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Not happy :O(
Feeling really down today. I am worrying about my wonky boobs. One sitts a little higher on my chest any way and we talked about this in my consultation. My PS said he would try to balance them out a bit when he did my op but I needed to be realistic.
Over the past two weeks though I am sure I have dropped any fluffed and one looks completely different to the other. My left looks much bigger. I have even noticed it in clothes.
I know before that there was also a bit more fat in the left than right but I am wondering if my PS should have used different sized implants.
I'm feeling really gutted an like I have wasted my money and not got what I wanted. They had been empty for so long that the slight wonkyness I had didn't even matter as they were so flat but now it seems magnified!
I have updated my picture trail. Please tell me I'm not going mad and that they are as wonky as I think they are. (nikkinoo14 - music100)
What do I do? Im thinking about emailing my PS? xx
Over the past two weeks though I am sure I have dropped any fluffed and one looks completely different to the other. My left looks much bigger. I have even noticed it in clothes.
I know before that there was also a bit more fat in the left than right but I am wondering if my PS should have used different sized implants.
I'm feeling really gutted an like I have wasted my money and not got what I wanted. They had been empty for so long that the slight wonkyness I had didn't even matter as they were so flat but now it seems magnified!
I have updated my picture trail. Please tell me I'm not going mad and that they are as wonky as I think they are. (nikkinoo14 - music100)
What do I do? Im thinking about emailing my PS? xx
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sorry to hear your not happy, im pre ba so cant give much advice but i would contact ur PS!
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Sezbaby2- BJSF Addict
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Huni x don't worry! Your still very early post op, it can take up to a year for them to properly settle and even out! X if you are concerned, contact your ps. I'm sure it's nothing to worry about, and they will even out. And I'm sure cookie will be along shortly to reassure you Hun x
Lisa34- BJSF Elite Member
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Just had a look at your photos and can see what you mean but please dont get yourself upset because as Lisa says you are still early on in recovery. I am a bit like this myself at the minute but i know there are still so many changes yet to come hun. Make sure to tell your surgeon and get it documented in your notes but please dont worry, changes yet to come and feel free to look at mine to compare if you want. For what it is worth you still have a cracking set and they will only get better from here =] x
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I just had a look at your picture trail, I can tell that one is bigger than the other but I did have to really look hard. It's not instantly noticeable. You said you already had this difference pre-op and implants will magnify it. If the difference was that big, then your ps would have used different sized implants. My pre-op boobs were not even, one sat higher than the other. My 1st BA magnified this, but I had it corrected when I had my 2nd BA. It can take up to the 6 month mark or longer to see the final result though, there is a lot of time left for them to change x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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Thanks princess. I just wish if this was likely to be a problem a bigger implant should have been used in the beginning.
How co we this was only changed in your 2nd ba? X
How co we this was only changed in your 2nd ba? X
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It's still very early days yet and almost no one is completely finished with changes by the 4 weeks mark. I hadn't even started any changes by 6 weeks. My boobs were wonky for a good few months and one of my breasts was noticeably smaller pre op, the smaller boob was the one that took the longest to heal staying higher and smaller looking until i was 7 months post op. I had the same size implants and now i can barely tell the difference between them it's so slight. It actually reduced the difference in my boobs having implants. My advice would be not to worry at the moment, bring it up at your next check up and make your surgeon aware of your concerns. They will usually ask you to wait 6 months to a year to see what changes you go through. I know how hard it is to think they will change but I promise you they do, if not there are things that can be done to help the implants drop. I think you are probably just going through the wonky boob stage and it will get better over time. It's best to think of your ba as 2 seperate operations done at the same time, which means each boob will have its own recovery time.
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aw sorry you feel like this, this is how ive been feeling and still feel now about mine and you can see one sits higer in tops etc when im clothed too
hope it all settles for you x
hope it all settles for you x
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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4 weeks is very early in your recovery hun.... However, in saying that I do see your concern.
I wouldn't panic and email your surgeon though hun. You generally have a consultation around the 6 week mark with your surgeon so give your boobs the two weeks till you see him and see how things go. You'll be VERY surprised at how much things can change in just 2 weeks.
But IF you're still concerned when you next see your surgeon babe then ensure everything 'you' say gets noted by your surgeon. If you're not sure what's written, don't be afraid to ask the surgeon to read out to you what is written.
Time really does make a great difference in healing and although they may seem wonky right now, overnight you could just wake up to the surprise of seeing perfect symmetry. Healing really is a mystery babe, so don't lose hope just yet. Give them time and see what your surgeon says when you next meet hun.
Big hugs for you Nikki... I know what its like to be so worried so sending a big cuddle for you hun
Also Nikki, this section of the forum is visible to guests, this means the information you've added to your post to access your picturetrail could be seen by anyone including men if they wanted to, so if you'd me to remove those details and you can just PM them to those who want to see I can do that lovely. But if you'd rather they stayed... That's fine too hun xx
I wouldn't panic and email your surgeon though hun. You generally have a consultation around the 6 week mark with your surgeon so give your boobs the two weeks till you see him and see how things go. You'll be VERY surprised at how much things can change in just 2 weeks.
