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Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by kirsti 18th March 2010, 8:54 pm
hey ladies, as you know i got my ba booked for april first. Ive paid 500 deposit and pay 1550 tomorrow. Taking the remainder on 12 months interest free. My fiance is takin the cash in tomorrow to pay it and ive been sittin here all night feelin really sick about the whole thing. We dont have much in the way of savings and im takin the magority of it coz i dont like my boobs? I feel really selfish right now! We could use that money for soooo many things. Feeel like cryin. 
just needed to talk about it xxx
just needed to talk about it xxx
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by JoanneR85 18th March 2010, 8:57 pm
awww hunny you shouldn't feel guilty or selfish for wanting it. Afterall it's only money and having friends and family around are more important.
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by Mia X 18th March 2010, 9:00 pm
When I get round to booking mine, I know that I will be feeling the same way, because im the same, could use the money for so many other things, and I have children to think about too.
But this is a life changing experience that you've taken much thought and consideration over, and most definently researched!! If you put it off, you may just be left with regrets that you never did it, and as they say, you only get one life so make the best of it and live it to the fullest (ok im sounding corny now) but you have to look after yourself, do what makes YOU happy, and treat yourself now and again. I mean you never know, next year you might win th lottery or find out you have a very rich and ill distant relative with no family (long shot I know) but JUST GO FOR IT GIRL! We all have your back!!
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But this is a life changing experience that you've taken much thought and consideration over, and most definently researched!! If you put it off, you may just be left with regrets that you never did it, and as they say, you only get one life so make the best of it and live it to the fullest (ok im sounding corny now) but you have to look after yourself, do what makes YOU happy, and treat yourself now and again. I mean you never know, next year you might win th lottery or find out you have a very rich and ill distant relative with no family (long shot I know) but JUST GO FOR IT GIRL! We all have your back!!
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by macca8 18th March 2010, 9:09 pm
I've got some cash coming soon and thinking about spending it on a BA after i've told everyone i'm going to pay off some of my mortgage.
It maybe doesn't sound too important but I've been in my place 5 years and have got a high mortgage and am stuck unless i raise some cash. So although a BA seems like a good idea now it might not seem so good next year when i want to move.
BUT i'm young (ish!) I've lived with no boobs all my life and its time i spent some money on me!
Its all about what makes you happy, try not to stress about it too much!
It maybe doesn't sound too important but I've been in my place 5 years and have got a high mortgage and am stuck unless i raise some cash. So although a BA seems like a good idea now it might not seem so good next year when i want to move.
BUT i'm young (ish!) I've lived with no boobs all my life and its time i spent some money on me!
Its all about what makes you happy, try not to stress about it too much!
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by pinkbabe 18th March 2010, 9:23 pm
I felt bad spending so much money on my ba but you have to look at the long term. If you want a ba now the likely hood is you will still want one next year or 5 years time. However if you are having serious doubts then it maybe best to wait 6months and see how you feel then. I'm not sure where you would stand with you diposite though. x
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by Noodles83 18th March 2010, 9:24 pm
Kirst and Macca I know exactly what you mean, and had the same doubts myself when I paid for my BA, after a messy break up I thought I'd need all my savings for a deposit on a new house, but circumstances changed and I'm now not moving, so had the savings to keep...I've always wanted a BA as I had the flattest chest! and I thought if I don spend the money on me now, it would be frittered away on 'stuff' and I'd always regret it. I'm now 6 weeks post BA and its the best choice I could have made....go for it lovely ladies and dont look back xxx
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by kirsti 18th March 2010, 9:45 pm
hi ladies, thanks for your support. Ive always hated my tubular assymetrical breasts since i was 17, i have always wanted this done think im just havin last minute nerves, my fiance is really supportive and im lucky to have all of your support on here 2. im just a born worrier, cant help it lol xxx
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by claire265 18th March 2010, 9:58 pm
I think we've all been there! When I booked my ba I'd just given up work so not earning and I have 3 kids! The money could have been spent on so many other things but it really was money well spent - I am sooo much happier now I'm not constantly stressing ove hoe horrible I always looked!
Good luck,
Claire x
Good luck,
Claire x
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by misf1 18th March 2010, 10:00 pm
Hi hun, I think when it comes to paying the balance, you know it's really happening and nerves and loads of feelings start to kick in. You should never feel selfish for what you are doing hun, this is a little bit of happiness for you, you've as you said lived with unhappiness with your breasts since you were 17. Money isn't everything. But enjoying and makeing the best you can out of life is. You only live once.
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by COOKIE 18th March 2010, 11:49 pm
I think quite a few of us feel this way Kirsti, I know I went through all kinds of feelings of guilt and selfishness, but sometimes you just got to put yourself first, it's difficult allowing yourself to do that, but once you've had your BA, you won't look back babe - What you're buying is more than a pair of boobs, it's peace of mind, it's confidence and it's a much happier you!
You enjoy the new you sweetheart!
You enjoy the new you sweetheart!
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by natalia 19th March 2010, 8:07 am
its normal to have doubts but dont feel quilty your be so happy once u get them and so more confident
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by chez33 19th March 2010, 9:26 am
Hi Hun
I felt the same, the money was 'all' my husbands bonus and there were literally hundreds of other things we could use the money for....and we're in debt too.
But sometimes we have to do something for ourselves, we deserve it, we need it and no-one else will really understand but us, we need our
I felt the same, the money was 'all' my husbands bonus and there were literally hundreds of other things we could use the money for....and we're in debt too.
But sometimes we have to do something for ourselves, we deserve it, we need it and no-one else will really understand but us, we need our
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by kirsti 19th March 2010, 6:17 pm
hey ladies, again thanks for all your support. Your all right, i need to do this for me, i know we only live once and il be soooooo much happier! 
Well i did it, balance paid!! No going back now!! Bring on the new boobies. yipee!!!
Well i did it, balance paid!! No going back now!! Bring on the new boobies. yipee!!!
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by fluffy_bunn1e 19th March 2010, 8:05 pm
congrats hun, you d only think what if if you didnt go through with it, you deserve nice boobies, think all women should have a decent set then we wouldnt feel so inadequate etc.
you can save again for other things for you and OH after your ops paid off, think about the now and not too much the future xx
you can save again for other things for you and OH after your ops paid off, think about the now and not too much the future xx
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by LJK 19th March 2010, 10:27 pm
Hi Kirsti, hope you are ok and congrats for paying the balance. I too took the option of paying the deposit then paying for the rest of it over 12 months interest free. I must say the year is nearly coming to an end for me and it really hasn't felt that long. The money is a big issue, BUT the benefits and improvements to my life since are far greater than any price. It sounds like your fiance is ok with you doing this, so try not to worry about it too much. x
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Re: Pay full balance tomorrow, having serious doubts!
by kirsti 20th March 2010, 9:17 pm
thanks again ladies, not long now xxx
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