BA cancelled

by LJK 15th March 2009, 2:06 pm

Hi All, just thought i'd update you. As some of you may know i have been a bit undecided about having a BA and after too many sleepless nights, I have finally made up my mind to cancel my BA. The worry of it was making me ill (depression), and I decided it really wasn't worth it. I explained this all to my husband and he was brilliant,- I've messed him around so much with 'yes i'm going to have it done' followed by 'i'm not sure now'. But i am 100% certain that i am making the right choice.

A big thank you to all of you that have helped me along this journey, your advise and continued support have been greatly appreciated.

Maybe in another 5 years or more, I may think about again,- may not!!

I wish you all well and hope your dreams come true with your BA's.

bye for now
Lynz x

by **nads** 15th March 2009, 2:22 pm

Hi hun, i'm glad you've come to a decision about it as it seemed like you weren't sure, it's great to hear your OH is supportive too, you're more than welcome to stick around or return if you change your mind in the future, best of luck hun Hug

by moonmar 15th March 2009, 2:36 pm

Hey hun, a BA is such a personal choice that you have to be sure you are doing the right thing for you, so if you have too many doubts you are definitely best waiting for now, hugs x

by cakey_baby 15th March 2009, 4:07 pm

Hi Hun

I think you have made the right decision, i also worried if i am doing the right thing im so worried about the op sometimes i feel sick!! but i know if i had to cancel i would be devestated.

The fact that you feel happier for cancelling means you have made the right decision and you know where we all are if you do decide to book again.

Hug

x x x

by Annie66 15th March 2009, 7:00 pm

Hi there,
I had similar doubts myself and postponed my BA so I can completely understand where you're coming from. If, after a few weeks or months, you start thinking about it all over again, you can safely re-book with greater certainty that you're making the right choice. If you don't think about it anymore,then you'll also know that you've done the right thing by cancelling.
All the best to you,
A x

by mariajw 15th March 2009, 9:54 pm

Hey Hunni

If you had doubts and it was getting you down, then you have done the right thing.

But know that we'll be here if ever you change your mind in the future.

Maria
xx

by peewee 15th March 2009, 10:32 pm

Ah bless you - well done for not just hearing the nagging in your head but really listening to it and not following through with the ba if you didn't feel it was right for you. imagine if you had and then hated them? and like everyone says if you change your mind in the future you have all the info up your sleeve ready. take care of yourself xx

by **ShootingStar** 15th March 2009, 11:49 pm

I hope you start to feel better now hun, nothing is worth making yourself ill over. Take care xx Hug

xx

by Suki77 16th March 2009, 7:59 pm

Hey hun, I think if the feeling of doubt was stronger than anything maybe it was not the right time for you now. But I wish you lots of luck in the future. xxx

by LJK 19th March 2009, 8:34 pm

Thank you ALL for your kind words. I do feel I've made the right decision for now. Never say never though, one day I might go and re book, but for now i just need my life to settle down for a bit before i make any major changes.

I treated myself to some clothes today,- something I've not felt good about doing for a while, but today I thought I deserved something.

Must also say transform were brilliant when i phoned to cancel. There was no issue about it, they were vey kind and said i can have my deposit back too. So if i do decide to go for it again in the future, i wouldn't hesitate to go back through Transform.

Thanks again, I will keep in touch on this forum and help where i can.

Bye for now
Lynz x

by **ShootingStar** 19th March 2009, 10:20 pm

LJK wrote:
I treated myself to some clothes today,- something I've not felt good about doing for a while, but today I thought I deserved something.

Good for you Lynz, and it's great Transform were so understanding too, all the best sweetie and there's always the chinwag section which is full of fun & has lots of different topics to chat in so make sure you keep in touch when you can xx Hug

xx

by **nads** 19th March 2009, 10:21 pm

Thats great hun, im glad they were nice about it xxx

by BlondeBarbie 19th March 2009, 10:54 pm

Aw im glad you feel you made the right decision and its good Transform were so nice about it x

by BoobiePrize 21st March 2009, 9:16 am

Hi hun, I'm glad you've been able to come to decision all the back and forth must have been stressful. Focus on you for now and if you do decide to go for it in future we're all here to help you along your journey. All the best chick xx

by littlemisstiny1 21st March 2009, 2:38 pm

If you were not really sure you wanted it then you definitely have done the right thing - it's a big decision and one you can't easily turn back from so you have to really want it. Sometimes I wish I didn't want one so badly!

Enjoy the summer and Primark are doing some great gel bras (give you at least another cup size) for ony £4 at the mo if you feel the need!

xx

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