Picture trail
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Picture trail
Just been taking some pre op pics for my picture trail on my ipad when my OH came in and said what you doing? So I told him. He's gone mad! Hit the roof infact and that's not like him at all. He doesn't want ' naked' pictures of me all over the Internet. I've explained that's not the case but he doesn't understand at all. I'm so upset , I really want to put my pics/story on there.
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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Aww chick he probably just doesnt understand and thinks that any top **naughty word** or harry can look at your pictures and he'll want your new boobies all to himself Try and explain to him, hope you're ok xx
LouiseR11- BJSF Addict
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Aw bless ya! i agree i dont think he understands, the fact you have to give the person a password should be enough to prove that it is private? try talking to him after the op when its all blown over hun :) xx
Jasmine Sharpe- BJSF Addict
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It's probably just come as a bit of a shock to him, maybe he will understand a bit better when he sees what your owing through on your ba day. It's up to you what you want to do but I'm sure he'll come round. Think my boyfriend was a bit shocked when I suggested it too x
vickeysmith- BJSF Addict
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I'm banging my head against a brick wall here!
I've explained everything, he knows I've been on here and looking at picture trails for ages and its all password protected. He says I could be showing anyone and once there on the Internet they're always there and can get leaked, Christ no ones going to be that interested in my boobs other than girls wanting to know the progress of them!! Why are men so childish at times xx
I've explained everything, he knows I've been on here and looking at picture trails for ages and its all password protected. He says I could be showing anyone and once there on the Internet they're always there and can get leaked, Christ no ones going to be that interested in my boobs other than girls wanting to know the progress of them!! Why are men so childish at times xx
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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You are gorgeous char and like Louise said he probably just wants you all to himself! Maybe stop thinking about it and go back to thinking about the op and how excited you are! xx
Jasmine Sharpe- BJSF Addict
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Ahh yeah, been here too. My other half wasnt comfortable with it at all either, he thought anyone could see them and thought I was taking pictures for someone else at first!
JustPeachy- BJSF Addict
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Aw hun, give him a chance to calm down and then chat to him about it. Men can be very weird sometimes.
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JustPeachy do you have a picture trail? you are roughly the same size as i wish to go, would love to have a look if you dont mind xx
Jasmine Sharpe- BJSF Addict
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ive made sure my head isnt in the pics as people can get into sites like pictrail even if its password protected, the wee computer guy got onto my facebook no prob at my work on his laptop so its not like he was just getting something saved on my work PC and on that
but i think that if you let the dust settle and see what he says xx
but i think that if you let the dust settle and see what he says xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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I've gone through it with him. "Charlotte I don't care what other girls do I'm not happy with your boobs being on the Internet, not pre op and not post op"
Even telling him all the girls do it he replys with well if there so many picture trails why do you need to do one. Sorry I'm ranting!! Soo peed off, wish I'd never said anything about it and just carried on
Even telling him all the girls do it he replys with well if there so many picture trails why do you need to do one. Sorry I'm ranting!! Soo peed off, wish I'd never said anything about it and just carried on
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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Oh he says he's fine with bikini and bra pics! It's my body I should do as I please but I know it's genuinely upsetting him and I know he wouldn't do that to me! Xx
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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Hugs hunni xx He may come round but who knows with men!! Dont worry about it and good luck with your ba x
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Thanks misty, thanks ladies.. I've been so excited up to now but now I feel boobie blues because of one silly thing! Wow so weird to get so emotional, I was doing so well xx
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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Jasmine Sharpe wrote:JustPeachy do you have a picture trail? you are roughly the same size as i wish to go, would love to have a look if you dont mind xx
Hi Jasmine, no I haven't done a picturetrail but you are the second person to ask me today so I am considering it!
CharFaye wrote:Thanks misty, thanks ladies.. I've been so excited up to now but now I feel boobie blues because of one silly thing! Wow so weird to get so emotional, I was doing so well xx
Char, you will go through many mixed emotions before your BA and after - just check out my posts before my op in Sept! I was high as a kite at one point, painting my kitchen at god knows what time!xx
JustPeachy- BJSF Addict
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I've been like that the whole time, I can't get to sleep for ages because I'm so excited! Planning holidays nights out and all sorts but this has upset me!! Grr.
I suppose I can still do one in bikinis and bras? He can't moan at me putting close up of my scars can he?! Xx
I suppose I can still do one in bikinis and bras? He can't moan at me putting close up of my scars can he?! Xx
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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If it's just your scars I don't see the issue but I would let the dust settle first, take the pictures you want, even if it's just for your own memories and keep a hold of them, do nothing with them until you talk it through.xx
JustPeachy- BJSF Addict
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Big hugs char.... Give him a bit of time to cool down.... These boys need to be handled with care lol..... It probably just threw him.
My oh didnt like it to start with .... Now he is grateful I have you girls to share them with rather than making him look every 5 seconds! :)
Xxx
My oh didnt like it to start with .... Now he is grateful I have you girls to share them with rather than making him look every 5 seconds! :)
Xxx
Lucytugwell27- BJSF Addict
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Your right peachy ill see how it goes xx
Haha that's a good point, lets hope he gets sick of them! Xx
Lucytugwell27 wrote:
My oh didnt like it to start with .... Now he is grateful I have you girls to share them with rather than making him look every 5 seconds! :)
Xxx
Haha that's a good point, lets hope he gets sick of them! Xx
CharFaye- BJSF Elite Member
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Don't let it spoil your excitement.... This is YOUR adventure.... Enjoy it xx
Lucytugwell27- BJSF Addict
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why dont you explain to.him pictrails help people like me who wont give my password out yet cause im still unhappy and worried the way mines looks xx
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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Aww tink, hope they start settling enough for you soon xx
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