Still wide apart?

by tigertonix 20th January 2014, 6:01 pm

Hi, lovelies!
Okay I know it can take months and months for boobs to settle post-op but i'm just wondering if it's normal to still have a massive gap between my two boobs? My swelling has all gone around my sternum area as I can now feel my sternum bone directly underneath my skin However, the gap between my right and left boobs is still as big as it was after I'd just had my op! I'm about a mile away from getting a cleavage hahahaa. Is this normal and will they begin to go closer together? Is it because they haven't dropped yet? Thanks girls!!

Love stressy Toni! xxxxx

by **COOKIE** 20th January 2014, 6:11 pm

You're always going to have the same cleavage you have pre-op Toni. This will NEVER change.

As your breasts soften up though and drop they do achieve a more natural look than the ball appearance you have early post-op.

So don't worry hun, they won't look they way they do now at all.

I have a naturally wide cleavage, but I like that, I think it gives a more natural appearance 'when I want that' but I can vamp em up as well when I want to in a bra to give them that va-va-voom cleavage and upper pole look.

So don't worry lovely... They'll come good but it does take time. It took six months for mine to fully soften up xx

by tinkerbell24 20th January 2014, 6:12 pm

what was your gap like before your op? lol everyone used to say to me the cleavage will be as it was preop and im like there was nothing there to compare it too hahaha

it is still very early days for you and you will see changes ove the following weeks xx

by tinkerbell24 20th January 2014, 6:13 pm

lol see Cookie says it to but I had nothing to compare to shrug

by **COOKIE** 20th January 2014, 6:15 pm

Its the distance in measurement between the breasts Tink. You may have had small breasts, well that's what I'm presuming from your post lol, but you still will have had a cleavage area, even if you couldn't see it, which again, I presuming you couldn't from your post lol. Xx

by tigertonix 20th January 2014, 6:16 pm

Aw thank you, Cookie! I know I still have a long way to go but I guess I must have a naturally wider cleavage because mine are very far apart! Thank you for all your help and advice!

Haha, Tink, I'm exactly the same! I didn't have any boobs pre-op therefore I didn't have even the tiniest bit of cleavage! I suppose I'll have to wait and see but I really hope I do develop some kind of cleavage haha :)

Thank you!!!xxxx

by tinkerbell24 20th January 2014, 6:25 pm

lol I had zilch just my 2 wee nipples on my skin hahaha, i do think as the weeks go on cleavage will be created haha as I leav forward now or lay on my side Im getting a cleavage so its looking brighter haha xx

by louise28 20th January 2014, 6:25 pm

Cookie what bra's do you recommend for a good bum cleavage? I've managed to squeeze mine together a bit in my standard M&S bra for my Avi, but need a bit more help for that last push.x

by tigertonix 20th January 2014, 6:27 pm

hahahaha.. a bum cleavage!
That's one I've never heard before but I certainly like it!xxx

by **COOKIE** 20th January 2014, 6:32 pm

If you're after a real bum cleavage I wear a wonderbra BUT I wear a cupsize smaller than I am, so it really pushes them together.

I will say... Its not comfortable and you'll just bare a night out lol, its the same going out in heels all night isn't it. But its worth it for the look.

The Parfait Innfinitas Charlotte bra is a good bra too. Not as busty as the wonderbra, but gives a good full cleavage.

The Freya Deco is another that's good for cleavage too. Again, not the BIG cleavage the wonderbra in a smaller size will give but its a great cleavage bra all the same xx

by louise28 20th January 2014, 6:40 pm

Thanks Cookie, totally agree with the high heels comment, as I get older I now take a roll up pair of pumps out in my bag and smother the pressure points of my feet, that hurt most in shoes with Vaseline, all for the sake of vanity. Men have it so easy.x

by tigertonix 20th January 2014, 6:41 pm

I like your ideas, Cookie! When given the all clear by my surgeon I'm going to have to venture out and get myself one of these Wonderbras!xxx

by **COOKIE** 20th January 2014, 6:45 pm

louise28 wrote:Thanks Cookie, totally agree with the high heels comment, as I get older I now take a roll up pair of pumps out in my bag and smother the pressure points of my feet, that hurt most in shoes with Vaseline, all for the sake of vanity. Men have it so easy.x

Maybe you'll end up with a supportbra in your bag too now Hysterical

Yeah... Men have things FAR too easy yes

Xx

by louise28 20th January 2014, 6:52 pm

can you imagine, oh the glamorous approach to the 50's.x

by Prettylil 20th January 2014, 6:53 pm

@ support bra in the bag..

oh my days ....

nice info though

Louise - oh my days!! those racks are pretty

by **COOKIE** 20th January 2014, 6:53 pm

Try as we might... Its not lookin' good is it Hysterical

by louise28 20th January 2014, 6:58 pm

Woohoo lil, were did you spring out from Hysterical

.Thanks hun, they've proper blossomed all of a sudden.

Yeah Cookie and we'll need to use Aldi carrier bags to hold it all.x

by **COOKIE** 20th January 2014, 7:05 pm

Now ya just took that too far Louise!

Hysterical

by krizzooo1 20th January 2014, 7:07 pm

This post has me laughing a lot
From hunt the cleavage Shifty

to Boob bags......
pretty racks.....
Lovely...... I needed a chuckle group hug

by louise28 20th January 2014, 7:09 pm

I did.x

by tigertonix 20th January 2014, 7:11 pm

Maybe we should just wear an ultra comfy sportsbra on nights out and just draw a cleavage on? Get a neat black marker pen and voilaa! Cleavage! Hahaha, classy Toni!xxxx

by loui1981 21st January 2014, 6:55 am

It's ok I have a naturally wide cleavage gap too, even in my pre op photos so knew that by filling them this wasn't going to change. Also maybe I'm wrong here but it was easy tosqueeze my empty sacs into a good cleavage pre op so I'm expecting less cleavage more fullness now. We are all different and it's common for them to point east and west it's more pronounced the bigger they are. My advice is look back at your old photos, aren't they a hundred times better? They may not be perfect but stop worrying about it and start enjoying them instead x

by **Charlii** 21st January 2014, 11:20 am

I think a lot of girls think boob job = naturally bouyant cleavage, so its a bit of a shock when they find out it'll be the same post as pre. But on the plus side, you now have boobs to put into a bra to hoik them under your chin! I was more shocked at the fact I did have cleavage, it was just hiding behind the lack of boob!

by **mirren001** 21st January 2014, 5:28 pm

I've got a naturally gappy cleavage and took ages for them to really soften and gain movement but now in the right bra getting a good cleavage isn't a problem when I want it. XXX

by misskaren 21st January 2014, 9:54 pm

hey tigertonix,

my b cup pre op boobs had a wide clevage and i this wont change. My boobs like you still seem small and very far apart but i am confident when these boobies of our drop, fluff, soften etc etc we will be able to get a lovely bra on and get the look we want with the right bra. dont worry chick you boobs are going to look great dance

x

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