They think I'm mad

by Jemmy 11th August 2009, 7:56 am

My mum asked me this morning when I was going into hospital (prob the most she's asked about the whole thing) and said that she thinks I'm mad

Also a colleague keeps telling other colleagues that I'm mad for having it done even though only a few weeks before I mentioned about having it done she would joke about and say "If I had the money, I'd have a boob job"

it's not the kinda support I'm after at the moment as I'm getting more nervous by the day and I'm finding it real hard to sleep. I don't think I'm mad ..., but then does a mad person ever do?

by natalia 11th August 2009, 8:21 am

i dont understand why are people so negative my mum was very supportive and my friends but my fellas mum wasnt she thought i was mad i think she thought i was going end up with huge knockers like jordan use to have even though i reasured her i wasnt take no notice of any negativity as long as your happy thats all that counts
xx

by Cornishlass 11th August 2009, 8:38 am

Your Mum probably thinks your lovely as you are and your colleague sounds as if she's got a touch of the green eyed monster!
Don't worry about anyone else's take on it, your doing it for you!
In a few months time you will feel and look as if you've had them babies forever, and knocking 'em dead whenever your out!

Good luck for next week, I'm trying to keep busy at work (yeh really, I'm there now) or I'D be going mad with a mixture of excitement and nervousness!
Shocked

by Jemmy 11th August 2009, 9:00 am

I do think it's jealousy as she's always said she'd love one. Oh well

by lozzied 11th August 2009, 9:52 am

.X. Totally agree she is just jealous since she's said she's like one herself and now you're having one when she isn't. try not to let it bother you^. also your mum is probably just avoiding asking you much about it because maybe she feels you're perfect the way you are, my mum has been very supportive but at the same time she thought I was crazy for wanting to change myself because I'm still her 'little girl' your mum is probably the same and maybe is just worried about you going through a major op that she thinks you don't need so she's avoiding talking to you about it because maybe she is scared. I'm sure after you have had it done and she can stop worrying about the op itself then she will avoid the situation less and maybe talk to you more about it xxxxxxxxxx .x.

by **kay** 11th August 2009, 10:07 am

Agree with all the above x they are just jealous at work hun x concentrate on preparing for your op and how great your boobs are gonna look, whoop whoop!! x

Mum's worry that's all, and you are still her baby xx I'm sure that once you have had the op and you are out the other side your Mum is going to relax and feel better about it all x I think your mum is probably just feeling a bit uncertain about it x Us Mum's would do anything to swop places with our kids you know when they are worried, stressed, upset, frightened, etc etc etc Hug

I bet those are the sorts of feelings your Mum is having right now and probably finding it difficult to put them to one side in order to support you xx which I'm sure that she does, she's just worried sweety that's all x
Hug

by ***Sally*** 11th August 2009, 10:10 am

Yep deffo a case of the green eyed monster. As for your mum she's probably just worried about you. My mum found it really hard to get her head around as it just wouldn't be something her or her friends would have considered doing when she was younger or now. We're all here to support you babes every step of the way xxxxx

by Jemmy 11th August 2009, 10:51 am

As far as my colleague is concerned, it's not like I'm going to be getting them out. I work in a DIY shop which in the winter is freezing cold, so we are walking around with about 3 layers on, scarf, gloves. No one is going to notice them. I just think she thinks I will get more attention than she does

by gotsomeboobs 11th August 2009, 3:34 pm

Awww Jem

, your not mad at all!! I hate negative people like your colleague, its just jealousy hun that your gunna have a beautiful far nicer pair of boobies than her!!!!

As for your mum, shes probably just worried and as nervous as you are about the whole thing hun.

Remember your doing this for you to make YOU happy!!!

Wow 9 days goshhhhhh not long Jem, new boobies here you come!!!
So excited for you xxxxx

by Jemmy 11th August 2009, 4:01 pm

Ha ha GSB that's what HER other half told me lol

9 days!!!!! It's actually starting to sink in now that I'm doing it

by Jessica 11th August 2009, 4:09 pm

I agree with the other girls Jem, my mum pretty much said I was crazy but I think she was only doing it because she was worried about me and couldn't understand why I was doing it. And it's quite clear if your colleague had already made comments about getting hers done she must be jealous. Try to ignore the negativity hun, and just concentrate on how great it's gonna be when you have your new boobies!xx

by Annie66 11th August 2009, 4:51 pm

Don't worry about your work mates - they'll forget all about soon enough and find something/someone else to go on about!

And as for mum, like the others say, she's just worried about you ...

You've chosen a good surgeon and have done a lot of research, try just to focus on yourself for the next couple of weeks. :)

by shelleymm 11th August 2009, 6:37 pm

kazzybazzy wrote:Your Mum probably thinks your lovely as you are and your colleague sounds as if she's got a touch of the green eyed monster!
Don't worry about anyone else's take on it, your doing it for you!
In a few months time you will feel and look as if you've had them babies forever, and knocking 'em dead whenever your out!

Good luck for next week, I'm trying to keep busy at work (yeh really, I'm there now) or I'D be going mad with a mixture of excitement and nervousness!

I totally agree with kazzybazzy, dont worry about other people's opinions what you think is all that counts, and as for your mum, she is just worried about you and wants you to know she loves you as you are and that you dont have to do this, she's just giving you a way to change your mind, remember why you started on this path hun and all the reasons why you wanted this in the first place and you will be fine xx Hug

by cakey_baby 11th August 2009, 10:46 pm

I agree with the others Jem, and like annie said they will find something else to talk about within a few weeks i was talk of the offce for about 2 days then the fuss was all over with! lol.

x x x

by Mia 11th August 2009, 10:49 pm

You know you are not mad!! Mum just loves and cares for you Hug

And as Annie said...you will be old news very soon!!

Keep positive Jemmy Hug

xxx

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