Sex after BA???

Hey girls I no this might seem like a weird question but I was wondering how soon after your BA did u feel ok to have sex? Me and my boyfriend are staying at the shard 4weeks after my BA but I'm just worried about having sex 

You will be absolutely fine at 4 weeks :) Staying at the Shard, amazing! I work just across from it! It's an incredible treat when you go to the top :)

Advice seems to differ from surgeon to surgeon, some say 2 weeks some say 6. There are girls on here that waited 24 hours, and some that did nothing for 8 weeks! As you can see, there isnt really a right or wrong answer.

The best advice I can give is just listen to your body. The first week I doubt you will feel up to it in all honesty. You feel kinda delirious happy/what's all the fuss about for about 24 hours after then the discomfort kicks in around day 2-3 onwards.

I think I waited two weeks, and then we just took it easy if you know what I mean! Nothing too vigorous. Maybe stick to being on top so you can be fully in control, plus minimise the chance of squishing you lol! At 4 weeks you will be fine though babe. You might still be a bit funny about him touching your boobs, but everything else will be fine! x

Whenever you feel like it! The only rules are take it slow, and keep your bra on. Some are at it the next day, for me I felt so gross I didn't want anyone touching me. It's entirely up to you. But you have to stay supported. They're still gonna be sore and solid too, so you might not want him touching them. A good trick here is to take his hand and show him what's ok, where he can touch, and how firm. So Yeh, have at it, but no crazy monkey sex!!

Oh that's a good idea charlii showing him how he can touch them to make it comfortable for me. I'll just keep a sports bra on and tell him to take it easy, I think after 4weeks he will want to go as fast as a rabbit lol. So may be best if I'm on top x

Yes I had to tell hubby to not grab my boobs. They don't think sometimes. I just didn't feel up to it for the first 6 weeks but everyone is different. I wonder if they had surgery on there Williys would they let us man handle it? I doubt it hehe xxxx

Yea my fella don't think with his brain half the time lol. Exactly I don't think they would like us man handle them haha @anne

I was a day case and as soon as I got home the afternoon of my surgery my hubby said "I'm sure you'll be ok if we take it easy!" Haha! Think it was day 4/5 for us as I had a really good recovery and had little pain or discomfort but I didnt let him touch them as they felt so alien. 
Just take it easy and listen to your body xx