the run up to BA

by Ruth89 13th August 2009, 10:55 am

Im starting to actually despise looking in the mirror at my boobs.

Although i wasn't fond of my boobs i wouldnt go as far as 'hating' them, i leanr to put up with them. but now i know whats in sight its getting me down just to look at them. I can feel it affecting what i choose to wear and how i am around my boyfriend. He was pushing me to go on top the other day and felt like breaking into tears because i ddint feel comfortable with him seeing my little flat saggy chest :( lol

I think now that ive addressed the problem and hes agreed that he thinks i need it doing has been playing on my mind

I know im only 3 weeks away, but this is a place to moan right? haha Screwy

and im sure im not the only emotional wreck out there!

come on, do your job ladies and cheer me up Hysterical

xxx

by natalia 13th August 2009, 11:55 am

i use to feel like that to hun it was awful its so nice to fill my tops out now and bikinis u have all that to come your having same size as me and im not 32ff and busty i was so excited at around weeks post op i bet u will be to like i say its normal to feel down about your boobs thats why your having it done not long to go now hope u do cheer up
xxx

by Jemmy 13th August 2009, 12:06 pm

I know this doesn't help you but I'm having the total opposite feelings to you. As I'm looking at them more now due to putting cream on everyday I'm learning to like what I was given.

I know I'm only thinking this because this time next week I'll have new boobs.

Hope you feel better soon, before you know it you'll have the boobs you've always wanted x

by gotsomeboobs 13th August 2009, 1:30 pm

Aww hun big hugs Hug

, I felt exactly the same, but you only have 3 weeks left of having to look at them huni, then you will have your new fantastical Flash

, you have acknowledged the issue and dealt with it and this is why you have chosen to have your BA.

As for your boyf, maybe explain to him your reasons, Im sure he will understand and wont want you doing anything that makes you feel unhappy about yourself.

Keep positive huni, your not that far away trust me, your last month whizzes by!! Before you know it youll have beautiful boobies and you will be fighting your boyf to go on top lol Hysterical

Chin up chick, your not that far away from your turn

xxxxx

by Ruth89 13th August 2009, 2:17 pm

yer jemmy a few weeks ago i didnt even care how i looked now because i was thinking of whats coming! i hope i get back into that way of thinking :)

thanks gotsomeboobs! i know you're right im just being very 'feminine' and emotional lol Hug

and i hope i'll be fighting him to go on top haha

by pinkbabe 13th August 2009, 4:27 pm

I felt the same before my ba it could not come quick enough for my liking. In 3weeks you will have boobies that you are proud of and then you can go back and by a nice top to show them off!! xx

by ***Sally*** 13th August 2009, 5:27 pm

Aww sweetie sorry to hear you're feeling like that. I think its totally natural to feel like this (especially if you're at a hormonal time of the month or just feeling a bit down). I didn't really have time as i only had about a week between my second consultation and surgery date. I honestly do think that if I'd waited longer tho I'd have gone through exactly the same thing.

by Annie66 13th August 2009, 6:46 pm

The next few weeks are going to go so quickly you won't believe it. And then you can enjoy your new Flash

anyway you like!

by mizzpink23 13th August 2009, 7:12 pm

aww hun, i used to feel like that (when i was with my boyf) , hid under the duvet,lights out and all that. ure not alone on this one, but just think, soon your gunna have nice boobs and it will boost ure confidence loads in lots of ways, i cant wait to say goodbye to mine flat non existant boobs!!! lol xx

by Ruth89 13th August 2009, 7:19 pm

I know you're all right girls i just needed someone to tell me lol, dont feel like i have anyone to talk to at the moment, 19 days!

thanks Hug

xx

by mizzpink23 13th August 2009, 7:28 pm

bless ya hun , i know how ya feel, woohoo, 19 days!!!! are you all sorted for hospital? u daycase or overnight? x

by samarie24 13th August 2009, 8:20 pm

Aw, really not long left hun! The other girls have been fab as usual, but just wanted to add that I totally understand where you're coming from Hug

. Being so unhappy with your boobs (or in my case lack of them!) can really affect relationships. It sounds like you've got your bf onside now so good for you, go and get those Flash

you deserve! xx

by MarieMc85 14th August 2009, 12:23 pm

Hi,

Before I started looking into having my boobs done, they didn't bother me too much, I just wanted them bigger.

Then I went to consultations and got told that one was slightly bigger than the other etc and they took pics and I realised how horrible they were - tiny!

So after my consults, I couldn't wait to have my op.

It's not long now, just think soon you will have amazing boobs and you'll want to show them off to all and sundry!

xxx

by kerrymac1 14th August 2009, 6:23 pm

Chin up chick not too long to go. Unlike me with 2 months ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! Hug

by Cornishlass 14th August 2009, 8:36 pm

Agree wih everyone else, and it seems that it is quite normal to be very up and down emotionally in the last few weeks, I was terrible.
Then I had the slightest twinge of 'what am I doing?' yesterday morning before I set off. Now I am as high as a kite!! (see my story in the 'stories' section.)

You will be okay, try not to let emotions get you down, not long to go now and we will all be hearing your story and how chuffed you are!

Good luck xx

Karen

by LJK 14th August 2009, 8:47 pm

Hi, i know exactly what you mean by feeling you have empty saggy boobs, thats just how i use to feel. I now feel so much more confident and i actually like to strip off infront of my OH, as i know that my body excites him now (use to always feel like i needed to apologise).

by **nads** 16th August 2009, 9:28 am

Ah hun

not long to go now, hang in there x

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