my turn friday and more scared than excited
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my turn friday and more scared than excited
hey ladies
i cant begin 2 tell u ladies how worried and scared iam, Monday i thought its not worth all the worry and i was ganna cancel, husband reassured me that if worse comes to worse if i dont like them were have them taken out, just so scared people / friends will find out and there ganna b massive..
hoping to be no more than a c big! the nurse said that 310 cc is a conservative size?
arrrrrrr why do we put ourselves through this, i dont know
feeling abit down and silly lol, doesnt help im due on Friday as well! poor hubby lol
xx
jo
i cant begin 2 tell u ladies how worried and scared iam, Monday i thought its not worth all the worry and i was ganna cancel, husband reassured me that if worse comes to worse if i dont like them were have them taken out, just so scared people / friends will find out and there ganna b massive..
hoping to be no more than a c big! the nurse said that 310 cc is a conservative size?
arrrrrrr why do we put ourselves through this, i dont know
feeling abit down and silly lol, doesnt help im due on Friday as well! poor hubby lol
xx
jo
jolalaharvey- Newbie BJSF Member
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Re: my turn friday and more scared than excited
aww hun don't worry it's normal to be a bit jittery before the op, i was the exact same and went through the same fears, thinking they would be too big, and then panicking they would be too small. at the end of the day it's down to how much you trust your surgeon and how relaxed he makes you feel, i loved mine !
also it might be worth going into the clinic before the big day and getting them to bring out all the implants in front of you again, let you have another feel and talk it all through.. i found that helped calm me down !
and if at the end of it you're not convinced it's up to you what to do! don't pressure yourself into anything you don't 100% want :) xxxx
also it might be worth going into the clinic before the big day and getting them to bring out all the implants in front of you again, let you have another feel and talk it all through.. i found that helped calm me down !
and if at the end of it you're not convinced it's up to you what to do! don't pressure yourself into anything you don't 100% want :) xxxx
ravenxwaves- BJSF Addict
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Re: my turn friday and more scared than excited
Just think you have wanted this for so long! It will be worth it and you and your husband will love the new additions!!! I was a 32a/b and had 325 cc under the muscle, and cos I wore padded bras before the op no one has noticed! You'll be fine :) x
Ding_dongs- Active BJSF Member
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Re: my turn friday and more scared than excited
It's so normal to be nervous!! It's pre op jitters and we all suffer from them... However think about all of us ladies here and how many women have a BA every week! You can do this and have your dream boobies too!!
When you arrive you will be so well looked after by the professionals!
You will look great with that implant, your surgeon will be so experienced and would always do the best for you...it won't be noticeable either so please don't worry about that...
We are all here to support you and get you through these feelings... Just keep focusing on the outcome and think about if you did cancel..you can do this :) xx
When you arrive you will be so well looked after by the professionals!
You will look great with that implant, your surgeon will be so experienced and would always do the best for you...it won't be noticeable either so please don't worry about that...
We are all here to support you and get you through these feelings... Just keep focusing on the outcome and think about if you did cancel..you can do this :) xx
jenniferrf1- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: my turn friday and more scared than excited
LOL at your husband Jola, men are so simple aren't they.. If you don't want them, just get them out - job done - sorted!
Gotta love them haven't you... There's no feelings involved at all is there hahaha.
It sounds like you're probably very hormonal as I think you already know Jola and having from a very normal cupful of the pre-op jitters babe
Everything is magnified tenfold isn't babe when you're due for your period and put that on top of the pre-op jitters and its a rough old time for poor old you isn't it babe...
But you'll be OK. Reading the the ladies stories who have kindly left them all here in the stories section helps ground us again babe... Honestly, they really do help. Reading the stories of women who felt just as you are now and reading how elated they are after waking to their new boobs - story after story, will just help increase your confidence hun.
Maybe spend this last couple days with a pamper session for yourself to take your mind off things?
Book a wax if you'd like one? It helps not having to shave so soon early post-op when a wax lasts much longer. Legs and pits as a man would say - job done! Haha
Maybe a nice massage? What a wonderful way to de stress....
Just take some time out for you hun...I think in the run up to our BA, we worry about everybody and everything and it can all get just a little on top of you... So have a little me time babe and we'll be here for a chat, a giggle or even if its just a hug you want Jola.... ANYTIME. Xxx
Gotta love them haven't you... There's no feelings involved at all is there hahaha.
It sounds like you're probably very hormonal as I think you already know Jola and having from a very normal cupful of the pre-op jitters babe
Everything is magnified tenfold isn't babe when you're due for your period and put that on top of the pre-op jitters and its a rough old time for poor old you isn't it babe...
But you'll be OK. Reading the the ladies stories who have kindly left them all here in the stories section helps ground us again babe... Honestly, they really do help. Reading the stories of women who felt just as you are now and reading how elated they are after waking to their new boobs - story after story, will just help increase your confidence hun.
Maybe spend this last couple days with a pamper session for yourself to take your mind off things?
Book a wax if you'd like one? It helps not having to shave so soon early post-op when a wax lasts much longer. Legs and pits as a man would say - job done! Haha
Maybe a nice massage? What a wonderful way to de stress....
Just take some time out for you hun...I think in the run up to our BA, we worry about everybody and everything and it can all get just a little on top of you... So have a little me time babe and we'll be here for a chat, a giggle or even if its just a hug you want Jola.... ANYTIME. Xxx
Re: my turn friday and more scared than excited
thanks cookie - it does help..
god i wish i did have some pamper time between now and then, work and sorting out the house like a mad women.. like im nesting, just want everything sorted for kids and hubby
roll on friday
x
god i wish i did have some pamper time between now and then, work and sorting out the house like a mad women.. like im nesting, just want everything sorted for kids and hubby
roll on friday
x
jolalaharvey- Newbie BJSF Member
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Location : london
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