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Charlii
COOKIE
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Mammamia
Roses27
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work post op
Im booked in for my BA on 21st January and have to return the work on 24th
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Oh my ! That is soon, what do you do if you don't mind me asking ? X
Roses27- BJSF Addict
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It can be done as you read about girls doing it, especially in America. However me personally couldn't think of anything worse. I actually think any surgeon that's told you that's acceptable is irresponsible too and I'm not sure I'd trust them to do the job. Sorry I know that's not what you wanted to hear. Can you perhaps work from home??
Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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Oh dear, that's very soon after operation and personally wouldnt b able to return so early post op.Surely there must be way round it and if you were signed off by doctors for week, nobody would knock on the door and drag you out of bed?!?x
camilla85- BJSF Addict
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Day 3/4 which would be your planned return day is generally the very worst days of your recovery Dora. All your swelling kicks in and most women get hit with the booby blues this day too and you just cry uncontrollably. It's the general anaesthetic running through your system of course but on top of the discomfort you'll be in you also feel really crappy around that time too.
If your working from home and can rest when you need to, it would be doable, but I seriously doubt unless you're one of the VERY few that do have a quick recovery that you'll be fit for work by then. And taking a chance on you being one of the lucky few...well, it would be like buying a lottery ticket!
I'd very much encourage you sweetheart to make plans for at least one week off from work. The majority of women hit a turning point in their recovery after then and feel a little better about work, so this really would be best for you and your recovery. Xx
If your working from home and can rest when you need to, it would be doable, but I seriously doubt unless you're one of the VERY few that do have a quick recovery that you'll be fit for work by then. And taking a chance on you being one of the lucky few...well, it would be like buying a lottery ticket!
I'd very much encourage you sweetheart to make plans for at least one week off from work. The majority of women hit a turning point in their recovery after then and feel a little better about work, so this really would be best for you and your recovery. Xx
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I believe most surgeons recommend at least a week off work. Like Cookie said, days 3/4 are the worst, I was a big blubbering greasy mess, there was no way I would have been fit for work, or in any frame of mind to concentrate on anything. I would strongly recommend getting a Dr's note for at least a week off. Also, it does depend what you do, you won't be able to do any lifting, pulling, pushing, anything upper body. And as above, your in a diminished physical state, will that compromise you're safety at work. Please do consider some options here, as you dont want to risk your recovery.
Charlii- Moderator
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Iv been told to have a week off but it just isnt possible with work :(
Il be sat at a computer from 3pm-12. Iv had to let work know what im having done as i usually wear body armour so im having to be placed somewhere else for 4/5 weeks until i can wear it again.
i may have to look at getting a doctors note :-/ eek!
Il be sat at a computer from 3pm-12. Iv had to let work know what im having done as i usually wear body armour so im having to be placed somewhere else for 4/5 weeks until i can wear it again.
i may have to look at getting a doctors note :-/ eek!
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Your surgeon will give you a doctors note hun. It will last a week and if you need more your gp will issue you a further one. You're paying a lot of money for boobs so don't risk your recovery just for work, especially as your surgeon advised a week. Not many employers would give the same level of commitment to their staff! Stuff 'em!
Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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Im going back to see my surgeon on wednesday so il ask about the sicknote,
Thanks ladies, i was planning on just sitting behind the desk and not moving for 9 hrs ha!
Thanks ladies, i was planning on just sitting behind the desk and not moving for 9 hrs ha!
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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You don't need a doctors note for the first week Dora. So stuff work, your health comes first lovely. You relax and take that week to recover. There's no way you'd be comfortable sat for 9 hours at your computor...just no way babe.
You only need a sick note if you need any further time off after the first week.
If you're worried about work, don't be hun. Here's how the law stands regarding taking sick leave HERE
You only need a sick note if you need any further time off after the first week.
If you're worried about work, don't be hun. Here's how the law stands regarding taking sick leave HERE
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Thanks, il sort it out with work tomorrow and tell them il be off for longer. I thought sitting at my desk would be ok, so glad i came on here!
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Awww when you think of Breast Augmentation being 'elective surgery' it doesnt sound so bad does it. But it IS surgery nonetheless and the trauma caused to your body from having a general anaesthetic really does take it out of you and you will need the week to recover at the very least.
