no cleavage whatsoever :(

Hi, girls!!

I know I'm constantly telling people to be patient after their op and to wait for their final results to come but i'm finding it hard to follow this advice myself unfortunately :( I have no cleavage whatsoever from the front view. I can honestly say there is no outline of my boobs so they basically look flat from the front.. Also the gap between each boob is quite big so there'd be absolutely no chance of me getting a cleavage even in a wonderbra! I'm actually pretty upset about this because before my op i dreamed of having a cleavage but i still haven't got one and i actually still feel conscious of my boobs because i still feel flat. I don't know why all these emotions are still running through my head but they are and i'm not happy :( don't get me wrong, i do have boobs but they're not full around the sternum area like the rest of the girls' boobs are.. My sternum is completely flat and bony and then i have two boobs which are miles apart from each other.

I guess what i'm asking is do i still need to drop and fluff or will they always just be like this? They're not how i imagined them to be and i feel like i'm seeing the final result now that i'm nearly 3 months post-op :/

Thanks, girls xxxxxx

Hey huni very sorry to hear you're feeling down. BUT you are still very early!! i had to wait 8months for mine to be able to be pushed together to get a nice cleavage. It felt like forever lol but it WILL happen hun. Sucks having to wait doesnt it? :/ honestly it should happen in time. Sending you hugs x

Big big hugs Toni, I don't really know the answer as I am still so early post op.  I am sure it will happen sweetie, we all change at different rates and you still have time to drop and fluff.  Like TSmith said she had to wait 8 months for hers to happen. It is horrible to have to wait for things to happen but it will. 

Big hugs and kisses. Xxx

your still really early post op and when they soften up even more and settle etc you will get a better cleavage

to be totally honest not all of us get the cleavage, I myself being one of them but it will get better when I get mine sorted

what was your cleavage like before or were you like me and had no boobs so dont know xx

Ahh thank you, Tsmith, that has reassured me that you had to wait 8 months! I know I have to be patient but sometimes I just feel like I'm barely seeing any changes and they're just going to stay like this forever haha :( Thank you so much for telling me that though, babe!! You're very kind! Xxxx

Thank you very much, Lucia! I know you're all probably right but when i see people's avis on here I look at their boobs from the front and they have perfectly outlined boobs with great shapes and mine just don't look like that haha :( Thank you very much, honey. You're very sweet for reassuring me! Xxxxx

Thank you, Tink!! I had no cleavage before because i was completely flat haha. I really hope they soften up soon.. You're the princess of patience so i guess i need to just take a leaf out of your book and accept that i need to wait haha. Thank you, Tink, I hope you're okay xx

lol oh trust me ive had to learn to have patience as you very well know

im at the point where I just dont look at my boobs anymore and will wait til April when Im bext seeing my surgeon xx

Its all been said before, and it is so difficult to take your own advice! But you're absolutely right - patience is the key. No boobs will hang unaided with a full on cleavage, so don't worry about the gap. You just need to give them time to soften up properly. Then you can find the right maxi super boost bra that will have them looking like a bum under your chin!! Just don't try and force them before they're ready, because it will be uncomfortable.

Sorry to hear your unhappy.
Your always so knowledgeable and comforting but as Im early on and have no clue. All I can say is listen to tink and charlli advice and you'll get their soon xxx

Aww, bless you, Tink!! I really admire you for always being so cheeeful and optimistic about life though! You're always so helpful towards us all so i just want to say a massive thank you. Fingers crossed for April! Xxxxx

Thank you very, very much, Charlii. You've said everything I want to hear haha. I just hope I start to see some changes soon because i'm losing hope now haha :( Thank you, honey, you've really helped me! Xxxx

Thank you so much, Sahara! That's really sweet of you.. Yes, I think i was just full of emotions and worries lastnight and it all got a bit too much for me. Thank you!! I hope you're okay? Xxxx

Big hugs hun.Lots of good advice above. It's still early days for all of us and they will soften up and you can soon manoeuvre them around a lot more. You also had unders so muscle can take long time to heal. For my patients with even minor muscle tears- it takes months before they are feeling back to normal. The muscle will feel hard and stiff for some time.
Remember you have had major incision done to the muscle so it is still settling and holding the implant firmly in place xxxx

Toni I can't really add to what everyone else has said but I can say your boobies look amazing from where I'm standing :) xx

yeah Tiger you just learn to live with what you have for now and fingers crossed I get the boobs I wanted xx

kdeee wrote:Big hugs hun.Lots of good advice above. It's still early days for all of us and they will soften up and you can soon manoeuvre them around a lot more. You also had unders so muscle can take long time to heal. For my patients with even minor muscle tears- it takes months before they are feeling back to normal. The muscle will feel hard and stiff for some time.
Remember you have had major incision done to the muscle so it is still settling and holding the implant firmly in place xxxx

Thank you, kdee, that's very sweet of you!! From what you've said about the muscle tears it's kind of clicked that you're completely right. My muscle has been torn and distorted so maybe it's just taking a long time to heal and adjust to the implants. So is it my muscle that's making my boobs feel stiff? I'm confused haha :(
Your advice has been amazing, kdee, thank you very, very much!! So helpful :)
I hope you're okay and I hope work isn't being too demanding regarding your chest muscles xxxx

Dayzeee wrote:Toni I can't really add to what everyone else has said but I can say your boobies look amazing from where I'm standing :) xx

Aw thank you so much, Dayzee! That's very kind of you but I have to say that the side view can be very deceiving haha. I have no cleavage if you look at my boobs from the front.. But thank you!!xxxx

tinkerbell24 wrote:yeah Tiger you just learn to live with what you have for now and fingers crossed I get the boobs I wanted xx

You will do, Tink, I'm sure of it!! Being patient will pay off for you xxxx

My surgeon told me if I didn't have a natural cleavage to start , I still wouldn't post op without help from a push up bra .

Yip spot on sooshie

Nice to see u.about xx

I've not been on as much Tink as occasionally I forget I had a BA , they just feel like they've always been there xx

Soosie73 wrote:My surgeon told me if I didn't have a natural cleavage to start , I still wouldn't post op without help from a push up bra .

Thank you, Soosie!! I still don't get a cleavage even with push up bras on though haha.. I guess I just have to learn the meaning of patience! :) xxxx

Me neither but I don't really care , I'm just loving the fact I actually have boobs xx

Toni I feel exactly the same as you and were very similar stat wise! Kind of wishing I went for overs now :-( xxx

Jessb123 wrote:Toni I feel exactly the same as you and were very similar stat wise! Kind of wishing I went for overs now :-( xxx

Haha same, babe :( My surgeon didn't even give me the option for overs though because I had barely any skin to start with! You're very early post-op though aren't you?xxx

3 weeks Hun did your skin stretch and feel soar after mind still hurt now feel like sun burn xxx

My surgeon has also told me mine are set far apart so won't get a cleavage without a good bra. Does this mean they look bad without a bra? I'm not sure what it means.

I'm still pre-op so sorry I can't help but I suspect I'll be asking the same question in a couple of months. Does anyone have any pics of BA results when they've been told they won't get a cleavage? Xx

Oh with overs, I'm getting overs.