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dented confidence
aaarrgghhh!!!
why are stepkids so blooming insensitive?
i've just seen my 22 yr old stepdaughter for the first time since having my boobs done and she decided to point out that they looked no bigger than before
i was just starting to feel flippin positive about them, as i am very conscious of the scars etc as i had to have an uplift as well as a re-aug due to a rupture, and she goes and says this!!
i just walked away so she didnt have the satisfaction of seeing me cry
sorry just needed to off-load to make me feel a bit better!!
why are stepkids so blooming insensitive?
i've just seen my 22 yr old stepdaughter for the first time since having my boobs done and she decided to point out that they looked no bigger than before
i was just starting to feel flippin positive about them, as i am very conscious of the scars etc as i had to have an uplift as well as a re-aug due to a rupture, and she goes and says this!!
i just walked away so she didnt have the satisfaction of seeing me cry
sorry just needed to off-load to make me feel a bit better!!
mandy_moo- Active BJSF Member
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Re: dented confidence
aww hun dont let her get to you, you no how different you look and thats what matters,
some people can be very rude,
some people can be very rude,
bumblebabe- BJSF Addict
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Don't allow the opinions of others to ruin your enjoyment of your new boobs Mandy.
You have a lovely result hunni and you look great! Have confidence in yourself babe to let comments like that to just go right over your head.
You're positively boobilicious! xxx
You have a lovely result hunni and you look great! Have confidence in yourself babe to let comments like that to just go right over your head.
You're positively boobilicious! xxx
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Some people just dont think before they open their month hunny.
Seriously I would not let her rude comment get to you. Shes proberly jelouse anyways. xx
Seriously I would not let her rude comment get to you. Shes proberly jelouse anyways. xx
pinkbabe- BJSF Elite Member
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Mmmm could it be a touch of the green eyed monster.
Don't let her get to you hun.....you look fantastic!!
Don't let her get to you hun.....you look fantastic!!
alfie- BJSF Elite Member
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I have the same thing with my oldest sister, she has said a few things to me over the last couple of days, such as "If they were any smaller you wouldnt know you had them done" I am currently wearing a bloody D cup, that is not small in my book. However jealousy is a horrible trait.
Dont let them get you down xx
Dont let them get you down xx
Phoebe- BJSF Elite Member
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i havent even had mine done yet and im getting nasty comments from people who i thought was my friends,
i wont even go into what hey have said,
i wont even go into what hey have said,
bumblebabe- BJSF Addict
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one word..jelousy.Chin up xx
xxprincessxx- Active BJSF Member
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Shes definatley jealous darlin!! Just ignore her! Silly mare!!! lol
xx
xx
NurseSophie89- BJSF Elite Member
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i cant believe all the replies....thank you so much girls
you know what.....you're right. it IS jealousy now i come to think of it. she is totally flat chested, and has made scathing comments about ''her dad'' paying for me to have my boobs done before i had the op.....even tho its been ME that blooming worked 2 jobs to save up for it!!
thanks girls....you really are the best. i feel so much better already xxxx
you know what.....you're right. it IS jealousy now i come to think of it. she is totally flat chested, and has made scathing comments about ''her dad'' paying for me to have my boobs done before i had the op.....even tho its been ME that blooming worked 2 jobs to save up for it!!
thanks girls....you really are the best. i feel so much better already xxxx
mandy_moo- Active BJSF Member
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Aww hunni the girls are right, definately a touch of the green eyed monster ..... I ve seen your pics shes probably jealous of your tiny waist and flat tummy too !!! Ignore her sweetie..... xx
starfish67- Newbie BJSF Member
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Maybe you should casually say to her 'it would do you the world of good too lady, save you from being so bitter!' haha! Or on the other hand be the bigger person and just swan around in gorge little tops with ur fantastic boobies sitting there for her to get even more jealous of! xxx
NurseSophie89- BJSF Elite Member
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Definitely jealously, try not to worry you look gorgeous
Lots of love
Grace
xxx
Lots of love
Grace
xxx
Grace- BJSF Addict
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ooh, what a little witch.. ........ just you wait till you're out of the sb and into push ups.......... she will be even more jealous........ so prepare to rub them in her face Mand
katie- BJSF Elite Member
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lol!! i love some of your comments...they really cheered me up and made me laugh!!! thanks girls...you're the best
mandy_moo- Active BJSF Member
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Hi hun,don't let it bother you in the slightest.If i were you id get your best low cut top on and flaunt them in front of her! Be proud x
tizzyt- BJSF Addict
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tizzyt wrote:Hi hun,don't let it bother you in the slightest.If i were you id get your best low cut top on and flaunt them in front of her! Be proud x
i intend to lol!! but then i'll get some stick for being ''too old'' to dress like that!! i am 42 after all....and well....that makes me ready for the knackers yard in some peoples book lololol!!!! all of you girls are right.....none of us feel our age, and we should make the most of what we've got.....and what the surgeons have given us!!
mandy_moo- Active BJSF Member
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What a cheeky madam, so obviously jealous, its a case of your boobies looking a million times better than her!!!
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sexybum- BJSF Addict
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NurseSophie89 wrote:Maybe you should casually say to her 'it would do you the world of good too lady, save you from being so bitter!' haha! Or on the other hand be the bigger person and just swan around in gorge little tops with ur fantastic boobies sitting there for her to get even more jealous of! xxx
Ha ha spot on Sophie, would def shut her up!!!
Step children with attitude... who needs 'em!!!
Ignore her mandy, it's how you feel about your body that counts.
xxx
zoeb- BJSF Addict
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A friend of mine said some thing to me too mandy when she came over to see me.I was talking to her the day before saying how upset i was that i didnt go bigger and when she came over to see me she said you wouldnt even know you had your boobs done lee, I would of went alot bigger after paying that money. she made me alot worse than I previously was.I know its hard to not let peoples opinions get you .She knew by saying that that it would get to you like my friend did. some people are very sad and dont care weather if it hurts that person or not, even if its your stepdaughter, good friend,or sister.ignore them hun x x x.
lee- Newbie BJSF Member
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thanx lee i hope you're feeling better about yourself now. i cant wait for my boobs to ''show their true colours'' as it were lol when they settle down....no doubt you feel the same xxx
mandy_moo- Active BJSF Member
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aw that sucks, how dare she say that to you, try ignore it, shes obv not the nicest person, or didnt mean to hurt you, sod what she says, go out and hold your head high, and stick your out!
xxx
xxx
fluffy_bunn1e- BJSF Elite Member
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You show em off if you want to Mandy, dont worry bout your age. You know what they say " you dont buy a new car and keep it in the garage do you??"
Enjoy
x
Enjoy
x
Breasticles- BJSF Addict
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Breasticles wrote: You show em off if you want to Mandy, dont worry bout your age. You know what they say " you dont buy a new car and keep it in the garage do you??"
Enjoy
x
oh my god!!!! thats a corker lol!!!!
mandy_moo- Active BJSF Member
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