Hi All

I have just stumbled across this amazing site along with all you amazing ladies!!
I have finally took the plunge and got a date for my surgery (April 3rd) and seen as tho my boyfriend is totally against me getting my boobs done I have so far felt like I have been going it alone, until i spent the last 2 hours reading all the posts on here.
The support and advice you all have given to other girls has made me feel so much better about my decision. (with or without my bf. haha). Every worry I have has been discussed on here and i now know how im feeling is totally normal and everyone who has surgey coming up is feeling exactly the same as me, so once again Thank You!!xxxxxxxx

Oh and here`s to having boobs!!!!!!!!!

Welcome to the site hun! Sorry your bf is against it, have you discussed it and found out why he is having those feelings? What size are you having and with whom?
Im glad the site has helped you already

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Hiya hun, glad its helped you. Congrats on booking! Maybe start a boyfriends and boobs post to see how the other girls got on. Enjoy chick xx

Hello and welcome! I hope you can sort things out with your boyfriend... and enjoy your boobie journey.

Angel x

Hi hun, glad the forum is helping.... shame about your boyfriend - some men are against their partners having their boobs done because they are scared of being jealous afterwards or afraid she will leave them... have you tried finding out his reasons and reassuring him?

Welcome to bjs hun, really is a shame when your boyfriend isnt supporting the idea, i bet he loves them when there done though!! ;) xx

Hiya hun, just wanted to say welcome and sorry to hear about your boyfriend. I think things like this can scare men sometimes, like the other ladies said, have you sat him down and asked excatly why he is against it? Maybe tell him again how much you want it and that it will make you happy xx

Hiya Hun!
I had the same issue with my bf, It has taken him until now to accept it....we have been together for 7 yrs.

I am just guessing now, but is he by any chance saying something like : But I like your boobs, I don't want them to change! Or : Imagine what we could do with that money instead, it seems a waste cause you're beautiful the way you are.

This is some of the things my bf said, and it is sweet in away, but it doesn't help if you feel strongly that you need/want bigger boobs!

He finally came around and decided that if it is that important to me than he will support it. He is really trying to be optimistic, but i can see in his eyes sometimes that he is still a bit sad about it.

My hope is that once he has a girlfriend with proper billabongs he will see the point(s) with a boobjob!

Try and have faith in it and let him know that you will be happier and more confident after it is done and if he has any brains he will realise that you will probably be more up for being naked in front of him!!!

Hope he comes around and big CONGRATZ on booking!!
What size/shape/surgeon are you going with?

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hi hunni
congrats on booking your ba, a shame about your bf but like you said we are here if you need us.
if there is anything you wish to know dont be afraid to ask hun!!!
welcome to the site !!!!!!!!!
hugs
amanda
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Ohhhhhh thank you sooooo much for your lovely comments, yeh my bloke just keep saying your perfect as you are and why ruin a good pair of boobs, bla bla bla, i just wish he would support me no matter what, after all thats what partners are for, but hey ho, im doing it for me and no one else!! Im kinda hoping he`ll come round eventually! I think he is quite insecure and thinks im gonna have this new found confidence and go out wearing just boobie tassles or something, (how did he know, hahahah) Joke.
Thanks again and i will keep you all updated. Nads I am not sure exactly what size implant I am having as at my consultation nothin really sank in so I have arranged another one on tuesday to confirm what size I am having and also which shape, which is worrying me cos he said to go with teardrop shape but ive heard all these awful stories about them moving around and ending up with lumpy breasts etc. Im having to have them under the muscle as i dont have that much up top, (not looking forward to that, ha) I am going with a guy called Peter Hodgkinson from vive cosmetic surgery which I also found out that he works for the nuffield in newcastle and the royal victoria on the nhs, so im hoping he`ll be ok, i had soooo many consultations and i ended up more and more confused so i decided to go with the surgeon I felt i was most comfy with and he was lovely! Hope its not the wrong choice!! Ohhhhh im sooooo excited!!!xxxxxx
Nads...not sure if this is it, just reading my letter from him and it says he will be using allergan MF255 soft touch implants, that means absolutely nothing to me!!! Is 255 the cc????? My god im confused good job im seeing him again on tue, xxx

em_stevo wrote:Nads...not sure if this is it, just reading my letter from him and it says he will be using allergan MF255 soft touch implants, that means absolutely nothing to me!!! Is 255 the cc????? My god im confused good job im seeing him again on tue, xxx

Yeah sounds like 255cc hun, ask him for more details on tues and note it down as i used to forget everything once i walked out of my consult as theres alot to take in. Carrie had 255s xxx

Yeah im defo gonna get all the info on tue as i wont be seeing him again till the day! I`ll be a nervous wreck by then , ha,x

Hiya and welcome!

Sounds like you're having exactly the same implants as I had...255cc moderate height, full projection, anatomicals. I had partial unders. All the measurments sound right.

Glad you like it forum, it's fab isn't it!! Couldn't live without it!

Let me know if you'd like to see my before and after pics. What are your stats hun?

C x

Just wanted to say Hi and welcome you to the best site on the internet for help. advice & support (and fun) regarding your BA journey, (I live here.)

I'm sure your BF will relax once you've had them done, men have this vision of Jordan the minute we mention "Boob Job" and allsorts of panic rushes around their brains, will she leave me for someone else, will men chase her down the street to have a feel of her boobies etc etc but the fact is it will be nothing like that, you will have gained more confidence and your relationship together will blossom and he will love them too.

Good luck hun xx

Thanks again ladies, carrie...i would totally love to see your pics but i have no idea of how i go about looking at them??? (sooooo new to all this technical stuff), hahah. I am currently a 32A, 5ft4 and about 7 1/2 stone so would be brill to have a look at your pics as i think i must be getting exactly the same as yours and am having them partially under. Are you happy with your results etc??? The ps said he thinks I would go to about a 32D which i would be soooooo over the moon with!,xxxxxxxxx

Most pics are on picturetrail.com hun put in the username in the box at the top right hand side and enter the password they give you x

Ahhhhhh...thanks nads, i am soooo thick its not funny! haha. Just takes a bit of finding my feet on here, gimme a few more weeks n i`ll be a computer genius!!! haha, xxxx

Dont worry hun, all the girls here are so friendly and helpful and we all started out forum novices! :lol:
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Hey,

A welcome from me, too.

Maria
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