Re: December Buddies!

by Carrie 18th November 2010, 1:47 pm

Hi December Buddies, hope you don't mind a gatecrasher?!! My BA is booked for 7 Jan - there aren't too many of us in Jan buddies yet, and mine is early in the month. So I thought I'd introduce myself to you guys as I'm sure I'll be keeping abreast Hysterical

of how you are getting on with your new pressies from Santa!

by angelemma 18th November 2010, 1:59 pm

Hey Carrie - course not the more the merrier!!! (Love the avatar btw, very apt!).

What size are you starting with?

by mummyroo 18th November 2010, 2:04 pm

Hi Carrie and welcome to the december club!!! I agree with angelemma definately the more the merrier!! How are you?? Have you gone boobie mad too?? I feel sickly excited but so so looking forward to it x x xbig higs x x
Cheerleader

by Carrie 18th November 2010, 2:30 pm

I'm an 'empty' 32b, never been big and breastfed twice, so looking forward to having the boobs I've always wanted. I don't want to be massive, but I'm 5"9 so PS reckons I should go with 385 or even 450 hp - still freaking over it!! Gonna post to other tall buddies to seek views...

by angelemma 18th November 2010, 2:54 pm

Carrie - I wouldn't be thinking of how tall you are, more how broad and what clothes size you take. If you are a size 8 and really tall & slim you'd look top heavy with enormous boobies!! What are your stats? Usually the surgeon knows what they're doing so go with what they have advised unless you really are not happy with that :)

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by dimpledee 18th November 2010, 5:20 pm

hi Carrie welcome, you must be so excited hun, I know the rest of us are he he!!
Dimple dee

by carol_s 21st November 2010, 6:23 pm

Finally found enough courage to book for my surgery - December 7th 2010 with Mr. Michael Payne at Dolan Park Hospital. I'm exhausted with the excitement, anxiety, fear - it just keeps going round and round in my head.

December Buddies! - Page 3 Event

by jellytot 21st November 2010, 9:03 pm

I'm totally gutted...I'm no longer going to be able to have my BA in December (if at all!!! sad smile

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My Ex (kiddies father) was going to have them over Christmas (giving me the time needed to get over the op) but has now decided to sever all contact with them as he's gone off in a strop! Most importantly I'm furious about the impact it's going to have on my kids...but I'm also devastated that I now can't have my BA!!! And I'm not sure if I ever will be able to (as I dunno if I can find anyone to look after the kids and me post-op PLUS the cost of paying for childcare PLUS the time I'd need to take off work!

God, sometimes life is SO unfair (and men are SO **naughty word**!!!!) :mad:

by dimpledee 21st November 2010, 10:52 pm

well done carol!!
Jellytot, I am so so sorry hun, wot a shame. Is this maybe a short term thing. Will he change his mind in the morning or did this happen a few days ago. I am so sorry hun :-( xx

by mummyroo 21st November 2010, 11:00 pm

Hi Carol
Welome and congratulations on booking. I totally understand how your feeling. I keep waking up in the middle of the night feeling sick and upset but I know this is what I want and have wanted for so long. I think it is only natural to have reservations as it is such a big decision! I'm hoping the excitment and happiness will take over soon!!

Jellytot I'm so sorry to hear your news, can't imagine how you feel. Is there any chance he will calm down and rethink the situation? Stay strong honey, thinking of you x x x

by jellytot 21st November 2010, 11:12 pm

Don't think he'll change his mind unfortunately....he's a bloodyminded so-and-so! The only possibility is that I might be able to postpone until Easter time next year and throw myself on the mercy of my family to look after kiddies for a week while I recouperate?

I'm gutted, I'm going to have to return all the sports bra's I bought in preparation! sad smile

by carol_s 21st November 2010, 11:35 pm

Dimpledee and mummyroo,

Thanks for your kind wishes. Just after I first booked I kept going to bed early thinking it would shorten the apparent time I had to wait. Trouble was, I woke up at 4 am each morning thinking about it and then wasn't able to get back to sleep again, so I was like a zombie the following day.

Jellytot - I am so, so sorry for the predicament which you find yourself in and I can fully understand just how mortified you must be feeling. I just hope your ex will think twice about it and relent in the next day or two. Have you cancelled yet or do you think he might just be playing 'mind games' with you Give You

by jellytot1 22nd November 2010, 8:54 am

So sorry to hear your bad news Jellytot - what a s**t your ex is, to do this to you and the kids with Xmas round the corner. Are your parents not able to help over Xmas so you can keep your original date? Sorry I can't remember how old the children are - could they not stay overnight with a friend while you are in hospital and then just watch alot of tv (there will be plenty of Xmas films on) you could just all stay in your PJ's and have a really lazy Xmas. I did post an query on a childminding forum I belong to about whether there were any other childminders who had had a BA and how much time off they had - one lady replied and said she had it done on a Saturday and was back to work on the Monday! Hope it all works out and if Xmas is a no go that Easter will work better!! lol xxxxxxx

by Alt_Barbie 22nd November 2010, 1:55 pm

jellytot wrote:Don't think he'll change his mind unfortunately....he's a bloodyminded so-and-so! The only possibility is that I might be able to postpone until Easter time next year and throw myself on the mercy of my family to look after kiddies for a week while I recouperate?

