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by Julie2408 3rd August 2015, 6:21 pm

Of people saying they cant tell I've had my boobs done, pre BA my bras were very padded so looked bigger..now they are squashed by my macom bra that obvs isn't padded! Its making me paranoid now and I have visions of me still wearing super padded bras in a few weeks lol please tell me that they will look bigger in normal bras than they do the macom! Also my right is lower and bigger than my left..not sure if its always been like this or if its dropped a bit, it looks odd, i know its normal so early on but at the back of my mind i worry they might stay like it! I think im just over tired and emotional and maybe letting things bother me! :/ sorry to rant xx

by Twinky 3rd August 2015, 7:11 pm

Hey hun, all normal feelings, wait till you can dress them up with a nice bra, and nice clothes, THAT'S when you will see your result and be like *swoon*I love my boobies!

I still don't wear bra's, as I just haven't had chance to go bra shopping, but I have 2 34DD bra's so when I do put them on with clothes, I love my boobs!

I too have forever worn mega padded bra's all my life so to me and probably most other people, they just look the same. But in the buff, they stay there, I'm not taking off a major padded bra and left feeling like a boy!

Wait till you can do away with the macom, or sports bra. You really will feel much better hun xx

by **Charlii** 3rd August 2015, 7:12 pm

I can assure you, it's all going to change!! People are ignorant, and you've already said it - super padding, and now they're all squished in the post op bra. Once you're in a regular bra it makes ALL the difference! I plus you have so many changes to go through yet, they're still so high and tight. Once they start dropping and fluffing, they'll fill out more. And yes, it's so normal for them to go at different rates, mine leapfrogged for 3months before settling and evening up.

by Kay1510 3rd August 2015, 9:27 pm

I'm right with you on that one Julie please don't worry! People that didnt know i was having it done haven't noticed and the people that knew I was having it done say they look no different. But difference is.. if I'd worn no bra 3 weeks ago I'd look like a boy... if I wore no bra today.. I have boobs lol. And the macom does really squish you in.. and they're still so new. Just think about when you can wear nice bras in a few weeks. :)

Here if you need to chat :) xx

by 9NDFp 3rd August 2015, 9:52 pm

And same here too Julie! As the girls have said, please don't worry. I don't look any different in clothes either cos my post-op bra holds it all in tight and squished. I'm sure once we get normal bras on we'll look so different :-). Also my rightie looks fuller and lower than my leftie which is higher and rounder, and I'm sure its cos they need to catch up with each other. You are not alone, we'll be fine in a few weeks from now! xxx

by going4it 3rd August 2015, 10:32 pm

Before my BA everyone kept saying "ooh you'll need to buy all new clothes" not realising how padded my bras were that I wore everyday.
I didn't keep mine a secret at all, literally everyone at work and all my friends know but I don't think any would say I look like I've got massive fake boobs. Which really is wanted I wanted when I'm clothed, I just wanted to have the same size boobs when I was naked.
Don't worry at all, like the girls have said, once you're out of the unflattering post op bras you'll be rocking those bad boys!! Xx

by Julie2408 3rd August 2015, 10:37 pm

Thank you all for your kind replies i really appreciate it..i feel like I've been given a big hug by you all, i think i needed to hear some positive 'don't worry' comments instead of the negativity ive had from some people! I didn't keep it a secret either lol i told everyone but I think some heard the word boob job and pictured Jordan boobs! Lol. Its always nice to know I'm not alone too and everything is 'normal' so to speak xx

by going4it 3rd August 2015, 10:50 pm

You can dress them up or down as you see fit. I've been measured as a 32ff. If I thought I would be that size before my BA I would have freaked out and chosen a much smaller implant but they are exactly what I wanted and would have been really upset with anything different. But I know if I asked any of my friends what size they thought I was they would never say a ff. The media plays such an important place in how boobs are perceived. I have no doubt that you will be thrilled with the size once you've healed and you can keep them covered or flaunt them cos they'll be amazing xx

by anneritchley 4th August 2015, 9:38 am

Hi, I'm Now a FF and not everyone has noticed. Under my clothes you can't always tell. If I wear a bra that pushes them up and a tight top then it's different. Xxx

by emilysarahdodds 4th August 2015, 9:50 am

You have so many changes to through yet and a Macom certainly does nothing for boobs, like you say squishing them down. Wait till you can wear bras and you will feel sooooo much better I am sure! Big hugs.

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