really sore

Hi all so some of u may know I've had complications and a,reop

Well I'm still in no bra and compression band, the past few nights when lying on my back my right boobs sometimes feels like it's falling out the pocket, it's not lol and it's so sore 

My surgeon is on hol, so can't ask.him

Any ideas xx

Aww I'm so sorry to hear you're sore, babe :( It must be so agonising for you to constantly be in that compression band! Bless you!

How long is your surgeon on holiday for? Could you email him or could you ring up your clinic and ask to speak to a nurse?

I don't really know what to suggest, honey, as you always seem more knowledgeable about these sorts of things than me anyway. Could it possibly mean that your right boob is dropping? (In which case that's a good thing?)

I hope the pain eases off for you, babe.. BIG HUGS XXXX

Does it fall to the side tink? Lateral displacement?

I.didn't go.through a clinic tiger, he's away til tues but I've emailed him, he's actually abroad so a proper hol

Kay it moves but not loads if that makes sense like prob like a natural boob would xx

It could just be the natural movement and your body isn't used to it. I still cant sleep braless because it gets really achy, lord knows how you're doing it! Could you not put a sneaky comfort bra on to sleep in, just to hold them in place a bit better for a couple days, see if that lessens the soreness? Of course, it could be a good thing, sign you're finally dropping?

aw charlii its so uncomfortable lol

I am going to sleep in my wee marks crop tops, as they are so comfortable

I got the pain/sensation walking home from work there too, its like it needing to move but gets stuck and its like a popping sensation but knda sore lol xx

Sorry you are sore sweets, but it may be a good thing...perhaps it's just natural movement and they are starting to drop? If i have a few too many glasses of wine and then let the hubby at them   then i often fall asleep braless. Blimmin sore in the morning! xx

Looool.cheeky wine haha 

I'm braless all the time and only lately it's sore, fingers crossed some dropping is happening then.xx

It sounds to me like it's more something to do with your muscle Tink, if you had further dissection this time around it could be the muscle healing causing the pain and odd sensation?

I personally wouldn't wear a bra against your surgeons instruction - if you want to get the best from this revision then following the instruction is the way forward.

I fully understand that it may be uncomfortable for you sweetheart but this is something best discussed with your surgeon and if he says a bra for bed is fine then that may help, but from other posts I've read of yours your surgeon was very insistent that you wear no bra to encourage those boobs to drop.

In going against what you've been advised by the expert in this field you chose, you do a) put yourself at risk of spoiling any improvement that could be made whilst they're in that bra, or b) make your aftercare void because you went against instruction.

If I'm right, your surgeon is one of a few in the clinic?

If its that painful you could always ask the advise of the surgeon your own surgeon suggested you see whilst he was away a while ago. At least that way you've gained yourself some expert advise and also will feel far mor comfortable with the progression leading to your next appointment with your surgeon. Xx

I wear comfort bras like the crop tops not supporting at all, which is okayed by Ray. 

He's now in BMI Glasgow, so his colleagues are there too, so yeah I guess I could call there, my surgery was booked direct with Mr Ray though so.I've always managed to get hold of him personally 

Hope ur getting mumma bear lol, xx

Struggling... But still 'smilin'. Thanks for asking sweetie   

as always cookie as always, cant wait to see that selfie of you home with that hair cut you mentioned on fb!!

rest up!! and get better, it does help you have amazing kids and a wonderful husband xx

Ha! I have the most amazing hairdresser and colourist and can't wait for them to work their magic on my hair.

I went in hospital a blonde and have a look of a 'dip dye' now    I'm telling everyone its intentional cause of the shame    haha.

Yup, family are amazing. Seeing some people never get a visitor is heart breaking, especially when I've a queue waking to take turns to come in to see me. I'm very blessed and its something I never take for granted Tink.... I treasure each and everyone of mine. Xxx

woohoo so your now sporting a dip dye   too funny

aw its heartbreaking when people dont have visitors, happened in NICU all the time, some babies would go days without a parent coming in xx

Tink.... Seriously parents don't come every day?? I would worry sick! 

As for adult patients you notice that alot. And I always feel guilty when I walk in for a friend and u see someone look up at u :-(

Life is really difficult and complicated and sometimes totally unfair.

Glad u have a stream of visitors cookie and im sure your a great companion for others around u x

Kay just seen.ur reply I'm thinking ur right!!

Aw Sahara was heartbreaking I.went to.see ellie from 10am to 9pm all day or head home at 2 then back into 6pm add had mia too xx

That must have been so hard tink. Splitting yourself in two.
You really are a remarkable women! X

us women just do what we need to do dont we lol

xx