I'm gutted, I'm going to have to return all the sports bra's I bought in preparation!

My OH changed his mind last week after I booked.... We had a huge row & he threatened walking out... Now we have had time to think, talk etc everything is ok & im booked in again...

Dont panic just yet..... Fingers crossed & maybe it will work out for you.

by angelemma 23rd November 2010, 10:23 am

Jellytot - oh no :( Did he have a strop because he knew what you were doing or for another reason? I am so lucky that my older son's dad is so good (we are good friends still) and it makes me so sad when I hear about dad's treating their kids like this.

Do you not have a girlfriend that could come and stay with you for a while to help? I'm sure you've thought of all possibilities :( Hope you get it sorted x

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by angbabyxx 23rd November 2010, 12:45 pm

jellytot wrote:Don't think he'll change his mind unfortunately....he's a bloodyminded so-and-so! The only possibility is that I might be able to postpone until Easter time next year and throw myself on the mercy of my family to look after kiddies for a week while I recouperate?

I'm gutted, I'm going to have to return all the sports bra's I bought in preparation!

Oh so sorry to hear your news, I just sent you a PM this morning in response to you regarding my piccies. What an a**e he's being, how cruel.

Us girls on here know exactly how your feeling, I would have been devastated if my hubby had 'pulled the plug' at the last minute!!!!!!

But chin up babe, he might come round and if not don't set it in your mind that you can't have it done, it's just going to take a little more time 'organising' your time and it's not IF but WHEN still.....
You know with all us girls on here wouldn't it be fab if we could organise 'child care' rota's in our respective areas - for situations like this? Probably wouldn't be as easyr to organize as it sounds though eh? I wouldn't return your sports bra's just yet!!!!!

Well, good luck babe, keep us up to date won't you?

Thinking of you!!! Give You

Angiexx

by vmac 24th November 2010, 2:12 pm

December 1st!!!!! Excited, scared, nervous. Had a dream a couple of weeks ago I went to the pre-op apt drunk, lol.
7 days and counting til the long lost/never had boobsign

arrive

by angelemma 24th November 2010, 2:49 pm

Vmac you'll be the first of us to get done! Exciting Cheerleader

by jellytot 24th November 2010, 3:57 pm

Whoooo GIrlies....he's CHANGED HIS MIND!!!!!! yipee

Ex has now decided to stop throwing his toys out the pram, and to see his children over Xmas.....so my BA is BACK ON!!!!!!

WHOOOOO!!!!!! yahoo

Plus...I didn't get round to returning all my newly purchased sports bras, so I have them all ready!!!

Thanks to all you lovely girlies for the fab words of support - it meant a lot!

I can't believe it's now less than a month now (I'm gonna start getting all excited about it now, after having to try and forget about it!)

by carol_s 24th November 2010, 4:02 pm

OMG - I am so happy for you jellytot. Looks like your Xmas present has arrived early dance

I bet you are over the moon with joy.

Welcome back to the December buddies Hug

by jellytot 24th November 2010, 4:10 pm

Thanks Carol

I'm gonna miss my little kiddies LOTS! I'd kinda resigned myself to the fact that it wasn't going to happen - and had started planning a new kitchen instead of new boobies...so when Ex rang to said he'd like to see the kiddies again I was gob-smacked!

I said he could have them first and foremost for their benefit - it just has the added side effect of letting me have my BA again!

Gosh - I've got lots of catching up to do!!!

by angelemma 24th November 2010, 4:48 pm

:cheerlead:

So happy for you. Fingers crossed he doesn't throw another strop ;)

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by vmac 24th November 2010, 5:04 pm

angelemma wrote:Vmac you'll be the first of us to get done! Exciting

Kind of wish I wasnt the first one in Dec. but will be glad to be able to help more people through it and do the "test" run for everyone else :heehee: yipee

by Alt_Barbie 24th November 2010, 5:06 pm

Hehehehe told you so ;)

by jellytot 24th November 2010, 5:20 pm

From now on Alt Barbie, I'll defer to your greater wisdom on all the important decisions in life! thank you

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