Hope all goes well with work tomorrow sweetheart and don't let them bully you into coming in - the law is on YOUR side. Xx
Hope all goes well with work tomorrow sweetheart and don't let them bully you into coming in - the law is on YOUR side. Xx
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Dora, I take it you are job?
Get yourself signed off if they are being **naughty word**. You shouldnt need too long with your shift pattern and rest days. If you are sick, you are sick. They will have to work round it. Remember, they don't owe you anything!! And there is no point going in if you are not 100%.
People take more time off with a cold. Put yourself first. And from knowing a girl who had hers done, she said there was no way she could wear body armour at work. They will have to work around you and your fitness for work.
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Get yourself signed off if they are being **naughty word**. You shouldnt need too long with your shift pattern and rest days. If you are sick, you are sick. They will have to work round it. Remember, they don't owe you anything!! And there is no point going in if you are not 100%.
People take more time off with a cold. Put yourself first. And from knowing a girl who had hers done, she said there was no way she could wear body armour at work. They will have to work around you and your fitness for work.
x
drinkeroftea- BJSF Addict
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You are all super, thanks again!
Drinkeroftea- yes i am, il be a minimum of 4 weeks because il need new armour and they dont rush thankfully..il make sure i get my time off sorted in the morning
Drinkeroftea- yes i am, il be a minimum of 4 weeks because il need new armour and they dont rush thankfully..il make sure i get my time off sorted in the morning
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Yes, please do! One of the only good things about the job is the sickness benefit. They cannot force you to come in, they have a responsibility to look after your welfare, and to ensure that if you are on restricted duties, they are suitable for your needs.
Your health and well being is more important. And you need to ensure that you are 100% fighting fit. You don't want to be worried about getting into a ruck if you have concerns about your new boobies.
xx
Your health and well being is more important. And you need to ensure that you are 100% fighting fit. You don't want to be worried about getting into a ruck if you have concerns about your new boobies.
xx
drinkeroftea- BJSF Addict
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May I ask?
What's this body armour you have to wear Dora and why do you have to wear it? X
What's this body armour you have to wear Dora and why do you have to wear it? X
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Drinkeroftea- you in the job too?
Cookie- its ballistic kevlar armour (spelling?!) Its quite heavy and doesn't have the best fit for boobs, but have to wear it when im out and about
Cookie- its ballistic kevlar armour (spelling?!) Its quite heavy and doesn't have the best fit for boobs, but have to wear it when im out and about
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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I did 7 years and got out!! It got to the point where I just had enough. Usual thing of not enough foot soldiers, the powers that be wanting more and more while they sat safe and warm in their office and MOP complaining all the time. Best thing I ever did.
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drinkeroftea- BJSF Addict
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Not getting any better
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Drinkeroftea has got it spot on...they will work around you and you don't owe them anything! Good luck with it all!
Mammamia- BJSF Elite Member
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Nope, and it will only get worse. I'm such a cynic!
drinkeroftea- BJSF Addict
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My husband had spinal disc surgery and had a minimum of 3 months off even when he went back he was on restricted duties for months!
They're actually very good if you need light/restricted duties.
As husband couldn't wear a stab vest for months and months after his op.
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He's in the job also x
They're actually very good if you need light/restricted duties.
As husband couldn't wear a stab vest for months and months after his op.
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He's in the job also x
mrsball- Global Mod
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Oh only half my message came up, you probably came out at a good time, the lines getting thinner. Im 6 years in and every year is more of a struggle.
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Mrsball- oh gosh poor hubby! Hope he is ok now...the thing that worries me is that its elective surgery and not for a medical reason. But *naughtyword* them :)
doradoodle- Newbie BJSF Member
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Doesn't matter, surgery is surgery they can't make you go back before you're ready especially in uniform.
Hubby's fine now, he's lucky and has a great and very understanding inspector !
I'm sure all will be fine. Just take the time you need off . Your surgeon/gp will be of help to make sure you have appropriate recovery time x
Hubby's fine now, he's lucky and has a great and very understanding inspector !
I'm sure all will be fine. Just take the time you need off . Your surgeon/gp will be of help to make sure you have appropriate recovery time x
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