way.' Hehe, bless him. I think he's trying not to say 'yeah, get bigger boobs, it'll be great!!' and then be responsible for me feeling really inadequate and unattractive especially not if it turns out I was just musing about it! Though most guys seem to get around that by telling their girlfriends that they particularly don't want them to change, which is almost as annoying, because then it feels like you can never get to a state where you're BOTH happy with the way you look =\ had this problem with a former boyfriend who wanted me to stay as I was or GAIN weight, but I was pretty overweight and desperate to lose it... nice boy, bad taste XD and to go back to the current one, the one with the good answer... I think he's also saying it so that while he doesn't have to tell me I'm not allowed to go through with it, and also doesn't have to make me feel inadequate, he's also leaving his options open to later say 'actually, these are great!' and love them like I always knew he would XD

But if you both have similar sizes in mind, then I guess it's not such a problem!

Oh girls. I am having boyfriend nightmares. So last night I told him I having my pre-op today and op on Sunday. Now for a heads up we are in long distance, he is in Leeds and I am in London so at the moment are relationship is by phone Monday-Thursday.
Anyway first reaction was asking how long before he could touch them (typical man). But then he played devil's advocate and asking me all the questions. He doesn't understand why i would have it done because I am not totally depressed or under confident about my size. Truth is, I don't hate my boobs I just would like to have a full cup and be able to wear nice bras and fill clothes and look more womanly. He thinks it is a lot of money and pain to go through if I don't have solid reasons. I can't believe he would be complaining as I said before he really is a boob man! He did say he wasn't trying to be horrible just making sure I am doing for the right reasons. But anyway I am totally losing my head now. I think he is trying to be objective and he will be appreciative of the results. I know I shouldn't let it effect my decision but it has me questioning myself now I don't know if I am doing for the right reasons.

wonderwoman789 wrote:Truth is, I don't hate my boobs I just would like to have a full cup and be able to wear nice bras and fill clothes and look more womanly. He thinks it is a lot of money and pain to go through if I don't have solid reasons. I can't believe he would be complaining as I said before he really is a boob man! He did say he wasn't trying to be horrible just making sure I am doing for the right reasons. But anyway I am totally losing my head now. I think he is trying to be objective and he will be appreciative of the results. I know I shouldn't let it effect my decision but it has me questioning myself now I don't know if I am doing for the right reasons.

This is exactly how I feel which is part of the reason why I think I am having difficulties deciding if I'm doing the right thing. I think as you have booked it already shows you that you do want it and I think your reason for wanting it being the same as mine is valid...I think as he is only finding out about it now he will have the same concerns you most likely had and have been able to eliminate to a certain extent by researching. So I think if you talk to him more about what you know...you will both end up on the same page ready for your pre op and op x

Yeah so hoping he is okay and won't be too freaked out. I think once he sees me it will be alright. Long distance is hard at the best of times and because I won't see him until after it is making me paranoid. I just had my pre-op so no going back now. I am start to worry slightly but I think that is natural. Everything has moved so quickly but everyone is saying that is a good thing because it is less time to worry! ha! xx