i am in doubt

Hi girls!
just thought i would ask your opinion on this...
i have started researching boob jobs in may last year as i am unhappy with what i got, (arent we all? lol)
this is something that i really want but now when i am actually able to do it, money wise and talked my hubby into it, i have these nagging doubts..
one day i feel like its the best thing ever the next i feel like i'm doing the wrong thing..
i really want them done but i also think what happens if it goes wrong, if i dont like the results? also i am terrified of telling my mum, she prob wont speak to me again after this..
also am very very scared that my body will reject the implants and that i would have wasted all that money..
and now i had to scrap my car, so now i think should i get my boobs done as i wanted it for so long or get a new car.
at the moment i'm totally in two minds, one minute i decide one thing the next the other... i think i have some serious problems... lol
i have an appointment with the surgeon this saturday and am thinking that i will prob decide then what i want to do..
its just i am so scared of all the side effects and all the possible complications that could happen after i get them done i think this is what is making me feel like poo..
i have a friend who had hers done about 3 months ago and she says she would not change them for the world and i think 'i want that too' but then i think of all the bad things happening..
am so confused right now...
sorry to ramble on but i just thought ive got to tell someone as it will otherwise drive me crazy... already losing sleep other this..
hubby not being very understanding.. just says do what you feel is right, but i dont know what is right..
did any of you girls had doublts about going through with it?
maybe i should postpone the op until i'm ablosutely sure what i want to do?

any comments are much appreciated girls!!
Olga x

Absolutely had doubts!! Even on the day of the op I decided I didn't think I could go through with it, I was so scared. Now..... I am sooo glad I did, one of my better decisions, but then that's because it was solely my decision, it was right for me, and I had chosen a surgeon I was 100% happy with. I had previously booked with another surgeon, but cancelled because it didn't feel right. So glad I took extra time to research more and find the surgeon that was right for me. Also the girls on here helped and supported me so much their advice was invaluable.

My advice..... if you're not sure, wait until you are clear in your head it is what you want to do. Research abit more and read up on the forum. Go for consultations to find out what the different surgeons suggest, but remember don't let anyone pressure you to book until you feel ready.

Good luck with your boobie journey!! xxx

I had all the same doubts, thought I would make a decision after seeing pc, but still had doubts, made appt with surgeon but still had doubts, so decided I wouldn't go ahead with it. I was sooooo down and grumpy that my OH told me to get it done (he was sick of my moaning) because it was so obvious that it was what I wanted and I knew I couldn't keep going on like that. I am so glad I done it, and am nearly 8 weeks post op. Make sure you are fully informed and take as long need to decide, boob jobs have been about for years and not going anywhere soon

xx

Hi hun, I had the same doubts, I even had the same choice new car or boobs. After being so unhappy with what I had for over 10 years, I knew I wanted them, it's a big step and you need to be sure. I worried about complications etc but when it came down to it I just decided if I don't at least try and get them I will never know how much happier they could have made me, life is too short for if's and buts so decided what the hell. I knew the risks, they scared me to death. But I am so happy I did it.
Go to the consultations and see how you feel, if your still not sure wait a bit longer. There's no rush.

hi, i m so glad i m not the only one. i have been on off deciding intensly for three years now after my third child. i ve always wanted it all my life anyway. i went to see an amazing surgeon who totally put my mind at ease. i still too have doubts even now . i have booked a date for feb, and going for 2 nd consultation next week. i am deciding what size implants to have and am so afraid of people noticing !! thats how small i am. i have exactly the same thoughts as you , but i have decided after some counselling aswell, that enough is enough for my family sake i think i have to do it to stop me being so unhappy all the time. i am so scared i really hope i go through with it, i probably won,t decide till on the day !! lol, my husband will kill me .i think its a risk i have to take, my surgeon has put my mind at ease but every day i still question am i doing the right thing. so i would say you are giving this some very serious thought and if you are concentrating on it so much like i am then it is obviously a very big deal to you and perhaps you may need to do something about it or just try and love yourself for who you are but unfortunately for me i just can ,t. hope you make the right decision. x

Aww hun having doubts is very normal. It's such a big thing to go through and something that shouldn't be taken lightly.

I had major doubts and got really worked up about it to the point I wasn't going to go through with it, but I took a time out and tried not to think about it then after a while it all clicked and I realised that I was 100% wanting the operation no matter what.

It was such a nice feeling going into it and having no second thoughts. You will get to that point eventually i'm sure x

The doubts that your having are very normal hun. I kept thinking was I being daft and wasting my money but I knew deep down I would never be happy with what I had before and a ba was what I wanted from about the age of 16/17.

I think you would be best waiting for the time being though if your not 100%, still go along and see the surgeon and then maybe sleep on it for a while and if you still feel the same in a month or 2 then come back to it.

Good luck whatever you decide! xx

Hey, I have booked mine it's in 9 days! i'm still worrying about what if something goes wrong etc but after years of wanting it and a few friends having them done everyone I know with them says it's the best thing they ever did. I think if you really want it in the end you'll go for it but like the others said just read up on it and know the risks we can only hope hey xx

Having doubts means that you are thinking long and hard about it! As for problems, life is riddled with them. It isn't very often that you hear of implant rejection but weather it be by infection or something else it does sometimes happen, its all about weighing up the possibilities and risks. The way that I look at is like this, If you have chosen a surgoen that you are happy with, and a hospital that you are happy with, if you go for a good implant and the surgoens rep is good, then you can go into it thinking that you have covered all bases and if anything goes wrong then it is just plain bad luck. Go with your gut feeling, instinct is a wonderful thing. only you know in your hear of hearts if you are ready or not. Hope all becomes clear soon xx

Yeah even after my consultation it was 7months before I booked coz I was still making sure it's what I really wanted it's true about instinct xx

Thanks so so much girls for all your replies!!
i will defo go and see the surgeon on saturday and see what he says to me about the risks etc.
then i will think very hard and try and make a decision...
all of you are right, i think i should hold off the op for the time being and go to a few more consultations...
Thanks very much girls! its great to hear that i'm not the only one having these doubts!
xxx