But IF you're still concerned when you next see your surgeon babe then ensure everything 'you' say gets noted by your surgeon. If you're not sure what's written, don't be afraid to ask the surgeon to read out to you what is written.
Time really does make a great difference in healing and although they may seem wonky right now, overnight you could just wake up to the surprise of seeing perfect symmetry. Healing really is a mystery babe, so don't lose hope just yet. Give them time and see what your surgeon says when you next meet hun.
Big hugs for you Nikki... I know what its like to be so worried so sending a big cuddle for you hun
Also Nikki, this section of the forum is visible to guests, this means the information you've added to your post to access your picturetrail could be seen by anyone including men if they wanted to, so if you'd me to remove those details and you can just PM them to those who want to see I can do that lovely. But if you'd rather they stayed... That's fine too hun xx
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Did you ask your ps if different sized implants were needed? Usually you only get given different sizes if the difference in boob size is "big" enough. And it wasn't mentioned when I had my first BA for some reason! I was practically flat so I didn't know myself one was higher than the other, I never looked at them. I noticed it after I had the implants, then my 2nd PS corrected it x
Princess_x- BJSF Elite Member
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hun i'm sorry you're feeling a bit down at the moment!
still being pre ba myself i can really only echo what the other girls have said, and give it time!
but i also do think that you should speak to your pa about this since it is something clearly concerning you that much. just see what he says hun.
big hugs, and fingers crossed for changes still to come xx
still being pre ba myself i can really only echo what the other girls have said, and give it time!
but i also do think that you should speak to your pa about this since it is something clearly concerning you that much. just see what he says hun.
big hugs, and fingers crossed for changes still to come xx
Blueeyedsoul13- BJSF Elite Member
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I can see the difference, but you are still early post op and they are not a big enough difference to be noticeable in clothes or bras.
However can I just say how amazing your boobs look though! Such a good size and really natural looking.
They look a 100 times better than my crazy ass boobs, I just try not to look at mine.
However can I just say how amazing your boobs look though! Such a good size and really natural looking.
They look a 100 times better than my crazy ass boobs, I just try not to look at mine.
suzifaye- BJSF Addict
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What's happening with you suzie? Your avi looks great, as usual! Have you spoken to your ps? X
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Thanks - they look alright clothed!
He thinks they will settle and even out more but I just have to be patient. I'm still seeing changes so I'm a little more hopeful than I was. But I'll be seeing him again in a few months.
Gah, boobs are so stressful! When are you due to see your PS?
He thinks they will settle and even out more but I just have to be patient. I'm still seeing changes so I'm a little more hopeful than I was. But I'll be seeing him again in a few months.
Gah, boobs are so stressful! When are you due to see your PS?
suzifaye- BJSF Addict
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That's good news they are changing still.
Seeing mine on the first. Fingers crossed one is going to miraculously grow! X
Seeing mine on the first. Fingers crossed one is going to miraculously grow! X
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Sorry to hear ur feeling unhappy about ur boobies now. I'm sure most of us have or will go through that feeling at some stage of their healing.
I've had a look at ur picture trail and the difference was barely noticeable, I only noticed it cuz I was looking for it. It could also only mean that ur boobs are at different stages of the healing process. I'm sure ur tired of hearing it by now, but I really think that in time it will even out.
Otherwise, I think uve got an amazing result and a very natural looking pair xx
I've had a look at ur picture trail and the difference was barely noticeable, I only noticed it cuz I was looking for it. It could also only mean that ur boobs are at different stages of the healing process. I'm sure ur tired of hearing it by now, but I really think that in time it will even out.
Otherwise, I think uve got an amazing result and a very natural looking pair xx
angie8131- BJSF Elite Member
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Also can I ask u what kind of uplift did u have? I can't see any scars in the usual areas....
angie8131- BJSF Elite Member
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Thanks Angie. My nipples were. Still in the right place if was underneath that had sagged so he just took away the excess skin from the breast crease. I just have a long scar all the way round underneath. i don't think it has a name. I couldn't find any info on it anywhere. My ps showed me pics of other ladies and the result was v good. Bonus of no visa le scaring either :0)
I hope everyone's right. Righties been the same for 2 weeks now. Hopefully it will change soon x
I hope everyone's right. Righties been the same for 2 weeks now. Hopefully it will change soon x
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Wow, that's really good, u don't get any extra scarring! They'll even up soon ull see x
angie8131- BJSF Elite Member
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Hey Nikki, i just took a quick peek - i think they look amazing! very natural. I can see a slight diff in the size in some of the photos - not obvious though, only if you were really looking for it. And you're really early days - i'm 5 months and still changing by the week xxxxx
jogo- BJSF Addict
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Hey babe xx
Can I have a peek?
My righty is slightly bigger than lefty and sat slightly lower so my ps lowered my crease on righty.
It means if you really look you can tell but it's only very slight.
You are welcome to see what I mean babe pm me xx
Can I have a peek?
My righty is slightly bigger than lefty and sat slightly lower so my ps lowered my crease on righty.
It means if you really look you can tell but it's only very slight.
You are welcome to see what I mean babe pm me xx
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